I CAN DO THIS! AMAZING THINGS AHEAD !!!
I think the best advice I ever got to stop myself from getting in my head over issues i was having with a partner/friend was “Are you deciding on ultimatums in your relationship without the other persons knowledge or consent? Are you having conversations in your head where the other party is a projection you supply the responses for? If so; you have done this person a huge disservice in not allowing them to answer on their own terms. You have done so much architecture around this problem in your mind that is impenetrable for anyone who was not there when it was being built.”
That shit really changed my life and honestly? I think made me a nicer person to be around.
call it parasocial but seunghan shouldn't be experiencing this type of pain... having your feet touch the door of your dreams (in his case he barely lived it and probably was still trying to register his dream becoming a reality) is ruthless. hope he doesn't end up disillusioned by this
Paligoy-ligoy by Nadine Lustre is my top 2 song in spotify wrapped, guys. Like I'm not even joking kaya pwede ba? huwag ng paligoy-ligoy, ligoy, paligoy-ligoy pa...