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END BODY SHAMING

Too many people are being body shamed by total arseholes and there’s just no fucking need for it.

When you look at someone’s body and then send vile messages about their size just take five minutes and think to yourself “Hmmm they could gain/lose weight but I will always be a dickhead” Instead of being ‘That dickhead’ try to imagine why they are the size they are. Do they have a medical issue (mental or physical), are they too self conscious to exercise (not all large people are unfit and not all slim people are fit), are they being pressured by a partner to be the size they are. There could be many reasons they are the size they including they are just happy with there body and don’t want to change it and that is perfectly fine.

I have never liked my body even when I was a size 8-10 with a stomach so flat you wouldn’t believe it. I have had 2 children which resulted in stretch marks, quit smoking after nursing my Dad through terminal cancer, this resulted in a weight gain of 5 stones (first two photographs) which caused even more stretch marks, lost 4 with diet and exercise, gained 3 because I thought I had a handle on my weight, lost another 2 with exercise (I love naughty food too much). The third photograph was a couple of months ago and I still wasn’t comfortable in my own skin (trying to hid the apron 🙈). The last photograph wasn’t long after the third, no difference in size but there is in confidence. I now accept that my body tells a story which will never be finished until the day I die.

I never thought I would have the courage to share these photographs but you know what, if it helps to change the way of thinking of just one dickhead then my anxiety over this post is so worth it.

If anyone wants to share this post then just do it 😘🐺

She...

She touched me, deeply, hard and unexpected.

She didn't planned to do so, but it happend.

She told me her truth, the way she looked at herself.

She couldn't understand that i saw her different,

I saw beauty, she only have seen her imperfections,

She was not just average...she stoot out

Yes she will never be a photomodel in a magazine, but she will be mine!

She's beautiful on so many levels, just because she is who she is.

She shines like a star

She Rock my mind and soul,

She became the biggest treasure for me

She just didn't see the things i see

One day she will believe, one day she will trust, one day she will accept it all

One day.... She will, i hope and dream she will

On your marks !.... GO GO GO