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OKAY! This is in my wheelhouse cause I kinda was in like this exact situation my junior year and I’ve been on a roll with advice lately so I’m here to help. I’m a credible source cause it worked out for me!

First off, idk how long ago the break up was at this point but im assuming a week to a month ago. Let her grieve the relationship, and then go to her. No matter how much you like him, or he likes you, girl code is real. Admit to her you have a thing for him, that you think he might have a think for you, talk to her.

I’ve been in positions where I’ve had sorta kinda relationships with people and after it ended friends swooped in and stole the guy. Looking back, I wouldn’t have been so mad if they had just told me they liked him!

Consult her, let her know where you stand, don’t ask for her permission, ask her opinion. Would it make your friendship die if you ever did something with this guy? What would she think if she were you?

And you’ll get one of three answers.

“Don’t care”

She does, maybe she doesn’t feel ready to see him move on, she might harbor a resentment towards you, she might not. 50/50 coin toss, personally I would steer clear of him.

“Go ahead”

She understands, she agrees, she won’t hold this against you, you didn’t do anything wrong. She’ll appreciate that you cared to ask! Go for him!!

“No”

It’s a simple response. The way you handle that is your decision. You can uphold the friendship with her and respect her wish, or say fuck it. I wouldn’t but if you want him that bad, throw caution to the wind.

No matter the response understand that he does have feelings for you. When it’s a gut instinct like this, it’s generally correct.

You won’t lose friends over this as long as you don’t treat their relationship as if it were a road block for you. If anyone says anything let them know you talked with her, you cleared the air. On top of that, you don’t know every persons previous relationships because the fact you’re newer. If people take issue with you, remind them of that fact. Chalk it up to ignorance, innocent and naïvety!

If you think it’d work with him, don’t worry that much.

I wish you endless luck

xoxo K

girls i need advice!! help!!!

so i’m completely new to the school i’m at, and everyone else has known each other for practically their whole lives. and i’m still trying to figure out who’s friends with who, who likes who, who hates who, etc..

ANYWAYS

there’s this guy that i have in english and i swear he’s the sweetest person ever. he doesn’t follow other girls (complete 180 from the last guy i was talking to ((how do you follow of models on the same account you follow your mother on?!)). he’s always includes me in a conversation if my friends start only talking to each other. when i panicked in class, he was the first person to notice it and immediately took the time to make sure that i was okay. every time he talks to my friend (who sits in front of me), he looks away from her and gives me the biggest cutest smile. he randomly turns back to smile at me, too. whenever i wave at him in the halls or at lunch, i can literally see his whole demeanor change when he smiles and waves back.

now here’s my dilemma:

he has this friend group (he’s a football player so it’s them, a couple of the track kids, and then cheerleaders) and i would always catch him walking the same girl to practice with that group. i kinda had a feeling that they were dating, and one of my friends confirmed it and i tried to shut off my feelings for him.

THEN this girl shows up to school looking completely gutted, and i hear from one of my friends that he’d broken up with her the night before and that at lunch (we have the same one every other day so i don’t get to sit with him all the time 🥲) she’d overheard him telling his friends that he liked some girl and had left this other girl for her, but she only caught him saying the last portion of her name. now she thought he was talking about her girlfriend, but both of our names end the same so i’m literally going insane?? and he hasn’t stopped treating me the same ever since.

if, by some miracle, this guy actually likes me then i have absolutely no clue what to do. like i said, all my friends have known each other for YEARS and i’ve just entered the picture. so i know that if i start dating this guy, it might look absolutely awful to them because that other girl is also kind of in my friend group (she’s a cheerleader so she’s super popular/well-known). she’s also just a total sweetheart and i’d die if i hurt her :(

sorry this is so long bahaha. i just need some clarity on this whole situation because i’m so close to ripping my entire head of hair out.

i’ve talked about this before, that i’m not very able to go to school. i have disabilities and mental illness blah blah. it makes school a really tricky thing, don’t get me wrong, i’d live in mr.k’s classroom if it meant i could always be around him! but i haven’t been to school in a month, and haven’t seen mr. k since last semester!

i’m getting greedy. i miss him and i keep rereading his emails and looking at pictures of us. i am genuinely missing him like he’s oxygen and when we last spoke i asked about his new classes, he said “they’re not you..but they’re nice”. i was in one of his first ever classes. this man had never taught solo before last semester and i was one of the first.

i miss him. i’m jealous of all the girls who sit and listen to him everyday. i sometimes wish i would’ve failed his class just so i could retake it. i wish i’d asked more questions, gave him full attention no matter what. i miss him so much.

i really need to go outside and get attention from a man jesus christ it’s like i’m a woman who lost her husband in the war

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