I HAVE NO WORDS

i feel like people really don't understand that lesbian refers to the lesbian community rather than like. wlw or a specific set of rules. you can be wlw and not a lesbian. you can be an nblnb lesbian. you can be a transmasc lesbian. youre a lesbian if you date lesbians and hang out with lesbians and feel like a lesbian. like it doesn't have to be so complicated, i think you know if you're a lesbian and it actually really doesn't fucking matter if other lesbians are "real" or not because you don't need to verify other people's identities, you're not the fucking lesbian census

agreed, there's a lot of ways to be lesbian, not just one or two

free my boy he did it all but i forgive him

Made some valentines cards for today ❤️❤️

not normie enough to fit in but not fringe enough to lean into being a freak, worst of both worlds, pure liminality, just the weird coworker, and unrelatable classmate. and your mutual

Its so sad there isnt a jorking it equivilent for food

why is it okay to hate queer men right now. like it's not okay to hate all men but why is it literally okay to hate queer men. why do people encourage each other to hate gay men, bi men, pan men, polyamorous men, trans men, genderqueer men, nonbinary men, genderfluid men, trans women who are also men, bigender men, aromantic men, asexual men, intersex men...

that's literally all queerphobia. why is it okay for people to announce that they're literally queerphobic right now? and if you tell people "well they're men so they're not actually queer," buddy, you gotta dig your head out of your ass. queer men are queer whether or not you like it and they're not here to hurt you in specific. if you proudly hate ANY queer people, you are being queerphobic. care about it.

its me and my pookie omfg 😭

Upon first seeing this, I thought,

Trans mascs meeting trans fems (& via versa)

[Genshin 5.6 quest]

ik albedo's sassy ass is slightly pissed off with how they think so lowly of him

now that my post about breaking down one's idea of what a woman looks like has circulated for a while (thank you all), i'm now going to make this post, as i do not want people to derail that specific conversation, nor this one.

we also must break down our idea of what a man looks, acts, sounds, behaves, and presents like.

men are not cis, het, allosexual or highly sexual beings, tall, muscular, strong, hairy, deep voiced, broad chested/shouldered, emotionless, mean, aggressive, unemotional, uncaring, distant, cold, stoic, heartless, standoffish, bread winners, bad/absent fathers, macho, obligated to work despite disabilities, or obligated to be "the man of the house."

men are people. first and foremost.

men are allowed to express just like anyone else. men do not have to be pillars of their communities. no obligation. men are allowed to be disabled, tired, weak, emotional, caring, compassionate, asexual, aromantic, friendly, warm, in need of support, neurodivergent, mentally ill, chronically ill,and have personality disorders. men have their own struggles and we have to stop telling them to "suck it up" and "move on" and "pull yourself up by your boot straps".

we are forcing men to do this: this is a cage of our own design.

once we dismantle this idea of how a man "should" be, once more: we will move past radfeminism, patriarchy, trans/androphobia, and fostering a culture where this is an acceptable way to treat men. it's not. we must allow men to be diverse. we must allow men to be who they are on the inside