Louis Backstage With The Snuts - 30.08

I remember someone saying that harry's accent sounded a little like louis' during hslot but I don't know in what video

“it’s not complicated? well you got it wrong when i was explaining it mate!” “carry on lad!”

Si pudieramos escuchar el corazón del otro y entender los desafíos a los qué cada uno de nosotros se enfrenta dia a dia, entender los problemas con los qué lidiamos fuera de las redes sociales, ver lo hundida qué puede estar nuestra cabeza, creo qué nos tratariamos con más gentileza, paciencia, tolerancia y cuidado.

No es tan dificil medir las palabras.

Always You - 30.08

Can I just say this fandom is so weird around aging... Harry and Louis are getting older. Its natural. Whats wrong with them looking older? I think people used to be more cruel about it with Harry.

yeah idk if they're super young or what but uhhh everyone ages, they're gonna age, you're gonna age, im gonna age, and showing signs of ageing is...... life. literally. it shows that you've survived life for a certain amount of time

They are not straight

OR: eeeeveryone ellllse in the rooooom can seeeee it

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the holy trinity

bonus: int.: “Where are you guys headed after this?”

Eleanor goes to public events with Louis to keep up appearances. This has been the case for a long time. 

Eleanor’s purpose as a beard is to be an answer to the question  “Who is Louis dating?” because if there’s a woman he is dating, it shuts down a lot of speculation about his sexuality. If Louis goes alone, then there is no answer to “who did he take as his plus one?” and that invites more speculation. 

Louis also cannot out himself to his friends’ extended families. That would create a great deal of drama. He cannot expect everyone in a wedding party to keep a secret and take no photos of himself with Harry. If Louis were dating a man who was a nobody, he might be able to get away with introducing him as a friend. If Louis were secretly dating Oli, he would already be getting away with it - Oli has gone to weddings with Louis and Eleanor. But Harry and Louis haven’t publicly been close friends for a long time and so the two of them together would attract a lot of attention and gossip, which isn’t really a polite thing to bring to someone else’s wedding.

So can Harry and Louis attend weddings together? Yes. If it’s a small wedding of people they know, trust, and are out to, then they could go as a couple. We would probably never know they were there because they wouldn’t want to risk the public seeing photos and asking questions. But they don’t need to. Busy  people go to weddings without their partner all the time. Closeted people go to weddings without their partner all the time. I know that as a fandom, many would like to see them doing cute, romantic, couple-y things together. But real life isn’t a fairy tale and the older you get, the less big events matter to a relationship. 

Now, why is Louis still doing this if he is “free”? First, let’s be clear: He isn’t fully free. He will never be free of the homophobia that put him in a closet in the first place. He will never be free of his beards because they will always be in his past. And those two things make navigating his future very complicated and very difficult, especially because he is so incredibly famous.

I’ll also add that as long as Louis is with Simon Jones PR, who are connected to 1D, I will have doubt that he is completely free of old contractual obligations regarding his public image. Contracts can and do control public image beyond the duration of someone’s actual work. They can’t control someone’s real life, but they can control what the public sees. (There’s good reason these contracts are heavily criticized. They’re fucking inhumane.) So we don’t know what Louis is actually allowed to do without getting sued into the ground right now. And SJPR isn’t a good sign.

Finally, I have probably said this a million times now, but if I were advising Louis, I would encourage him to use any intended changes in his public dating life strategically to support his career. In other words: stunts are for PR, so use them for PR. And that would mean continuing things as normal until it was time for those changes to happen. Suddenly changing your entire public image and stoking the flames of multiple public scandals, all while having nothing to promote, is a terrible idea for anyone with a career that requires public life. It may hurt, but the best choice in the long run is to make sure everything rolls out in a controlled manner. And we have no idea what issues he may be facing in doing that when it comes to relationships with the media, so it may also take time to keep secrets from people who would sell him out in a heartbeat while finding good people who are willing and able to handle his story.

At the end of the day, though, Harry and Louis have been doing this job for a decade. They grew up together in this bizarre situation. They’ve found ways to stay strong together. While we all want to see good things happen for them, we have to be patient. No one here suffers more from their situation than they do, and I think that’s important to remember. They’re navigating a lot. And for the time being, it’s up to us to see and support them. Our support can change a lot for them, we just have to have the patience to see it through.

Anyway, I was looking for a cute gif to end this with but instead these two came up separately so here, scream with me:

Here

is the link for a mega drive that someone requested about the 04/20/2022 songs. I hope this works now. Reblog it so those who haven’t had the chance to download them gets the chance to do so. Thank you from the owner of the links that I downloaded a copy of these songs from. Enjoy xx

Individual links that well arranged are in this posts. I will be updating both of the post and the mega drive when something new comes up.

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I mean no offense here, but this kind of thing which is just pure baseless conjecture & is not supported by or connected to anything else, is really bad for this fandom because it encourages people to just free-associate whatever they can imagine rather than to actually look at what we can find and think critically about it.

Louis wore the York rose for Doncaster, where he is from. What Harry wore is not technically the Tudor rose because it isn’t a five-petal flower, although I will grant it does look very similar. If it was intended to be a Tudor rose, it would be one.

They are both roses, and Harry and Louis are undoubtedly aware of what the dagger and rose mean to us, so that connection is there although it is still a reach.

In order for me to consider this worth anyone’s attention, I would need to see both of them continuing the rose motif or one of them to very clearly connect the rose motif to their relationship.

What is absolutely not worth anyone’s attention is building reach upon reach. When you are that many degrees removed from concrete facts, you end up with a lot of confirmation bias (such as connecting the Tudor rose to the idea of a Larry marriage without any supporting evidence. They just jump to marriage because it would affirm their belief Larry is/will be married.)

I would encourage anyone following this account to unfollow because they represent themselves as this:

Notice how they disclaim that they aren’t claiming anything is fact and then frame their tweets as “reporting” which implies that their ideas are newsworthy? It’s the exact same bullshit that is used to spread disinformation. You do not get to wipe your hands of any kind of accountability for what you post.

That’s why I have a corrections tag.

That is why when I propose something I lay out my reasoning as clearly as possible.

That is why, when I post a question, it can be answered. “Is Louis wearing a ring?” No. It’s in corrections now. “Where is this room?” In Syco offices, which we found thanks to an honest, accountable collective effort (and is also now in corrections because it was spread virally as a claim that /something I was asking about/ was something I was /proposing as a theory/).

If you are interested in understanding what Harry and Louis are communicating (both deliberately as they did with the bears AND in the same sense as we all communicate about ourselves culturally), then you cannot play games. You have to ask questions that can be answered and have clear reasons for those questions.

I believe these kinds of posts and threads and accounts are really bad for the fandom and for the mental health of the individuals that follow them. They get people excited about random coincidences, which leads people to build expectations for some kind of reveal. But the cause for excitement is baseless and nothing comes of it, leading people to feel resentful, exhausted, and angry. It is a rapid churn of ideas that keeps people coming back for more, can facilitate addiction, and reduces the burden of proof necessary for something to be taken seriously by the fandom which moves the fandom further away from actually understanding the bigger picture.

(It’s the exact same shit HLT, CBO, and random predictions accounts do. So know what you’re getting into if you choose to continue to engage with it.)

I always wonder whose handwriting the “given a chance” is in...