ShapeshifterKinfluid

About me

I realised I've never done a proper introduction so here it comes

No DNI but if you behave like you want to be blocked you will be.

I am Jamie, 20 yo and the host of a traumagenic OSDD system.

We don't care about other systems origins and think that it is problematic to invalidate anyones plurality since that just seems like fakeclaming tbh and fakeclaming is always shit.

We believe in the validity of informed self-diagnosis.

We are diagnosed autistic and have ADHD, BPD, PTSD, anxiety and depression, all of them were self-diagnosed before we got the offical diagnosis. Currently we are slef-diagnosed with OSDD but working on the official diagnosis.

We live in a country with mostly free healthcare so getting official diagnoses is easier fo us than many others. We know that many people don't have this privilage, that's why self-diagnoses are so important for many.

I am celestial shapeshifterkinfluid with some other changing kintypes like catkin, foxkin and more.

I experience varying degrees of species dysphoria and phantom limbs. Dysphoria mostly about not being able to shapeshift, not having a tail and legs, phantom limbs mainly tail.

I am a genderqueer, xenogender, genderhoarder neoboy, my pronouns he/xe.

I am AroAceFlux mspec gay and live with my wonderful partner.

Here[link] is my hoard to see many of my flags. The hoard is work in progress and isn't nearly compleated yet.

I will edit this post if things change or if there are things I want to add

— CHRONIC HEADACHES FLAG

plain flag :

(i suffer from chronic headaches and i’ve never seen someone make a flag for it so i figured that i should make one)

(this is specifically headaches NOT migraines)

More of my flags for the split attraction model (pt.18)

If you have'nt seen my first post here[link] is my first post about this.

This post includes Stellian, Lunian and Solian.

Most of these omni flags[link] were my reference for the different attraction types, however I already posted my omniqueerplatonic version on here and also for the alterous flag I chose a different blue tone.

For all orientations this will be the order of the flags: sexual, romantic, platonic, alterous, sensual, aesthetic and queerplatonic. The last flag is omnioriented[link] which is a label for when all of your attraction types are the same. So for example when someone is pansexual, panromantic, panplatonic, panqueerplatonic, pansensual, etc. they are omnioriented pan.

Stellian

Lunian

Solian

Pt. 1 including bi, pan and poly is here[link]

Pt. 2 including omni, homo and hetero is here[link]

Pt. 3 including different lesbian flags is here [link]

Pt. 4 including two gay flags and turian is here[link]

Pt. 5 including sapphic, achillean and diamoric is here[link]

Pt. 6 including diasapph, diachillean and sapphillean is here[link]

Pt. 7 including sapphilliamoric, gai and strayt is here[link]

Pt. 8 including three enbian versions is here[link]

Pt. 9 including neptunic, uranic and saturnic is here[link]

Pt. 10 including abro, abroflux and biflux is here[link]

Pt. 11 including panflux, polyflux and omniflux is here[here]

Pt. 12 including inclusive lesbian, vincian and questioning is here[link]

Pt. 13 including homoflexible, lesbiflexible and gayflexible is here[link]

Pt. 14 including three versions of heteroflexible is here[link]

Pt. 15 including two straightbian versions and lesboy is here[link]

Pt. 16 including two straightcian versions and turigirl is here[link]

Pt. 17 including gaybian, gayhet/straightgay and heterogaybian/ straightlaurian is here[link]

this is Pt. 18

Ambiqueerplatonic/ ambiamorous queerplatonic

[no image ID yet]

For anyone who is ambiamorous in regards to queerplatonic attraction and/or and queerplatonic relationships.

Loveless ambiqueerplatonic/ loveless ambiamorous queerplatonic

[no image ID yet]

For those who are loveless aros and ambiamorous in regards to queerplatonic attraction and/or and queerplatonic relationships. The overall ambiqueerplatonic flag is also inclusive of loveless aros, this is just for those who wish to specify that they are loveless and/or dislike the design with the heart due to being loveless.

Version without and with arrow in loveless aro colors.

Ambialterous/ ambiamorous alterous

[no image ID yet]

For anyone who is ambiamorous in regards to alterous attraction and/or and alterous relationships.

Loveless ambialterous/ loveless ambiamorous alterous

[no image ID yet]

For those who are loveless aros and ambiamorous in regards to alterous attraction and/or and alterous relationships. The overall ambialterous flag is also inclusive of loveless aros, this is just for those who wish to specify that they are loveless and/or dislike the design with the heart due to being loveless.

Version without and with arrow in loveless aro colors.

The flags are based on this ambiamorous flag[link] and the queerplatonic/alterous flag respectively. The green heart in the ambiqueerplatonic flag stands for aromantic/non-romantic attraction, affection, love and/or relationships. The diamond on the loveless flags stands for affectrion that isn't "love".

It's 2025, why are we still circulating the idea of a "gender trinary?"

