Isnt It Pretty To Think So?

Everything sucks and I am not okay.

Okay then. Try these things. (mainly for neurodivergent people but really its for anyone who has a problem but Doesn't Know What)

SHORT TERM- i feel bad right now and need immediate relief

Get off your phone. Seriously

Drink a glass of water

Eat something with protein

Shower if you haven't already

Brush your teeth

Tidy your space a bit

Open a window and stretch your legs or go outside on a walk if you can

Say something nice to someone

Put on some music. Something relatively happy

Hug a living being (pet, sibling, parent, etc)

Change clothes or feel a nice texture or listen to some 8D music. Sometimes its a sensory thing

Get something small done. Reply to an email or something

Do something creative. Draw, write, sing, whatever

Learn some cool new information

Talk to someone. Phone a friend, talk to your parents, text someone, etc

Read a damn book (fanfic counts)

Sleep, or if you can't manage that, try to relax or meditate for 5 or 10 mins

If you have over excerted yourself physically mentally or emotionally, gove yourself a break.

LONG TERM - ive been feeling bad for a while and want to get a bit better overall

Try to talk to someone about life generally. You might just figure it out

Stop making suicide jokes. Yes, that includes ironically saying "i want to die" at any minor inconvenience. for me, this was changing it to "im going to commit a war crime" or "I'm going to buy a completely unnecessary amount of clothes". Be ridiculous with it. Keep the comedic value.

Stop being self depricating. Failed a maths test? "oh im just really bad at maths" turns to "my maths skills are unmatched. im a genius" it can be sarcastic. then youll get used to complimenting yourself and will do it unironically out of habit

Change something. For me this was cutting my hair. i felt out of control. i cut my hair because i couldn't do anything else. this could be joining a club, buying new clothes, dying your hair, choosing a new perfume or deodorant. Anything that makes you feel in control

I might add more to the long term list in the future but this is it for now. You will get better, the silly little guy on the internet believes in you <3

for me being a trans person in the holidays is so strange because..whos life have i dropped in on who is this girl whos life i am living for 2 weeks. can i go home

me because my friends think im hurting myself again but its genuinely just cat scratches this time but ive used that as an excuse too many times

hyperfixations are so goofy because is it currently consuming my every waking thought? absolutely. will i care in 2 weeks time? no.

How i feel after being inactive for a week then posting six things at once

i got new books!! (the goldfinch by donna tartt and farenheight 451)

as much as i understand being a hater you have to offset that shit with genuine, sincere enjoyment & wonder sometimes lest YOU become the one who is corny. and sad. imo.

Intro Post

Helloo!! A little bit about me and the stuff I like <3

Name: Alex

Pronouns: he/they

Age: 13-14 (im literally a child)

MBTI: INTP

Birthday: 25 July

I am trans masc / non-binary and bisexual

I live in the East of England 🇬🇧

I love to write and make art although I'm not particularly good at either

I also read lots and I'm in WAY too many fandoms, but my main ones are the Riordanverse, The Magnus Archives and the Marauders.

DNI nsfw, transphobes, homophobes, racists, sexists, people asking for donations

Fuck Musk and Trump// Queer rights // BLM // ACAB 1312

Thanks for sticking around :3

i love how everyone writes in full sentences in the tags and only uses them to finish the post

HEYYY HUSBAND ‼️‼️‼️

WAW IT'S MY HUSBAND<3