so you are interested in bdsm, huh? whether it be because you read a book like fifty shades of grey *shivers* or you are just curious, here are some links to help you start out!
What does bdsm stand for/what is it?
BDSM
What is bdsm?
So what is bdsm?
The difference between bdsm and abuse
Bondage
What is bondage?
Bondage and Restraints 101
Rope bondage 101
Bondage for beginners
Discipline
BDSM techniques
Discipline v. punishment
are they the same thing?
Discipline
Dominant/Dominance/Dom/Domming
Dominance 101
How to be a dom
How hard can it be?
Everything you could want to know about being dominant
Submissive/Submission/Sub/Subbing
Submissive 101
How to be submissive
Intro to subbing
So you want to be submissive?
Sadism/Sadist
Sexual Sadism
Sadism 101
Sadism in BDSM
Sadism 101
Masochism/Masochist
Sexual Masochism
Understanding Masochism
Processing Pain
The joys of being a masochist
Types of Dom/Sub Relationships
Types of relationships
Dom/Sub types
Different types
A quick beginner’s guide to subs
Is BDSM always sexual?
Asexual and kinky
Asexuality in BDSM
What is non sexual play?
Nonsexual dom/sub
Is the man always dominant and the female submissive?
Sexually Dominant Women and the Men who Desire them
Femdom idea guide
Appeal of a male sub
The good girl’s guide to female dominance
I’m a feminist and submissive. Is that wrong?
What it’s like being submissive and feminist
Why im sexually submissive and feminist
Feminist sex submissive
Being a feminist submissive
Can i be trans/do i have to be straight to be into bdsm? Heck no! bdsm does not discriminate the kink/fetish community is one of the most accepting communities. so go on and be yourself we wont hurt you (unless you want to be)
So what’s wrong with fifty shades of grey?
50 things wrong with 50 shades of grey
What’s wrong with fifty shades of grey?
The troubling list of things wrong with 50 shades of grey
7 realities of bdsm that 50 shades of grey ignores
*please note there is nothing wrong with exploring your sexuality and fetishes. there is nothing wrong with enjoying 50 shades of grey as long as you recognize that Christian Grey is not the role model for a good dom
Sub drop/ Dom drop
Sub space, aftercare, and sub drop
Dom drop
The emotional side of sub drop
To dom space, dom drop, and beyond
Aftercare
Aftercare for dominants
Aftercare
Aftercare 101
Aftercare for submissives
Signs of an abusive bdsm relationship
Can i be abused in a bdsm relationship?
Field guide to the creepy dom
Warning signs of a bad dom
Abusive subs
Places to meet people interested in bdsm
fetlife
bdsm dating sites
fester
bondage pal
Where to get toys
pleasure chest
amazon
etsy
liberator
frisky buisness
adam and eve
babe land
pure romance
amazing
too timid
BDSM on a Budget
BDSM on a budget
Sex toys you can make at home
Budget BDSM
Budget BDSM 101
Misc.
The paradox of dom/sub relationships
Advice to newbie subs on dominants
The relationship between a sadist and masocist
101 ways to make your slave/sub feel owned
Beginner’s guide to d/s
BDSM training academy *for both doms, subs, and switches
i so badly want to carry a man’s child inside my womb. he will become my master & i will be his submissive princess. ✨🎀🤰🏽 if he wants me to clean i will clean, if he wants me to have sex then i will have sex with him. if he wants me to just be a breedable pregnant wife that’s what i will do.
he deserves the world for blessing me with his seed 🌱💦
Brainwashing means you reblog this every time ❤️🩹
I’ve come to realize most things in life are better with cultivated simplicity. My favorite commands with my little girl are all short and simple commands.
Shot of the Day
The Dirty GirlScout
Ingredients: -1oz. Vodka -1/2oz. Creme de Menthe -1/2oz. Bailey’s Irish Cream -1/2oz. Kahlua
Directions: Shake with ice and strain into shot glass.
39 year old Dominate male with 37 year old submissive female.Western Washington.Say hi.
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