was called a radfem as an insult lol
I'm not even a radfem but I guess it's an insult now
I'm not a feminist and will never be, feminists hate me "sexualising" women. Being attracted to women means seeing their bodies as sexual and that bothers them. I love characters in video games with big breasts, I love things that are seen as "male gaze".
I won't feel sorry for my sexual orientation. I won't call all women sisters. I see their bodies as sexual.
being gender critical has changed my life for the better for sure
I feel more free than ever as a woman, I know I still have alot to improve on but it taught me to accept my body and the kind of woman I am
This is the power of female individualists. Not all women can be like this and those who are get silenced by violence, hate and force in our society because people are intimidated by them so much.
Anyways, yeah this is the kind of woman I'd get on my knees for whenever, wherever.
Every single time I watch princess mononoke I can't help but root for lady eboshi a lot more than I probably should. She's the fearless female leader of iron town who commands absolute respect from her townspeople, puts an emphasis on improving the working and fighting capabilities of the other women in the town (many of whom are former brothel girls who were mistreated and underpaid in the past) despite the men disagreeing and mocking her for it, and is the only ruler who has ever viewed the lepers as people, even encouraging them to do what work they can and valuing their contributions.
why do you call yourself cisgender?
kinda out of necessity as there are people who think I'm a man if I don't "prove it" somehow
I mean, I had to deal with people who lied about themselves as well and whenever I look at someone's profile I have to analyse everything to make sure. I thought no trans person would likely use "cis" to describe themselves.
but there are people who legit accuse me of being a guy maybe because of the way I talk or whatever because yes, I have some very masculine interests and personality traits
I totally understand disliking the term but for me there are words that piss me off more and I don't really consider it a slur. Tbh I'd much rather ask why some lesbians call themselves "dyke" or "queer", those words disgust me more.
recently I found a really cool male coach
and I think I'm also dissapointed in men as well
he's an older guy but he isn't like those therapists in my city
All they care about is:
- parties
- fucking
- they go to gym only to look buff and flex
Are sexist assholes and/or wimps with fragile masculinity.
I feel like a big part of it is this show off gender bs eating at people's brains, no matter if they're a man or a woman all they care about is putting on a show for people to prove their femininity/masculinity and affirm it.
Secure femininity/masculinity doesn't need to prove itself so badly. It goes beyond gender ideology. This whole obsession with gender concept and conformity is fucked.
It's literally eating at people's brains like a parasite.
arranged marriage is rape
there is no "it's a different culture" excuse - it's rape. period .
I hate how in my woke uni they're teaching us that there is "different morality" than morality that is against women being raped and treated like objects. Leftism will defend rape of women as long as the rapist isn't white and christian.
sometimes you have to look over the wall to remind yourself that - it's not okay
looking over the wall of a place you're feeling safe in can give you an insight into what's fucked about this world
take that lesson - have courage to be different
say: "NO" even if you're the only one who says it, be the example
it honestly motivates me as bad as it is, it really does... every horrible thing I see tells me that I should be different and that I should protect others who were in the same position I was in, especially if everyone else seems to be ignorant about it
it took me a while to realise that some life lessons are really freaking painful and it's normal to cry, to feel pain and fear but also listen to what that pain is telling you "this is not okay" "this is wrong" "it shouldn't be this way"
most of the time - your body is right
be different, do better