I demand you think of me the next time you are alone and there are no distractions. When all the work has been done, all errands run and the world has finally stopped spinning for a few minutes. That will be the time when you can’t hold back any longer and your hand looks for that warm and moist place of comfort. I want to be there with you. I demand that you think of me then.
Picture my face when you close your eyes and your fingers slowly slide over your smooth folds. See me taking off my clothes in your mind when your fingertips find their way between your lips. Imagine me naked when you find your wetness and push inside yourself. When you feel yourself getting stretched by your fingers, remember the last time you saw me hard and oozing for you. Hear my voice whisper your name in the darkness when you taste yourself.
I want to be all over your thoughts. I want to be the reason why you are turned on. For your dripping. For your moaning. For all the parts of your body that become aroused. And for those that become so deliciously wet. I want you to believe that I’m there with you when you get close. I want to be the reason when you yell out and gush. And when you do, when you finally cum, all over yourself and those clean, fresh sheets, I want the only thing coming out of your mouth to be my name. Moan it. Scream it. Curse it. I want to be the reason for your ecstasy. I fucking demand it because after all, you are mine!
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I just got home from a tough day at work and I see you napping in our bed. I need to relieve some stress, so I pull your blanket off to see your cute little body in my shirt thats too big for you. I take off my pants and slide your panties to the side...
I slowly push myself inside you to make sure you don't wake up as I use what's mine. You're already dripping by the time I'm pulling back before pushing harder again. This time you whimper as you begin to wake up, dazed. Confused...
I put my hand around your throat and say "don't worry princess I'll be done soon, you can take it" as I go faster. Your tired body starts to shake of overstimulation, you can't handle it anymore and beg me to stop. I respond "I'll finish when I'm done with you..."
I tighten my grip on your throat and go harder, I need to be closer to you. You feel me start to throb inside you. You know what's coming.
"Cum on daddy's cock like the good little slut you are" I say. You ask me to cum too, and you know I can't refuse my princess...
I feel your soaking wet pussy tighten around me as I empty my load inside you while you scream my name. You've needed this for so long, and I craved your perfect hole.
"That's my girl, you did so well, now go back to sleep" I say as I wipe my princess down and tuck her back in
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WIFE- (Talking to her husband watching her get FUCKED and stroking his big cock) “My godddddd baby….I don’t think I’ve EVER seen your cock so big and hard! You’re loving watching your wife get FUCKED by another man, aren’t you?”
HUSBAND- “I have imagined and masturbated to this fantasy from the very first night after our date. This has been EXACTLY what I’ve wanted! I just hope I can last long enough that it’s YOU who makes me CUM!!!”
WIFE- “Is it the act of me getting FUCKED and enjoying it like I am, or are you just excited for me to be filled with another man’s CUM, that has you THIS hard?”
HUSBAND- “It’s some of both actually. I think that I’m most excited to have your pussy completely filled with his CUM that I’m most excited for.”
WIFE- “I’ll feed you EVERY drop! I PROMISE! Just leave enough in me that you can cover your cock in it when YOU fuck me! You’ll never forget your FIRST cum eating and sloppy seconds experience!”
HUSBAND- “You said ‘FIRST’ as if there will be more after today. “
WIFE- “Ohhh yea! After today, I’m going to start getting FUCKED by other guys, EVERY chance I can get. Multiple times a week sometimes, multiple times a day, when I’m lucky enough. Oh yea, don’t you worry baby, you’re going to get more mouthfuls of CUM than you’ll be able to count and keep track of. Yea, there is no going back to faithful monogamous housewife after today. Beginning now, I am officially a Hotwife. YOUR Hotwife, and you are officially my kinky cum eating Cuckold! Don’t worry baby, I won’t make you do anything you don’t want to do as my Cuck.”
HUSBAND- “You’re perfect!”
