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Safeword lessons

I had cause to use my Safeword last night. I knew that I needed to because my body wasn’t reacting well to what was happening to me. This is the first time I have had to use it with My Master, and we didn’t handle it as well as we should have Hopefully our lessons after talking it through may help some others.

When I used my Safeword everything stopped, as it should always without exception.

I wasn’t in a good place emotionally, I felt like my body was rebelling against me. I felt that I could take more mentally but not physically. Did this feel like I was letting my Master and myself down…. Yes it did.

The very first thing that came out of my Masters mouth was a question. Not ideal at least not for me. I couldn’t think straight let alone give a suitable answer to a question. Did he have a right to ask… of course he did. We have a completely open dialogue within our relationship, it was more that I wasn’t capable of answering.

What happened due to the question was that I questioned myself, I doubted that I had done the right thing, I doubted myself. I let the negativity in and from there it was a snowball going downhill fast.

I created within our dynamic a negativity. I allowed myself to feel less than. Not acceptable…. I am not permitted to put myself down, by doing so I am putting my Master’s most loved down…me!

The outcome really was that he got angry with my actions and thoughts. Not that I Safeworded not for one second was he upset about that, but it was my actions after I used it.

Once I was in a better place emotionally I was able to express not only what I was feeling emotionally and physically, I could also and appropriately express to him the need to be held not questioned after I Safeword, the questions can and should come but not until I am settled again.

As I write this I am still going over it all in my mind, I am still processing what happened, as I am sure he is, you go through these experiences and you learn. You learn about each other and what works.

Don’t ever feel that you can’t use your Safeword no matter how the outcome plays out, it is your safeguard and the most valuable word that you possess.

One day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally, he decided the animal was old, and the well needed to be covered up anyway; it just wasn't worth it to retrieve the donkey.

He invited all his neighbors to come over and help him. They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well. At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone's amazement he quieted down.

A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well. He was astonished at what he saw. With each shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up.

As the farmer's neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and happily trotted off!

MORAL :

Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up. Each of our troubles is a steppingstone. We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off and take a step up.

Remember the five simple rules to be happy:

1. Free your heart from hatred - Forgive.

2. Free your mind from worries - Most never happens.

3. Live simply and appreciate what you have.

4. Give more.

5. Expect less from people but more from yourself.

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She...

She touched me, deeply, hard and unexpected.

She didn't planned to do so, but it happend.

She told me her truth, the way she looked at herself.

She couldn't understand that i saw her different,

I saw beauty, she only have seen her imperfections,

She was not just average...she stoot out

Yes she will never be a photomodel in a magazine, but she will be mine!

She's beautiful on so many levels, just because she is who she is.

She shines like a star

She Rock my mind and soul,

She became the biggest treasure for me

She just didn't see the things i see

One day she will believe, one day she will trust, one day she will accept it all

One day.... She will, i hope and dream she will