Ladies I Have Another Question For You....

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END BODY SHAMING

Too many people are being body shamed by total arseholes and there’s just no fucking need for it.

When you look at someone’s body and then send vile messages about their size just take five minutes and think to yourself “Hmmm they could gain/lose weight but I will always be a dickhead” Instead of being ‘That dickhead’ try to imagine why they are the size they are. Do they have a medical issue (mental or physical), are they too self conscious to exercise (not all large people are unfit and not all slim people are fit), are they being pressured by a partner to be the size they are. There could be many reasons they are the size they including they are just happy with there body and don’t want to change it and that is perfectly fine.

I have never liked my body even when I was a size 8-10 with a stomach so flat you wouldn’t believe it. I have had 2 children which resulted in stretch marks, quit smoking after nursing my Dad through terminal cancer, this resulted in a weight gain of 5 stones (first two photographs) which caused even more stretch marks, lost 4 with diet and exercise, gained 3 because I thought I had a handle on my weight, lost another 2 with exercise (I love naughty food too much). The third photograph was a couple of months ago and I still wasn’t comfortable in my own skin (trying to hid the apron 🙈). The last photograph wasn’t long after the third, no difference in size but there is in confidence. I now accept that my body tells a story which will never be finished until the day I die.

I never thought I would have the courage to share these photographs but you know what, if it helps to change the way of thinking of just one dickhead then my anxiety over this post is so worth it.

If anyone wants to share this post then just do it 😘🐺

Just the truth

Love yourself and your body and curves I know it can be a struggle but just find one thing everyday you love about yourself and the rest will come

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