I don’t believe that the gender spectrum is a trinary and never claimed so. If you are referring to terms like “atrinary” these terms are saying that there is more than female, male and neutral. I Can you explain where I did promote the idea of a gender trinary because I really don’t see that in any of my content.

Scorbunny plus evolutions genders

(plus shiny versions)

ScorbunnyGender

ShinyScorbunnyGender

RabootGender

ShinyRabootGender

CinderaceGender

ShinyCinderaceGender

GigantamaxCinderaceGender

ShinyGigantamaxCinderaceGender

† Mulvipinksnowpard

Pt: Mulvipinksnowpard /end pt

Mulviboard term related to the moodboard below- it can be used on it's own, as a gender, as an allion, as a aldernic term, etc

† Alt Flag

Pt: Alt Flag /end pt

† Coined on 03.20.2024

† Colors picked from images 🍓 mulvi + pink + snow leo[pard]

† Tagging @inviane-archive

Alternative Aphysical Flags pt.1

Aphysical | Aphysicalspec | Greyphysical

Aegophysical | Demiphysical | Dellophysical

Black Stripe Aphysical | Apithiphysical | Aphysicalvoid

Aphysicalflux | Aphysicalfluid | Aphysicalflexible

Aphysicaljump | Aphysicalspike v.1 | Aphysicalspike v.2

Lightgreyphysical | Darkgreyphysical | Atomophysical

Cupiophysical | Bellusphysical | Myrphysical

Reciprophysical | Frayphysical | Fictiophysical

Lithophysical | Orchidphysical | Aphysicalvague

Heartless Aphysical | Loveless Aphysical | Lovequeer Aphysical

Here is my Part 2 [link]

Flags I haven’t seen any versions of and I have created are Aphysicallfluid and Black Stripe Aphysical.

Original aphysical and aphysicalspec flag[link]

Most other original flags were made by @ryanyflags in two posts: post 1[link] and post 2[link]

So some time ago I made this post describing my stance on the radqueer community. For a quick summary: harassment of any form is wrong and no matter how your stance on radqueer is you shoudn't harass them, especially because many of them are still young and I do believe most don't intend harm and are just trying to express themselves. I also believe that most of the feelings such as atypical dysphoria surrounding "transids" are valid however the language used for them, especially the usage of the prefix trans is flawed and harmful. I also beliefe that any form of alter- and nonhumanity is real and valid. I believe that paraphilias are valid, but should never lead to harmful or abusive behaviour, here is the term I coined for that called anti-abuse paraphilic. While I do believe that paraphilias are valid, I do not view them as a part of MOGAI as a paraphilia is not the same as orientation. Tho they are still marginalised and I believe while not being MOGAI paraphilias still do belong at pride. I also believe that kink belongs at pride.

Now I wanted to coin a term for the stance that isn't simply anti-radqueer because I feel anti-radqueer can push radqueer people away instead of trying to create a healthy discourse with them, I think that this gap needs to be closed and we should respectfully talk to eachother. Plus I have seen many who call themselves anti-radqueer who then go harass or insult radqueers and I don't thik this is okay or helpful.

So I propose the term Nonnocivist.

It is supposed to be a trem like inclusionist, exclusionist and radqueer but is it own stance. It comes from latin "non nocivis" which means "non-harmful". So "nonnocivist" basically means "one who supports what isn't harmful".

Unlike the radqueer stance of being inclusive of all "good faith identities" nonnocivists are inclusive of all non-harmful terms and identities. This includes all MOGAI identities including any form of gender-nonconformity, pronoun-nonconformity (like for example he/him women), neopronouns, nounpronouns and emojipronouns, xenogender and other rare and/or neogenders, m-spec mono-spec combo terms, any a-spec identities, "contradictory terms" such as gaybian, lesboy etc., the SAM (split attraction model), and more.

Outside of MOGAI terms they are also inclusive of any form of alter- and nonhumanity, any form of atypical dsyphoria and any non-harmful terms used to describe atypical dysphoria or a disconnect between identity, feeling of "being supposed to be" something and one's physical self like for example Chronosian, Dissomei, etc.

Nonnocivists are also inclusive of any kinks and paraphilia as long as not acted on in harmful and abusive ways, so anyone who is anti-abuse is fully supported but not included in MOGAI, they are their own thing but not any less valid.

In regards to neurodiversity nonnocivists support educated self diagnosis. They also believe that endogenic systems are real and valid. Their experiences may not be the same as of traumagenic systems but plurality is diverse.

Nonnocivists are also anti-harassment including being against any form of fakeclaiming. Here is the flag I made for it, I took the radqueer flag and reversed it while keeping the base design, I thought it was fitting because the nonnocivist stance takes a more differentiated take on some identities compared to the radqueer stance.

Alternative Aspec flags based on the Acespec flag

Analterousspec

Asensualspec

Anaestheticspec

Aqueerplatonicspec

Aplatonicspec