I Had Three Shots Today And My Arms Hurt Like Hell.

Stop telling children to, “just ignore it.” It makes excuses for bullies and it doesn’t work. It never has. All it does is teach kids that it’s okay for them to walk all over people, and it teaches the kids being bullied that it’s okay for people to treat them that way. Stop it.

Im so glad for Eugenia, so many people would make fun of her looks without knowing she was sick and I feared one day she wouldnt be able to take it anymore. Back when my ed was really bad i used to see her all the time on thinspo blogs and it saddened. So glad shes getting help.

Me too! And I’m so glad to hear that your ed is better than it used to be, even if it’s still there. Baby steps are important!

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Me: Man, Harry Potter is so dreamy.

Friend: Yeah, Daniel Radcliffe is pretty hot. He needs to ditch the beard though.

Me: No no. Not Daniel Radcliffe. Harry Potter.

Friend: But-

Me: Shhh... Harry Potter.

Me irl https://ift.tt/35zcPYN

Oof

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How to Survive Fourth of July With Hypervigilance:

Independence Day can be rough for Americans living with hypervigilance related issues. The loud noises can make your heart race and your head spin. It may even feel hard to breathe. You’re gonna have to be strong. Fortunately, there are some things you can do to help.

Put in your earbuds. Listening to music will not only drown out the sound, it may also help you calm down. Music has been shown to help reduce anxiety and stress levels by up to 65 percent.

Use noise reduction headphones. If you want, you may even be able to see the fireworks! Just make sure you slip on a pair of noise reduction headphones. They can reduce the noise by more than 70 percent!

Spend the day with someone you love. Just being around someone we love can help steady our heart rates and calm our breathing. While it may still be rough, spending the time with a loved one is likely to make it a little less torturous.

Take a shower. It’s gonna be a long shower, but the noise of the water will drown out the fireworks.

Cuddle with a furry friend. Pets can be hugely therapeutic to people struggling with any sort of mental health issue, and even more so for those struggling with anxiety and ptsd. (Note: this may not work if your pet is just as panicked about fireworks as you are.)

But most importantly, especially for anyone struggling with any past trauma, remind yourself that you are safe. Do something that requires you to interact with your environment to help yourself stay in the here and now. It can be hard to stay in the present when faced with certain triggers, especially if you are alone.

You are strong and you will make it through this. Everything will be okay. I promise.