Male: Women don't like playing games, women are soooo boring. Woman: I do play games. Male: "These games don't count!" or "Women can't play games, go back to the kitchen."
Male: You're a housewife so you're inferior. Woman: I have a career and work outside. Male: Oh so you're a slave of the government? i feel bad for you.
Male: Women's lives revolves around men, they only care about men. Woman: I'm working on myself and have no interest in romantic relationships. Male: You're so selfish! you will die sad and alone!!
Male: How am i supposed to know women suffer if they never say anything? Woman: Being a woman is difficult, i'm tired of misogyny. Male: Stop being dramatic feminist! Being a woman is paradise and i'm a better woman than you!!
When you realize males are below you, you start to care less and less about these phrases. Still, they can impact your mental health. Sometimes women hear these so often, they start believing and direct it to other women.
For men you will NEVER be enough, and you shouldn't try to be.
Kink culture isn’t liberation. It’s the pornified, capitalist, patriarchal repackaging of male violence, sold back as liberation. Whats up with u eroticising ur subjugation and calling him daddy while he chokes you like a victim in a femicide case? Strangulation is the first predictor of domestic homicide, but sure, slap a safe word on it and call it empowerment
sure have your neoliberal “choice” bullshit but consent under patriarchy is coerced by default… conditioned from birth to submit, to please, to accept pain as sexy
its pumped into every aspect of mainstream media, normalizing it so thoroughly and, no, im not about trying to policing your sex life it’s about recognizing that if your pleasure depends on the ritualized humiliation of women, then your pleasure is political, and your politics are shit
idk interrogate ur desires
i dream of having a radfem bestie so bad
it feels like everyone i speak to has some internalized misogyny
once you start noticing how casually misogyny is incorporated into society theres literally NO going back. look at our insults! theres so many words to degrade womyn just existing the same as men.
bitch, slut, whore, cunt are just used to insult us for being confident/sexually active.
even passive terms like crazy cat lady and calling confident young girls 'bossy' ARE contributing to this!
the first step to unlearning internalized misogyny is learning to stop using terms like these.
sick of ppl calling themselves feminists and then being highly uneducated. just halfassing it. i wish to be that peaceful and ignorant but unfortunately im not dense like that :/
or worse they say feminism is for everyone and not just for women
Nobody really talks about how lonely it can be as a radfem, especially how alienated you feel from other women. The continuous betrayal and ridicule you’ll experience from the same people who agree with surface-level feminist analyses is so disheartening.
You’re eager to criticize poor male behavior yet you also vehemently deny real-world oppression that we all suffer from? Acknowledging the wage gap and sexual violence statistics is all fun and games but deconstructing anything beyond that is somehow taking things too far? Do you not see the irony in condemning things like the cosmetic industry while degrading other women who choose not to shave?
I want to know at what point they think the oppression of women starts and stops. Do you genuinely believe that thousands of years of misogyny simply disappears overnight? Is it truly the case that your father, your brother, your boyfriend have miraculously been deprogrammed and it’s all other men that are the problem?
Everyone wants to shit on men until it comes time to reconcile with the fact that the majority of them actively and intentionally contribute to maintaining a patriarchal society. Then it just gets too real
men saying "happy womens day" is the most shallow shit ever because that's all they'll ever do to acknowledge that we're even human
International women's day is coming up soon....and I'm so fucking angry about it.
It's a farce of a day.
Men take the day to post photos of their wives/sisters/mothers/daughters before going straight back to watching videos of trafficked women and girls being raped online (pornhub).
Before going back to toxic chat groups and sharing their most normalised and vile thoughts on women with one another, or asking for tips on how to sedate and rape them (telegram).
Before going back to their jobs where women are usually paid less than them for the same work, and talking about how difficult and bossy 'Karen' is for having the backbone to set her own boundaries and not laugh at their unfunny jokes.
Unless you're posting a receipt of money you've donated to a women's organisation, I don't want to fucking hear it.
I don't want to see your pictures of your exhausted wife who does all the house work after coming home from her job, I don't want to see photos of your daughter that you're already talking over and down to in comparison to your sons.
Hold your gross fucking friends accountable for the vitriol they spread or sit down and shut up.
My misandrist, radical feminist awakening has me seeing every dimension of life as inherently misogynistic..I'm completely consumed by it.
'mens rights' dont exist theyre just mens extra privileges on top of the thousand privileges they already have
btw trump giving medals to mothers who have 6+ kids is exactly what hitler did