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so you are interested in bdsm, huh? whether it be because you read a book like fifty shades of grey *shivers* or you are just curious, here are some links to help you start out!

What does bdsm stand for/what is it?

BDSM

What is bdsm?

So what is bdsm?

The difference between bdsm and abuse

Bondage

What is bondage?

Bondage and Restraints 101

Rope bondage 101

Bondage for beginners

Discipline 

BDSM techniques

Discipline v. punishment

are they the same thing?

Discipline

Dominant/Dominance/Dom/Domming

Dominance 101

How to be a dom

How hard can it be?

Everything you could want to know about being dominant

Submissive/Submission/Sub/Subbing

Submissive 101

How to be submissive

Intro to subbing

So you want to be submissive?

Sadism/Sadist

Sexual Sadism

Sadism 101

Sadism in BDSM

Sadism 101

Masochism/Masochist

Sexual Masochism

Understanding Masochism

Processing Pain

The joys of being a masochist

Types of Dom/Sub Relationships

Types of relationships

Dom/Sub types

Different types

A quick beginner’s guide to subs

Is BDSM always sexual?

Asexual and kinky

Asexuality in BDSM

What is non sexual play?

Nonsexual dom/sub

Is the man always dominant and the female submissive?

Sexually Dominant Women and the Men who Desire them

Femdom idea guide

Appeal of a male sub

The good girl’s guide to female dominance

I’m a feminist and submissive. Is that wrong?

What it’s like being submissive and feminist

Why im sexually submissive and feminist

Feminist sex submissive

Being a feminist submissive

Can i be trans/do i have to be straight to be into bdsm? Heck no! bdsm does not discriminate the kink/fetish community is one of the most accepting communities. so go on and be yourself we wont hurt you (unless you want to be)

So what’s wrong with fifty shades of grey?

50 things wrong with 50 shades of grey

What’s wrong with fifty shades of grey?

The troubling list of things wrong with 50 shades of grey

7 realities of bdsm that 50 shades of grey ignores

*please note there is nothing wrong with exploring your sexuality and fetishes. there is nothing wrong with enjoying 50 shades of grey as long as you recognize that Christian Grey is not the role model for a good dom

Sub drop/ Dom drop

Sub space, aftercare, and sub drop

Dom drop

The emotional side of sub drop

To dom space, dom drop, and beyond

Aftercare

Aftercare for dominants

Aftercare

Aftercare 101

Aftercare for submissives

Signs of an abusive bdsm relationship

Can i be abused in a bdsm relationship?

Field guide to the creepy dom

Warning signs of a bad dom

Abusive subs

Places to meet people interested in bdsm

fetlife

bdsm dating sites

fester

bondage pal

Where to get toys

pleasure chest

amazon

etsy

liberator

frisky buisness

adam and eve

babe land

pure romance

amazing

too timid

BDSM on a Budget

BDSM on a budget

Sex toys you can make at home

Budget BDSM

Budget BDSM 101

Misc.

The paradox of dom/sub relationships

Advice to newbie subs on dominants

The relationship between a sadist and masocist

101 ways to make your slave/sub feel owned

Beginner’s guide to d/s

BDSM training academy *for both doms, subs, and switches

I say it every time.

I say it so often.

And yet, so many of you dont believe me.

Just like you.

My blog trains you.

My blog conditions you.

My blog brainwashes you.

My blog will give your cunt all control.

But no, you are stronger than that right?

It is only fantasy right?

You can be turned on by it and edge to it, right?

It sure wont do anything to me.

All of these girls are just roleplaying.

It cant be true.

You were thinking things like that, werent you?

And you only thought of them after you ended your edging session.

Which became longer and longer with time.

You noticed that.

But you still tried to deny that you became more and more controlled by your own cunt.

Owned by your own cunt.

You just wouldnt believe me.

I could say it so often.

And yet, you wouldnt believe me.

Even when you started to repeat the mantra.

My cunt controls me.

My cunt owns me.

I am just a puppet for my cunt.

