she/her fat trans dyke, late 20s milf, yeahhhh I'm basically the dog in luv with a bug š @opillionest
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have you noticed how there is no acceptable thing for a trans lesbian to be, even within queer and feminist spaces? everything that is applauded as progressive, subversive, and powerful for tme queers to do, transfems are hated for.
you can't be a strong, aggressive woman, you can't speak your mind and be openly feminist, you certainly can't be angry, or the same queers who will praise outspoken tme women will turn around and call you a dangerous man. and god forbid you be a man-hating feminist dyke while butch, any touch of masculinity in your presentation will be further snatched up as proof that you're really a man trying to invade women's spaces.
you can't be sexual, you can't be proud of your body, you can't enjoy women's bodies, you can't be a lesbian who likes being a lesbian, or else the otherwise "sex positive" tme queers will accuse you of fetishizing womanhood, of being a predator, a straight man in disguise. and don't you dare commit the cardinal sin of actually liking having a penis, because everyone knows that penis is the ontologically evil weapon of the enemy!
but then, you can't be femme either. you can't enjoy feminine presentation, you can't want to be small and cutesy, you can't like makeup and spinny skirts, otherwise you're accused of reinforcing patriarchy and gender roles, of making a mockery of women, of wearing stereotypes like a costume. these accusations will all be thrown at you by tme queers who tag transmisogynistic caricatures as "gender goals", and who applaud the "femboy" but only before she comes out, only so long as they can say she's just a progressive role-smashing cis boy.
of course it goes without saying that the conservatives, the cishet men who want us to be their dirty little secrets, their lifeless sex toy, an object of desire and target for violence, of course they hate us. but it's not just the conservatives. no matter how you act, how you present yourself, how you feel and express your relationship to womanhood, to femininity, no matter how meek or outspoken you are, tme queers will criticize and ostracize and attack you for doing the very things they praise each other for.
there is no way to earn a way into their good graces, no way to be progressive or subversive in the "right" way, so long as they view the inherent fact of our transfemininity as too subversive, too perverse, to exist the first place.
two beautiful paths lay before you
This is the story bout a boy named shinji living in the flooded streets of NEW ORLEANS gendo shinjis father is a scientist okay, he built a giant robot for shinjis birthday, shinjis friend Rei knows how to bust a cap, when she's not fighting aliens she's taking a nap, without asuka from Germany everybody would be lost, her people are responsible for the holo graphic map shinji said thanks daddy can I take it for a whirl and use it to help my friends save the world, come on shinji, let's get this party on and kick alien but in your Evangelion, yo! Shinji, get in the robot, your dad loves you, get in the robot, cockpits too small for a grown up, kick, some, butt in your robot, yo! Shinji, your friends love u, get in the robot, aliens get scared when u show up, kick their butts in your robot, yo! Shinji, get in the robot, it's not an Eva, it's a robot, don't eat a rice ball, eat a donut, get in side your ro BOT
This is the story bout a boy named shinji living in the flooded streets of NEW ORLEANS gendo shinjis father is a scientist okay, he built a giant robot for shinjis birthday, shinjis friend Rei knows how to bust a cap, when she's not fighting aliens she's taking a nap, without asuka from Germany everybody would be lost, her people are responsible for the holo graphic map shinji said thanks daddy can I take it for a whirl and use it to help my friends save the world, come on shinji, let's get this party on and kick alien but in your Evangelion, yo! Shinji, get in the robot, your dad loves you, get in the robot, cockpits too small for a grown up, kick, some, butt in your robot, yo! Shinji, your friends love u, get in the robot, aliens get scared when u show up, kick their butts in your robot, yo! Shinji, get in the robot, it's not an Eva, it's a robot, don't eat a rice ball, eat a donut, get in side your ro BOT
Reblog to start an evil dog village
"after we are done here lets all escape and start a evil dog village "
going back in time and convincing Allison Bechdel to pursue a career in drawing the lesbian version of ugly bastard hentai instead of semi autobio newspaper strips and when I come back to the modern day the soviet union has won the cold war
public transportation is very good
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Idk if I'm bipolar or if I just got all this other shit going on
stop conforming to cis pressures and come lez out with the cross dressers
this is the full video of patti lupone breaking the sound barrier at the 1988 tony awards btw
I am so sick and tired of seeing the trans women around me being slowly hot coaled into the closet and into essentially being forced back into "Men who would really love being women but Can't because they Aren't". It is so painful stop fucking doing this to our trans women. Stop forcing them to be "Fine" with being called dude bro man he and biologically male stop it stop it stop it you are killing her. You are killing her.
Listen up, doll. You're going to go to the link I provided below. You're going to add this book to your shopping cart and buy it. You're going to read it all and leave a 5 star review. Then you're going to share it with all your friends and encourage them to buy a copy too.
I'm going through an immensely difficult time right now and I'm barely holding on. Please send me a few dollars so i can get something to eat today. My paypal is petgirl69420
āa light insideā - peruvian trans women photographed by danielle villasana
'because im nubby' pharell william's 'happy' 'nubby's number factory' song parity
I own nothing
all song/game belong to pharell william
yayy the emptiness #myemptiness
I found it
Yakuza but it's yuri
Stop drinking Wine with the Swine and come drink Cider with a Spider ā
im isobel and i hate to do this but kind im of fucked rn, im unemployed, no jobs have gotten back to me in like 3 months and iām struggling to keep the lights on and gas in my car let alone food for myself. debt and bills are starting to pile up on top of everyday life maintenance and ive been making the choice to go to bed hungry rather than risk any more losses.
im trying my hardest to get out of the state or at least to secure some kind of employment to start getting to the point where i can. its an āanything helpsā type situation but iām shooting for 200 for food and utilities
please please please reblog and if its possible for you to donate a little i'd appreciate it a lot
C4$h4pp
stressful days
I was literally saying to my bf last night that we will never get SBR anime due to the all the horse visuals, all the horse technique sections, all the horse mechanics and because of how goofing the 'spin' would communicate into live animation. So I think maybe I summoned this with my negative Nancy aura
Steel Ball Run anime key visual, Part 7 anime confirmed!!
āWhat if by feeling and expressing my emotions I was actually being manipulativeā - the transfem motto