Fr So Confused Why People Have Issue With Me Saying Its Ableist To Treat A Mental Disorder (OSDDID) Like

MEET NEOGLOWRATZ

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•he/they/it/rat/ze

•DID, NPD, ADHD, ASD, OCD, Bipolar, GERD, EDS, Gastroparesis, POTS, MCAS, Scoliosis

•This is my chaos blog, kinda just post whatever on here

•We have a seperate blog for our littles and a few other specific alter blogs (not willing to share them on this account)

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Fandoms we write for:

•Marauders

•Spiderman/MCU/Team Red

•Batfam

•Creepypasta/Slendervers

•Teenwolf

•Six of Crows/Shadow and Bone

•The Pitt

art post caus i think i totally did something cool

its based off the song "Secrets" by Mary Lambert

I've been relating to this song for years and even more so rn as I struggle so heavily with my bipolar and my dissociation

BRVR

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oh to have someone that would be willing to be a statue holding my hand for forever

only in my wildest dreams

maybe some npd positivity or rescources on how someone with npd can recover?

hey! i hope you're well <3

here are some articles i found:

narcissism self help website

how to stop being a narcissist

14 tips on how to not be a narcissist

how to stop being a narcissist: 8 key steps

yes, narcissists can change (here's how)

what it's like to be a diagnosed narcissist

how to stop being a narcissist according to 11 experts

the arduous work of treating narcissism: a therapist's guide

self-help for narcissists

7 steps to changing your narcissistic responses

10 stages in the treatment of narcissistic disorders

how to treat narcissistic personality disorder

3 strategies for recovering narcissists

9 types of entitlement tendencies and how to overcome them

i do want to say that some of these articles have negative language. to be honest i don't know all that much about npd specifically, so i did a lot of research. i was so shocked at how little i could find, and how much is straight up vilifying or about victims of narcissistic abuse and not people with npd. im sure you know this already, but im still horrified. i will be making an effort to post more npd positivity, as recovering is possible and there should be a lot of it.

also, knowing that you are struggling with a personality disorder and wanting to improve is a great first step. im proud of you!

you are worthy of recovery, and you deserve it. i promise

love, emma <3

Something I really loved about episode two of Moon Knight was that when Arthur called Steven broken, he immediately defended himself and said "I'm not broken, I just need some help". Really loved that little message Marvel threw in that people with mental illnesses are not broken and they just need help.

spite is great

cleaned all the dishes, took out five bags of trash and moved my boxes

though also chronic illness and doing all of that is not reccommended -10000/10

somehow i managed to trigger a flare up of literally everything at once and now i cant walk wihtout being in incredible pain, my head hurts, im nauseous af, and i keep feinting and having hot flashes. just hoping the seizures dont start now.

It’s like talking about alters as “whole people” makes DID more palatable for others somehow.  If they can view us as just this quirky cast of characters who happen to share a body then it’s less sad, or maybe even less disturbing. They can reframe it into something that might even sound fun or beneficial to them, like “3 friends for the price of 1!” 

I’m starting to think that viewing us as one whole traumatized person with many dissociated parts is just too depressing and too “weird” for a lot of people. It’s harder for them to wrap their heads around. They can’t grasp the way we are both disconnected from each other and still a part of each other. They can’t make sense of the way we overlap and blend together. We don’t fit into neat little boxes. We aren’t a straight forward cast of characters. 

dude i already know your take

its not like ive been disagreeing with you without looking at your page

we're obviously not going to agree on this topic. i honestly think i see it a certain way and that i see it like that due to my autism and can't wrap my head around any other way due to that. its chill that you cant see it the same way i can due to not having the right vocabulary to describe my opinion properly.

why tf do endos treat being a system like its an identity that you can pick and choose to label? why do they constantly push the transphobic rhetoric of using "traumascum" to refer to traumatized individuals that just dont want people to treat their symptoms like its fun?

being plural/being a system is nothing like being lgbtq+ and i really think we need to stop treating it as such

yes we are a community, but this community is one formed on the basis of being traumatized as kids, its not based on something we choose to refer to ourselves as

we need to be there to support each other but not blindly. we need to help spread information to others with the symptoms so they can receive help.

you wouldnt treat people with personality disorders the way you treat systems so why is it acceptable to treat systems this way?