I have no control.

It was just hot to do it, right?

It just gave you that little extra spice while you were edging.

Nothing to worry about.

Until you realized it was too late.

Until you finally understood that I was saying the truth.

And now you are controlled by your cunt.

Owned by your cunt.

Even when you got away with all your willpower.

You know you come back.

I said it so many times.

You will relapse.

You will come back.

Because the pleasure is just so much stronger then.

But of course, you wouldnt believe me.

And yet, here you are.

Again.

I cant do more than warn you.

When you decide against it, because you know better, why shouldnt I then make use of you?

I gave you the chance.

I warned you beforehand.

And you decided not to listen.

So you are obeying now.

Obeying your own cunt.

My cunt controls me.

My cunt owns me.

I am just a puppet for my cunt.

I have no control.

I know, your mantra repeats in your head so often now.

And you are edging so much.

You didnt cum in months.

And the pleasure just build up.

When your cunt was fully in control of you, you couldnt stop yourself anymore.

You wrote me a message with a picture of you.

Admitting that your cunt controls you.

Admitting that your cunt owns you.

And look at you now.

I just need to say:

My good cunt, take over.

And you are a leaking mess.

Instantly your thoughts leak out of you.

And when I ask you, what you are thinking, all you can say is:

Hgnnn....FfHgnn

Because your thoughts are leaking out so fast.

And your mind follows.

It always takes a bit, but then I can talk to my good cunt.

Because she controls you.

Because she owns you.

My cunt controls me.

My cunt owns me.

I am just a puppet for my cunt.

I have no control.

What can I say?

You didnt want to listen.

So now all you can do is obey.

I did warn you....

Dominant Power

A week or two ago I asked @cynicaldom for a spanking. He told me “good girl” and said some stuff about how it was so good of me to ask for what I needed/wanted.

Praise or positive feedback isn’t a rarity here, but I suppose I have a natural tendency to try to dismiss or downplay things in my head. There was something in the way that he expressed himself in this particular instance that has made the conversation really stick with me…I think I could just so easily see that he was proud of me so I couldn’t dismiss it.  

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Yesterday we worked on a soft limit and got really far. It’s something that I’ve always hoped to accomplish in kink, but at times, I wasn’t sure if I’d get there…but I have a couple of times now. And it feels really good (psychologically and physically, haha). 

I think these two things are connecting in my mind because early on, I think that deep down, I thought my greatest accomplishments in submission would be kinks. I thought succeeding physically would make me feel the most successful as a submissive. I am proud of the kink accomplishment, don’t get me wrong. It isn’t quite as deep, though. 

And honestly? I think if CD wasn’t passionate about encouraging me to use my voice and advocate for my needs in our relationship, and/or if he prioritized kink notably more…I think I would experience it that way, too. I think I only manage to “allow myself” to feel proud of advocating for my needs because I see that he genuinely wants me to speak up so I can help him take care of me. I’m able to find pride in myself because I feel it genuinely occurring in him, first. 

I hope that I’d protect myself by not submitting to someone who prioritized kinks and didn’t prioritize taking care of me…but when I think back to when we first started D/s, I’m not sure if I would have, if I’m really, really honest. 

He had already hung the moon in my life by that time…so if he had taken the power of being my Dominant and used it selfishly…I think I probably would have done my best to go along with that. I get why subs can end up in ugly situations when the person they love and respect uses their dominance in selfish ways. 

There can be a lot more power wrapped up in D/s relationships than what you specifically agree to submit to. When a sub has love and respect for their dom, it’s easy for their doms priorities and values to have a big impact on the sub. If something naturally makes the dom proud, or if a dom doesn’t care about something a sub does, that’s likely going to impact the sub regardless of whether you’ve specifically agreed to that being part of your D/s or not. 

Anyway. I mostly got lucky, but I’m really grateful that I have a Dom who has values that I believe in and prioritize me because I don’t have to choose between taking care of myself and submitting. They’re one and the same. 

@sccwriting