My husband Tom is the most kind, patient, and generous man I have ever known and I am lucky to be his loving wife. As I type this, I am watching the webcam feed he set up of his office, where a 22 year old grad student is on her knees beside his desk struggling to deepthroat his cock. She has no idea that I can see her now nor that I’ve been aware of (let alone virtually present for) each of her little visits to his office this past month. She’s clearly turned on by all the sneaking around, being his dirty little secret, and I wouldn’t want to ruin that for her with the fact of my approval. Approval? Who am I kidding? I picked her out for him to pursue.
Finding the girls for him to play with has become my passion, the clearest way to let him know how much I love him just the way he is. I intimately understand his needs for these younger girls, after all, I am not the beauty queen I once was. This is certainly not the marriage I thought I was signing up for, but now that I’m in it, I’m much happier being the procurer of his playthings than suffering the pain of discovering his affairs and deceptions after the fact. If nothing else, at the very least he lets me watch now and, when circumstances allow, join in on occasion.
I notice Tom discreetly glance toward the camera, winks to me, and then return his attention to encouraging the gagging teary-eyed cocksucker kneeling before him. That’s our little signal that he wants me to call him on his private line. As I dial the number, my eyes are transfixed on the screen. He holds her ponytail tight in his grasp as her head bobs up and down in his lap. She twitches at the ring of the phone, but he tightens his grip on her hair. Her eyes dart up to meet his and after a brief pause, she resumes working his cock down her throat as he picks up the phone.
“Hi, Sweetheart. How’s it going?” He says, never taking his eyes off the girl at his feet.
“Are you having a good time with your new slut?”
“Everything’s great here. How’s your day treating you?”
“Mmmmm…I am so wet watching her choke on your cock right now.” I whisper to him.
“That’s great, Sweetie!” he replies. He forces her head down, hard enough that I can hear an audible gag through the phone. My whole body trembles at the sound.
“I want to watch you fuck her from behind today,” I whisper, then adding, “Really rough this time.”
“Well, I don’t know. Are you sure that’s best?”
“Yes, Daddy. Please. Wreck her pussy for me. I want to watch you split her in two.”
“Alright, well I suppose that’s not too much to ask. I’ve got another call coming in; let’s discuss it further tonight.”
“Thank you, Daddy. I love you so very very much.”
“Love you too, Sweetheart. See you tonight.” He ends the call with a big grin on his face.
I hang up the phone, lean back in my chair, and reach my hand down into my panties. He yanks her head back, withdrawing his saliva-coated cock from her mouth. He stands up, letting his pants fall to the floor, and looks down at her tear-stained drool-covered face. She pulls his underwear off and takes his balls into her mouth, letting his slobbery cock rest across her face. I delight in watching him tilt his head back and moans with satisfaction. After a moment, he pulls her up by her hair and bends her over the desk. I rub my clit furiously as she pulls her skirt up and he positions himself to mount her from behind. He works his cock into her pussy and, after some adjusting, begins to thrust violently into her. When her hands intuitively reach back to stop him, he catches her wrists and pins them down behind her back. This sends waves of arousal running through me and I cum in literally seconds. He fiercely pumps deeper & deeper into her tight wet cunt, until finally I see his body twitch with the rush of his orgasm. He staggers back and collapses into his chair. She slips off the desk back down to her knees and at his signaling crawls over to clean his cock. I can see them laughing and he runs his hand through her hair. He wipes her face, then leans down and kisses her passionately.
My heart feels a pang of envy, but I dismiss it quickly. I am proud to be his good wife. The spouse of his dreams. I started this blog as a chronicle of my endeavors to please him. I want to be worthy of his kindness, his patience, his generosity, his love.
The fantasy of having a “Hotwife” is growing, in fact, research shows it is growing at a higher rate than a good majority of the other lifestyle alternatives, including the old staple of “swinging” and the modern “open relationship”. Why is it that a fantasy that revolves around only one part of a relationship – the woman – going out and finding pleasure from another man more intriguing to an increasing number of men than going out and “getting some” for himself?
