hello, citizens of dream world! this week on dream girls world, it’s success story week and so i would like to share with you all on how i, dream girl blossom 🌷perfected her self concept OVERNIGHT! yes, overnight 🌈
{. .💒. .} backstory; i won’t make this long especially as i do not wish to reaffirm the old story (it’s dead and gone!) however let’s just say i used to struggle with intrusive thoughts and spiraling, i would react to the 3d often and i saw things out of reach. basically, i would put outside sources on a pedestal! i was in a state of lack and was not able to enter the wish fulfilled and i also found myself envious of others in the manifesting community at times. i got overwhelmed often and it generally was just a bad state to be in. luckily, i’m quite self aware and i realized my self concept needed work and i was tired of being a victim in MY reality so i did something about it!
now you may ask, “blossom, how exactly did you get out of this and perfect your self concept?” WELL, this is how i perfected my self concept (overnight!)
(cr to @sexydreamgirl for vaunting)
i utilized the lullaby method! visualization isn’t my thing, but also with affirming i end up affirming mindlessly or robotically which doesn’t help much (imo) so what did i do? i used vaunting, the method i linked above! it’s the perfect fit for me.
what i did is, i wrote down a small paragraph dedicated to self concept of course, one that would be easy enough for me to remember but also covered my limiting beliefs and problem areas. i always write out a vaunt before i actually do it because when i vaunt off the top of my head, my mind wanders or blanks so i prefer to plan it out 🧁
this is word for word what i wrote down and i affirmed it word for word while drifting off to dream world… ꒰ ᵕ༚ᵕ꒱ ˖° ♡
“my self concept is perfect. i have no limiting beliefs, doubts, negative or intrusive thoughts. i never have to worry about time because i manifest instantly. my 3d has no choice but to conform to me instantly. nothing or no one is above me, i am the pedestal. i am the most powerful manifestor in the world.”
when i woke up, i vaunted saying the same exact thing, did a meditation by my fav, iheartlush ♡ ´・ᴗ・ `♡, vaunted while doing my morning routine and getting ready for the day THEN let it go and enjoyed my day and life with my new and improved self concept. i did try my best to listen to music that made me feel good throughout the day as well, just like magic by ariana grande is my current fav 🪄
note: i didn’t affirm for my desires throughout the day as i didn’t feel the need and i also only affirm after waking up and while falling asleep! (when i get negative thoughts, i say “white wall” until they go away. it’s a barrier between me and those thoughts, i don’t flip anything — just don’t give them power)
that’s it! that’s how i perfected my self concept. it’s extremely simple and easy to do, and it doesn’t take long at all. you can change your self concept in a day or in a matter of days, you don’t need to wait 21 days or whatever bullshit those coaches teach. hell, you can perfect your self concept in milliseconds!
another thing i did was write down a list of every single thing i remember manifesting, whether consciously or unconsciously and i would read it and be like “i did that!” and it boosts my self concept and faith in myself even more. i HIGHLY suggest doing this <3
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and that's all i have to share with you today! i hope you enjoy and remember self concept should always come first and it doesn’t take long to perfect either! best wishes from blossom 🌷
BREAKING NEWS...
i just got in from the dream girl team that the next post on dream girls world might just be from the one and only.. BUBBLES 🦋
next time on dream girls world.. blossom OUT! 🌷
It’s not about getting something it’s about reminding yourself that you have it.
It’s not about seeing something new in your environment it’s about knowing it’s here, in your mind.
It’s about knowing that, when it’s here in 4D it exists and is a fact.
You have it all right this second, in your 4D. 4D creates 3D. So you have it all right this second in your 3D. Manifesting is instant.
When it exists in 4D then it’s done. Creation is finished. Knowing this should make you feel sooo grateful, fulfilled, relieved. So stop feeling stressful.
When you’re waiting for your desires in the 3D. You’re in the state of lack.
When you think your 3D circumstances decide wether you have your manifestation or not. You’re in the state of lack.
3 day manifestation
In lesson 3, neville is confident that it takes no longer than 3 days to manifest your desires into your 3D.
“Three days; the duration is three days for response in this world. If I would now assume I AM what I want to be, and if I AM faithful to it and walk as though I were, the very longest stretch given for it’s realization is three days.” - Neville Goddard
once you decide you are who you want to be, or have what you want, staying faithful and loyal to that will guarantee that the manifestation comes into fruition within 3 days.
“If I could completely saturate my mind with one sensation and walk as though it were already a fact, I am promised that I do not need more than a three day diet if I remain faithful to it. But I must be honest about it. If I Change my diet in the course of the day, I extend the time interval.” -Neville Goddard
so in this quote, neville is talking about the process of the 3 days. basically, if you soak your mind with the corresponding thoughts (affirmations) and persist, 3 days is all you need to see it in the 3D. however, during those 3 days, if you waiver, repeat the old story, dwell in doubts or intrusive thoughts, the days will be extended. that’s what neville means by “If I change my diet in the course of the day.” and by diet he means mental diet.
1. decide what it is that you want. this can be one thing or a list of things.
