i don’t really agree. i feel like true healing, you look back and aren’t judging yourself (or them). i feel like regret is part of the healing process though.
the moon in astrology represents our emotional nature and instincts. pluto represents power/force (good or bad) and what gives us energy, what transforms.
in my chart my moon squares my pluto, which means the planets are basically competing with each other for dominance and it creates imbalance.
pluto in aspect to the moon creates POWERFUL and strong emotions. it wasn’t until my early twenties that i realized most people don’t feel things as intensely as i do. but then again, most people aren’t as awesome either.
i don’t like many astrologers interpretations as pluto being a bad planet, or a square as being a bad aspect. it might be harsh at times, but if you haven’t noticed babe, so is this planet. get over it. wipe that neptune out of your eyes.
if anything, pluto is empowering. it is energizing. after all, something is forcing you to keep getting out of bed in the morning. something is pushing you to get what you want out of life, despite all of the pain and misery and bullshit we have to put up with. we find a will and we find a way. this is pluto.
Immortality. 1901. Endpaper.
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Maya Kulenovic: Rain (Interior), 2017
Y’all are so childish and don’t even see it. It’s sad. This pop psychology movement really needs to evolve into something greater cuz I’m tired of looking at it every day
if you “set a boundary” and someone reacts negatively, the answer isn’t as simple as “they’re not your friend”. Maybe it wasn’t clear what you were doing, maybe they misunderstood. Maybe your boundary is toxic or hurtful.
“but what if my friend gets offended and hates me and refuses to speak to me after i set a boundary” easy peasy! that is not your friend. hope this helps
Kye Christensen Knowles, "Double Self-Portrait", oil on canvas, 2022