I feel like there’s this whole subgenre of fic that just really, aggravatingly, doesn’t get bickery banter couples, which means that a lot of the content for them just ends up reading like emotional abuse.
Like! The thing about couples that bicker for fun, the thing that makes it romantic, is not ‘I hate this and I’m sad and hurt and uncomfortable, but I’ll put up with it because I love you and at some point you’ll start being nice to me’. That’s not fun bantering! That is, at best, a serious miscommunication!
The thing that makes it fun and (potentially) romantic is ‘We know each other so well that we can be rude and gross and weird together, we can transgress the rules of polite society with each other without actually causing any real hurt, because we know where the real lines are and don’t have to guess at them or use the rules from a game that neither of us wants to play.’
It’s fundamentally about intimacy, not about treating your SO like they don’t have feelings that matter.
the eighth sense is juntaek's first acting gig and he was street casted
the korean director really said he saw him on the street and snatched him up lmaooooo
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「…誰だって、ほんとうにいいことをしたら、いちばん幸なんだねえ。」 “…a person creates happiness around them when they do something good.”
- Campanella, from 銀河鉄道の夜 by Miyazawa Kenji
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There are different expressions in Japanese that can be understood as “whatever”:
なんでもいい。"Anything’s fine"
どうでもいい。"Any way is fine"
どこでもいい。"Any place is fine"
いつでもいい。"Any time is fine"
だれでもいい。"Anyone will do"
かってにして。"Do what you want"
まいいか。"well,I guess that’s fine"
ワットエバ。"whatever(in English)“
Hope this was useful to you all mina-san!
がんばてくださいみなさん!〜
the way that jae won blatantly lies about not remembering details about ji hyun. “what was your name, again? where are you staying?” he knows the answers to his own questions, has no doubt repeated these small but dear details to himself more times than he would admit, but is perhaps of the mind that he shouldn’t. that the simple gesture of remembering may expose him and the nature of his desires. thus, he lies, pretends to be none the wiser to this boy’s name or sleeping arrangements as if the knowledge of both hadn’t plagued his mind for days.
the way that despite this, jae won still sits bedside ji hyun on the bus, allows him to rest his head on his shoulder, kneels in front of him to aid him into his wet suit, brings him a warm bowl of noodles (not to mention meds so that he won’t get ill when the seniors make him drink), shields him from the smoke of the grill… the way jae won is unbearably aware of what he does and doesn’t say to ji hyun, of any and all words he utters to this boy, ones meant to offer an impression of disinterest in him and the detail of his life. but the tenderness of jae won’s treatment of ji hyun utterly betray this guise of apathy, the mask he wears to shield himself and the intensity of his blossoming feelings, seemingly faltering, and for the first time in his life, at that.
Here’s the new environment study I was working on over the past few days!
WANGXIAN+ MDZS MANHUA chapters 255/256 魔道祖师/255 -/256 画幅补完 illustrations by @maotuanxjj
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