Casual Intimacy With Your Fictional Lover, Which Can Apply To Platonic F/os:

sometimes i forget this but like its ok to have a lot of lore for ur selfships and its ok to have like no lore for ur selfships. its cool to have pages on pages of headcanons and fics and drawings and its ok to just see a character and go that's my f/o now. its epic to have a fully fleshed out s/i and tons of ideas and its pog to have none at all. don't be too hard on yourself or ever feel any less valid for not having as much detail to your ships as others and never feel bad or annoying about having too much either cause it's not possible and there's no one right way to selfship

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Your f/o fantasizes about you, do you know that? When they’re bored, when they’re stressed, when they’re sad… you’re on their mind. They think about your smile, your laugh, your joy. They think about what it’s like to hold you, to be held by you. They think about your kisses, your touches—so full of love, so soft .

You always seem to occupy their mind, such a lovely presence in their life .

this is a reminder for selfshippers that its okay to make your f/os obsessed with you. so true they WOULD think about you all the time. so true they WOULD bring you up in every conversation. the world could be ending and your f/o would only mourn not getting to give you enough affection

Imagine showering your f/o in kisses!

Imagine cupping their head in your hands, pressing your lips into every feature on their face. Cradling them close as you give them all your love. How would their demeanor shift? Content smiles or blushy giggles? Maybe they’re laughing and bashfully trying to wiggle away! You won’t let them, of course. Perhaps they give a reluctant smile as you continue; kissing their jaw, shoulders, hands, any and every part of them!

No inch shall be left without your affection.

proship no touch !!

your f/o totally has a soft spot for you! they prioritize you over anything else, they adore you and most definitely melt whenever they see you around ♡ plus, whether they happily admit it or not, there’s no denying just how much you stun them when you walk into the room. how dazed they are when you smile at them. how quick they are to lose their composure because of you. their loved ones might tease them about how easily you seem to make them swoon, which is pretty embarrassing, but they can’t help it – it’s true!

if they’re calm and relaxed or already easily flustered from the get go, whatever, you just.. affect them somehow. their heart skips a beat and wheww, they’d do anything for you! trust me.

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f/o who doesn’t know they’re touchstarved until they meet you.

the heavy want grows in their chest and is absolutely undeniably there whenever you two even just briefly touch. when you’re so close that they’re so desperate have you closer, wanting to feel their body pressed against yours in a tight embrace, that the thought of your hand in theirs is barely enough. when you two finally hug, or whenever you do, they sink into your embrace almost immediately, a deep sigh of content heard as they wrap their arms around you to return the tender hug. it’s a little hard to get their arms off you afterward, with those small mumbles of “just a little longer” and “i don’t want to let go yet.”

maybe they’re super embarrassed about feeling so at first and are so glad whenever you indulge in their desire to have you, to feel your warmth. or they’re incredibly stubborn about it but their actions always say otherwise, finding every little chance to have their skin touch yours, to quietly tug on your sleeve or any other sign that you immediately know what they want with it.

eitherway they’re forever thankful that you’re so understanding. with the little touches you guys end up doing like from simply pushing a strand of hair behind an ear or running fingers through each other’s hair, they’re absolutely addicted. smitten, even, so incredibly much that they can’t put their love for this, for you into words.

Stoic F/Os losing their composure around you,,,, getting flustered and blushy when you laugh or smile at them,,,,

your platonic f/o is holding your hands because they are excited to see you. how wouldn't they? they've been thinking about little plans they want to make a reality with you and every minute spent with you is like a treasure to them, having you as their friend must feel like having their own sun!

In your f/os eyes, nobody compares to you. To them, you are the best thing that's ever happened to them, and they'll always cherish you. You never have to worry about being taken for granted. They'll always remind you of your worth and how much you mean to them.

 friendly reminder that every time your f/o thinks about you they get the cartoon hearts floating around them. friendly reminder that when you walk into a room your f/o lights up and everyone can see just how much they care. friendly reminder that every time you brush up against your f/o they feel their heart rate increase and a warmth spreads over them. friendly reminder that your voice brings your f/o’s mind to happy places and pleasant feelings. you affect your f/o just like they affect you.