Also if this is a stranger or someone who isn’t very close to you make sure you keep a respectable distance (about arms length) and keep you tone polite and positive (you look very nice in that dress vs. HEY YOU NICE DRESS). From personal experience even when the compliment isn’t threatening or sexual it is still scary when a guy invades your space to compliment you, or when they yell it at you.
Though I whole heatedly encourage guys to compliment girls, it is important to remember not to make a scene about it unless it is someone you know won’t mind.
I understand that following all these steps can be confusing and a little hard to follow but I assure you it is better to try and be polite rather than enthusiastic when talking to strangers.
I’m sorry for hijacking the post I just really wanted to put my little two cents in.
So, if im a boy and i want to compliment a girl, idk on her make up or clothes and etc, will it not make her uncomfortable? Not in a hit up way more of a i like your style, would it be ok? Im sorry if it sounds stupid sfjjxfxkhd im bad at communicating
I know what you mean. For most women, no, a general compliment won’t offend or scare them—and might actually brighten their day tremendously. I think a good rule of thumb in situations like these are if it’s sexual, don’t say it.
Respectful/safe examples:- your eyebrows look so good!- your makeup is poppin!- I love your outfit!- nice shoes!- your hair looks so pretty like that!
Disrespectful/unsafe examples:- nice tits!- your body is so sexy- you have a big ass- *wolf whistling* - I bet you’re good in bed
Given, every person is different. Some women may like being complimented on their body, but a lot of us don’t, ESPECIALLY when the compliments are coming from strangers. Basically, if your goal is to not make anyone uncomfortable or to avoid the possibility of making someone uncomfortable, the “respectful examples” are some decent ones to stick to. Anything semi-flirty or sexual can be risky.
I appreciate the fact that you cared enough to ask and don’t want to upset anyone. thank you for the kindness and consideration. have a great day! 💛
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Iron Bull and Blackwall both have soft chubby tummies and if you draw them with a toned 6-pack I will personally come into your house, move all your furniture 3 inches to the right and steal every one of your left shoes
YAS! All or nothing is going to be a thing!
let me know if you guy want an extra pair of hands on the project ;)
SO I FOUND THIS AND I HAVE ACE/DEMI FRIENDS AND WE ARE DOING THIS ALRIGHT TUMBLR PEOPLE TIME TO WRITE A SCRIPT! ((Aka msg me or ask me stuff to write a script! We’ll be making a youtube channel and it will all be 30 mins long each episode someone else with the script!))
We will be making a few changes, because we’re adding in a lot of my friends which are all different genders and sexualities. So ye! Please reblog if you thing we should do this!!
heartbreaking and disgusting
Excuse you, How dare you disrespect such a honorable person, he started at the bottom and worked his way to the top through blood sweat and tears. A person who cares so much about his family,does not deserve such disrespect.
Scrooge McDuck is a hardworking family man and does not deserve to be associated with that piece of shit that calls himself a president!
i’m very tired, forgot what clickhole was, and forgot that i had a wordfilter on that replaces every instance of the name “donald trump” with “scrooge mcduck” so needless to say i thought i was having a stroke
This ^^^
I really want to see more cis boys who like boys being actively supportive of trans boys who like boys bc I’m tired of being afraid to flirt or form friendships with other queer guys bc I don’t know if they really see me as a guy
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Good news for you, this August 23rd.
Gryffindor pride today!
A quick reminder because I very nearly forgot myself, but house pride week is coming up y’all
House pride week is just a fun chance to show off your love for your hogwarts house and the parts of your personality it represents so it’d be great to get lots of people involved by:
wearing your house colours
sharing your art
posting love for your fellow house members
or anything else you fancy
If you want to get involved, use the relevant #housepride tag (e.g. #slytherinpride) and I’ll be sharing people’s selfies, art, etc for a celebration of each of the houses on the relevant blog
(and yes I’ll try and post a reminder the day before so we don’t forget haha)
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