Having Mutuals Who Are All Mutuals With Each Other:

"wyd"

( I am sitting on the broken swing set in the garden. around the corner is the tree we would climb before we knew that those were the days we would miss. i can see the neighbours greenhouse with tomato vines creeping up the walls and it feels like they are smothering me. I cant breathe. These walls convulse with memories and tears and days lost to the test of time. Everything floods back. The smaller feet are still imprinted over the grass. I begin to picture the softness of your voice and the darkness of her eyes, your hair spilling over your shoulders and you back like a pot of ink knocked over. You are here with such achingly perfect and terrible clarity that i feel as if i am choking on my own heartbeat, rising up in my throat and blurring my vision.)

"not much bro wbu"

Damn thats a lot 😭 (90 of them probably have no notes at all)

Hello please reblog this if you're okay with people sending you random asks to get to know you better

did you know you're never able to open your mouth fully. have fun with that.

I fucking hate my jaw rn, the fuck you mean I haven’t been able to open my mouth fully for the past month

Everything sucks and I am not okay.

Okay then. Try these things. (mainly for neurodivergent people but really its for anyone who has a problem but Doesn't Know What)

SHORT TERM- i feel bad right now and need immediate relief

Get off your phone. Seriously

Drink a glass of water

Eat something with protein

Shower if you haven't already

Brush your teeth

Tidy your space a bit

Open a window and stretch your legs or go outside on a walk if you can

Say something nice to someone

Put on some music. Something relatively happy

Hug a living being (pet, sibling, parent, etc)

Change clothes or feel a nice texture or listen to some 8D music. Sometimes its a sensory thing

Get something small done. Reply to an email or something

Do something creative. Draw, write, sing, whatever

Learn some cool new information

Talk to someone. Phone a friend, talk to your parents, text someone, etc

Read a damn book (fanfic counts)

Sleep, or if you can't manage that, try to relax or meditate for 5 or 10 mins

If you have over excerted yourself physically mentally or emotionally, gove yourself a break.

LONG TERM - ive been feeling bad for a while and want to get a bit better overall

Try to talk to someone about life generally. You might just figure it out

Stop making suicide jokes. Yes, that includes ironically saying "i want to die" at any minor inconvenience. for me, this was changing it to "im going to commit a war crime" or "I'm going to buy a completely unnecessary amount of clothes". Be ridiculous with it. Keep the comedic value.

Stop being self depricating. Failed a maths test? "oh im just really bad at maths" turns to "my maths skills are unmatched. im a genius" it can be sarcastic. then youll get used to complimenting yourself and will do it unironically out of habit

Change something. For me this was cutting my hair. i felt out of control. i cut my hair because i couldn't do anything else. this could be joining a club, buying new clothes, dying your hair, choosing a new perfume or deodorant. Anything that makes you feel in control

I might add more to the long term list in the future but this is it for now. You will get better, the silly little guy on the internet believes in you <3

perhaps we both like exactly the same music BUT i like it in a much deeper, more alternative, more indie way than you, making me cooler and superior by far. (delusion)

You don't have to force yourself into things, you know. You're breaking your own heart.

the antidote to sadness is not laughter, but expression

me because i said i was over him but now im annotating a book specifically so i can lend it to him

aww thank you, right back at you

but also @girl-rudely-interrupted @preposterousray @pigeons-on-crack @crunchyaps

When the mutual you really enjoy seeing in ur notes shows up in ur notes