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Starting here in East Ayrshire, Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

Body

She loved me to see her, but she was scared.

Her body didn’t look as all the TV and magazine girls and woman.

She was insecure, ashamed because she had strech marks, her breasts are not as ferm as she would love to have them, her belly wasn’t flat and her pussy didn’t look as those porncunts (small with no labia to see, closed like a child) yes there was cellulite on her legs.

She couldn’t understand that for me she looked like a Goddes, i didn’t even notice all those things, for me she was just perfect!

Woman aren’t supposed to be like those models, we men just love you for who you are and how you look, it really don’t matter if you’re skinny or big, it’s not important if you have stretch marks or not, even your breasts ferm or really hanging and empty, if we like you we like every part of you, no matter how you feel about it, we love the way you treat us, we love you, just because it’s you

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Thank you for your service. 😍

It is taken for granted by so many...

Just the truth

Love yourself and your body and curves I know it can be a struggle but just find one thing everyday you love about yourself and the rest will come

Safeword lessons

I had cause to use my Safeword last night. I knew that I needed to because my body wasn’t reacting well to what was happening to me. This is the first time I have had to use it with My Master, and we didn’t handle it as well as we should have Hopefully our lessons after talking it through may help some others.

When I used my Safeword everything stopped, as it should always without exception.

I wasn’t in a good place emotionally, I felt like my body was rebelling against me. I felt that I could take more mentally but not physically. Did this feel like I was letting my Master and myself down…. Yes it did.

The very first thing that came out of my Masters mouth was a question. Not ideal at least not for me. I couldn’t think straight let alone give a suitable answer to a question. Did he have a right to ask… of course he did. We have a completely open dialogue within our relationship, it was more that I wasn’t capable of answering.

What happened due to the question was that I questioned myself, I doubted that I had done the right thing, I doubted myself. I let the negativity in and from there it was a snowball going downhill fast.

I created within our dynamic a negativity. I allowed myself to feel less than. Not acceptable…. I am not permitted to put myself down, by doing so I am putting my Master’s most loved down…me!

The outcome really was that he got angry with my actions and thoughts. Not that I Safeworded not for one second was he upset about that, but it was my actions after I used it.

Once I was in a better place emotionally I was able to express not only what I was feeling emotionally and physically, I could also and appropriately express to him the need to be held not questioned after I Safeword, the questions can and should come but not until I am settled again.

As I write this I am still going over it all in my mind, I am still processing what happened, as I am sure he is, you go through these experiences and you learn. You learn about each other and what works.

Don’t ever feel that you can’t use your Safeword no matter how the outcome plays out, it is your safeguard and the most valuable word that you possess.