Basic psychology tells us that men are highly competitive creatures. They have a drive to compete with other males of the species for the best mate – this isn’t so much different than what happens in the animal kingdom. Most men have an innate drive to compete with other men when it comes to the “best mate” or the “most attractive woman”. With this being said, one of the reservations of most women who find out about their husband or partner’s Hotwife fantasy is that he is somehow “weaker” than the rest because he wants to give up his position as your only partner. Is this really true, though? Could the truth lie somewhere within today’s man’s loss of natural competition in everyday life, and a desire to maintain a level of competition after marriage or “monogamy”? Is this weakness, or rather the ultimate confidence?
Cuckholding aside, because this aspect of the fantasy requires a bit more in terms of a “woman led” relationship, and a bit more from the man in terms of a desire for mental sadomasochism, a good majority of men enjoy the idea that they have been able to “capture” the best mate and even when she’s out having amazing physical and emotional experiences with men who may have qualities that actually supersede their own – a better body, a larger cock, youth, more prowess in bed – their woman actually WANTS to come back to them at the end of the night. While most Hotwife-Husbands do get some level of turn-on from the jealousy and the possibility that their Hotwife may actually be enjoying their dates more than they enjoy being “at home”, the overwhelming desire is the competition and the “win” in terms of having a wife who chooses them again and again even after being allowed to go out and have other men.
As Hotwives, we may be the focus of the fantasy, but there is that deeper and more psychological desire of a man who, even after committing to one woman, is able to compete with other males sexually. This is why the desire for “reclaiming” a Hotwife after a date is so strong – it’s actually been scientifically proven that men who are able to reclaim a partner after she has been with someone else have an increase in testosterone levels, which means stronger desire, more powerful erections, longer lasting erections, and an overall stronger sex drive. So, what does this mean for us as Hotwives?
He Enjoys the Jealousy, Go with It
As women we’ve learned that inducing some jealousy can actually be a good thing when it comes to dating – before we’ve found our “person”. We use our female prowess to keep the men who we are seeing guessing…why? Because they seem more interested in us when it seems as though we may not be 100% there. So, if this works in the dating world, why wouldn’t it work once we’re married? In contrast, women typically don’t respond as well, or in the same way to jealousy – we tend to worry, question, and sometimes shut down if we feel that he might be “just not that into us”. Naturally, because of our own feelings on the matter, we tend to avoid making our men jealous once we’ve committed to them, because we, ourselves don’t want to feel as though we’re in constant competition with other, more attractive, sexier, younger, etc., women. Why would we do something to the man that we love that we, ourselves, would hate?
For men, though, and especially those with Hotwife fantasies, jealousy is a big component and tool for us to keep our men hot and bothered. Sometimes just the mere mention of being flirted with by that cute guy at our favorite restaurant, or our interest in the sexy personal trainer at the gym is enough to send our men into a sexual frenzy. It doesn’t take a lot to feed the fantasy. It’s not ALL about dates and recounting how well we got worked over in the bedroom (and how much we loved it), though that is the ultimate turn on for our men, it’s also about the little things – the mention of our interest in someone else, the sexy messages that we send to potential lovers or Bulls, the “tease” of how much we loved what our last Bull did for us and how much we’re looking forward to doing it again. Remember, this ignites the “competition” element of things, which is natural for men.
The More You Enjoy it, the More He Enjoys it
You may be thinking, “But I’m doing it for him, I’m not doing it for myself” (a common theme by A LOT of Hotwives), but in reality, our men WANT us to enjoy our encounters. They want to hear about what this “other guy” did for or to is that sent us over the edge, and yes, they want to hear what we liked better about the “other guy”. I know it seems crazy, because we don’t want to imagine our men, even if we did allow them to be with other women, thinking that their “others” were better, sexier, hotter or had something that we don’t. That’s because we don’t have that “competition drive” like our men do.
Let’s face it, despite what our men tell us – “It’s all about your pleasure” or “I don’t get anything out of it unless you’re enjoying it, because I love you so much” – this isn’t some ultimate “unselfish” thing our men are doing for us. These things come out of their mouths, but what they are really saying is “I want to know that you came three times while he was fucking you, and you STILL want to come home to me”. It’s their kink, and we have to understand it.
