Ikkevincent - Mooibloot

Clothing suggestions/what pleases you

Hi everyone if you have the time to read or reblog this i would be really happy.i know this is gonna be a tough one because everyone is different and has different tastes but i’d like to know what do you like to see on a girl.i have always thought of myself as a more classy bimbo i love retro clothing think audrey hepburn and stepford wives.but i’ve noticed my style has changed this year probably through tumblr and hypnosis (or them just giving me enough confidence to wear things i’ve wanted to wear for years but never did because of body image issues)i bought my first mini skirt ever this year probably not short enough amd definitely not tight enough but the first for some one who always wore skirts to her ankles amd after years of putting it off and crying because of lack of having big breasts i bought my first short sparkly dress(well shortish) yet again not short enough actually probably too long but shorter than i’ve ever been used to i wore it a few days ago to a party i also went braless with my nipples poking out which is something i’ve never done before.please tell me if you have any preferences of course i have to dress to suit my body type.i have a tiny bit of muscle,i’m small to practically flat chested and have round thighs and a round ass i always think they are big but other people say they are small. I would be glad of female opinions too because I know there are much sexier and sluttier girls than me out there who might have some tips or have doms/masters they can ask.just typing this is making me wet,I spend a lot of my time in sporty clothing but I like to get dressed up when I go out or on special occasions ❤️

Perfect for a naughty romantic walk in the park ☺️

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Just saying...

all text and layout by me

and to clarify:  i’m well aware that the women of tumblr are more than capable of speaking for themselves.

my hope was merely to take what I understand about their plight, 

and present it in a concise/humorous fashion with the hope of getting that message to more people.  

-RG

Safeword lessons

I had cause to use my Safeword last night. I knew that I needed to because my body wasn’t reacting well to what was happening to me. This is the first time I have had to use it with My Master, and we didn’t handle it as well as we should have Hopefully our lessons after talking it through may help some others.

When I used my Safeword everything stopped, as it should always without exception.

I wasn’t in a good place emotionally, I felt like my body was rebelling against me. I felt that I could take more mentally but not physically. Did this feel like I was letting my Master and myself down…. Yes it did.

The very first thing that came out of my Masters mouth was a question. Not ideal at least not for me. I couldn’t think straight let alone give a suitable answer to a question. Did he have a right to ask… of course he did. We have a completely open dialogue within our relationship, it was more that I wasn’t capable of answering.

What happened due to the question was that I questioned myself, I doubted that I had done the right thing, I doubted myself. I let the negativity in and from there it was a snowball going downhill fast.

I created within our dynamic a negativity. I allowed myself to feel less than. Not acceptable…. I am not permitted to put myself down, by doing so I am putting my Master’s most loved down…me!

The outcome really was that he got angry with my actions and thoughts. Not that I Safeworded not for one second was he upset about that, but it was my actions after I used it.

Once I was in a better place emotionally I was able to express not only what I was feeling emotionally and physically, I could also and appropriately express to him the need to be held not questioned after I Safeword, the questions can and should come but not until I am settled again.

As I write this I am still going over it all in my mind, I am still processing what happened, as I am sure he is, you go through these experiences and you learn. You learn about each other and what works.

Don’t ever feel that you can’t use your Safeword no matter how the outcome plays out, it is your safeguard and the most valuable word that you possess.

60s

- TX|G

If you consider yourself body positive,

please support bodies even if they fall outside of your preferences

Please

Morning, Tumblr......coffee?

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