So, if you’ve actually taken the step into the world of Hotwifing, you’re going to have to learn how to properly tease your man into believing that, just maybe, your Bull was better than him in some ways. Whenever you think “But I’m only doing it for him”, follow that us with “I’m doing it for him and he WANTS to know that I absolutely enjoyed it”. Find some aspect of your encounter that was mind-blowing, and recount, in great detail exactly what it was that sent you over the edge. This may require a little bit of embellishment, and that’s OKAY…trust me…embellishment is your friend in this situation. Tell your man about your Bull’s amazing cock, how good if felt, how good he tasted, how fantastic he was at oral sex, etc. These are the things that will ramp up that competition streak in your man and make him want to reclaim you with increased vigor and desire.
The More You Want Someone Else, The More Your Man Wants You
Again, you’re playing on the competition and the teasing aspect of things here… The more that you act as if you WANT to be a Hotwife, the more that your husband or partner is going to WANT you. His desire for you is going to skyrocket, his sexual desire for you is going to make it so that he’s ready to chew his own leg off to get you back in bed. I have experienced this firsthand many times…if I am completely honest about an “encounter” and admit to “D” that my Bull was lacking in some way, or I didn’t quite “get there”, he isn’t nearly as turned on as when I tell him about how amazing things were. I don’t like or believe in lying, but I do advocate for being selective and stretching the truth…maybe your lover wasn’t the best at giving oral sex, but maybe he was an amazing kisser, so a good answer would be “he was amazing with his mouth” and leave the rest up for interpretation.
We’re women. We are strong and capable and we are smart. And the truth is, this is a GAME we are playing for and with our husbands/partners, so we need to get our heads into the game. Furthermore, this is an intellectual game, and we need to use our intellects to get to where we want to be. Where do we want to be? We want to have a husband/partner who is absolutely drooling over us, believes we are the ultimate sexual goddess, and in is jealous enough to realize that in order to “compete” they will need to step up their own game in order to “keep” us satisfied – be that with amazing sex, extra romance, other rewards, or all of the above.
Happy Hotwifing!
-S
You know what time it is
What would you think of me if I told you that I enjoy it when you tell me about your day, but at the same time I also want to pin you down and bite your inner thighs?
What would you think of me if I told you that I love watching you prepare a delicious meal, but at the same time I imagine my fingers stretching you wide as I push them inside you?
What would you think of me if I told you that it’s a thrill for me to watch you be a boss and kick ass, but at the same time I think about choking you with one hand and spanking you with the other?
What would you think of me if I told you that I adore how your face lights up when something touches your soul, but at the same time I crave to see your watery eyes as you gag on me?
What would you think of me if I told you that I live for days when your smile lights up a gloomy world, but at the same time I ache to make you cum past your point of tolerance.
If I told you these things, would you hold them against me, or would you love me even more?
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With real love you don’t have to ask if it’s worth it. You don’t have to convince yourself to do what you know you should do. It’s not forced or an obligation. You do it because you want to without even a second thought.
You do whatever you have to in order to make it work. Anything and everything. Without double guessing or questioning. You just do it. Not many things are as powerful as that because you can achieve incredible things when you love in that way.
True love is sticking with someone through thick and thin. Good and bad. Small problems or massive issues. True love is not giving up, no matter how shitty life gets. That’s the whole fucking point. Love is not just some concept based on romantic ideas like holding hands at breakfast on a sunny Sunday morning at the little café down the road that serves those tasty little scones. That’s fantasy, not reality. Cute, but ultimately not the way to stay sane or make this thing work over the long term.
Love is saying, today was crap, this month was shit, fuck this year. But I love you and that’s all that matters. Kiss me and let’s kick this bitch called life’s ass together and turn it around.
Never forget, if it truly is love then it’s always worth it.
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A man living in Houston Texas who is trying to explore his desires.
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