2. choose affirmations that correlate with your manifestation
2. choose affirmations that correlate with your manifestation
3. repeat these affirmations all day
3. repeat these affirmations all day
repeating, will saturate your mind with this new idea. and it will start to become a natural thought.
4. do not waiver, repeat the old story, doubt. anytime you feel the urge to, repeat those affirmations until it’s stuck.
5. and by day 3 (or within 3 days), you will have your manifestation, if and only if you did not dwell in the old story.
*i also want to say real quick that if you do get doubts, intrusive thoughts, or repeat the old story, as long as you do not dwell in that, and immediately change that thought you’ll be good. so don’t worry so much about having those thoughts, worry about correcting them*
this post is no different than any other telling you to persist. cause that’s all this is.. persisting. and i’ve seen all the “i am persisting” “i’ve been persisting for weeks” however, the reason many of y’all don’t see your results is bc while you were so called persisting you let all types of contradicting thoughts pass by and you dwell’d in them. stop doing that!
soooo.. saturate your mind with affirmations, correct any opposing thoughts, and persist/live in the end.
for 3 days. if you really want your desire, you’ll STAND TF UP, and persist for just 3 days!
BOTH UNWANTED AND DESIRED REALITY ARE IDEAS! You are dealing with thoughts and feelings not ‘realities’. You are changing your thoughts, not reality.
Because there is no reality independent of the mind. If you THINK that your unwanted situation is the TRUTH and your desired reality is simply “thought” or “affirmation” then you will loose.
- @allismind in reddit
shoutout to all of you who have been lonely, who have felt completely alone at any point in your lives. to all of you who currently feel like they have no one and have had to rebuild themselves over and over again without proper support from the people around you. loneliness can be consuming (trust me, i’ve been there too!), but it’s not infinite.
loneliness ends.
also known as: how to manifest using states!
your state is what manifests, not your thoughts.
this has become a very inflammatory sentence for some, but it shouldn't be scary. states simplify manifestation, it doesn't complicate it.
at the beginning of my loa journey, i would affirm alllll day long. while watching tv, while reading, while hanging out with my friends. and by the logic of "your dominant thoughts manifest," i should've gotten my manifestations after only a few days of that. but i didn't, because dominant thoughts aren't what manifests, it's your state that manifests.
you are not a state. you are I Am, and you enter in and out of states all day long. there is an infinite number of states, and no one experiences states the same way. so even if two people are manifesting the same thing (for example, money), the State of Being Rich will probably look different for both of them. so there's really no one specific way a state should look/feel!
because there are an infinite number of states you can occupy, right now you have the power to be rich, just as much as you have the power to be poor. it is just as easy to occupy the state of being rich as it is the state of being poor. you are both of these things, and you know that you are both of these things because you can imagine being both of these things, and everything stems from your imagination.
the state that you consistently go to, also known as your dwelling state, is the state that manifests into your 3d reality.
you switch states simply by intending to. the second you want to switch states, you do. in order to maintain this new state, you can use a technique such as affirming, scripting, or visualizing.
let's talk about affirming.
affirming is a TECHNIQUE. some people argue that since affirmations are just thoughts, you can never stop affirming and should be monitoring your thoughts all day long. i do not agree with this.
your thoughts do not manifest. it's why i spent my time from summer 2020-summer 2021 affirming on a constant loop 24/7 that i was in a relationship with my [old] sp, and it never manifested. it's why when you get intrusive thoughts they don't manifest. it's why--even tho every time you go to the bathroom you check behind the shower curtain in case something's there--nothing ever is. it's also why you were able to manifest something by thinking you wanted it once.
you do not need to "create new neural pathways" or think in your favor 24/7. your negative thoughts act as indicators that you fell out of your desired state, and you can instantly correct this by shifting back to the state of the wish fulfilled. you don't even need to flip the thought. your thoughts have no power, unless you give them power by allowing them to let you wallow in the state of lack.
all that being said, affirmations can help you maintain your desired state. i say maintain, because getting into the state is instant, and requires no technique. however, there is such thing as affirming from lack.
what is affirming from lack? it's affirming to get what you want. it's affirming from a state of not having your desire. it's the same as thinking of your desire, instead of thinking from your desire.
a few months ago, the 10k challenge was going around. it was marketed as a fool-proof way to get your manifestation, because all you had to do was "affirm 10k times to create a new neural pathway which created an assumption." yet so many people affirmed 10k+ times and still didn't get their desire. why? because they were affirming from lack.
quality > quantity. you can affirm 10k times and not get your desire, because you weren't in your desire state. you can affirm once and get your desire, because you were in the state.
so how do you not affirm from lack?
an easy way is to pay attention to your affirmations. mindless affirming is out! this shouldn't be a scary thing to hear, because as we discussed, there's no need for you to affirm 5 million times in order to reach some imaginary quota, because your thoughts don't manifest.
affirm with purpose! create an affirmation that implies you already have your desire, and repeat it with the purpose of conjuring the feeling of knowing. the feeling of knowing may feel like calm, peace, relief, contentment, or even excitement. when Neville Goddard said "feeling is the secret," this is the feeling he was talking about, NOT emotions.
if your affirmations are making you feel anxious, this can indicate one of two things:
affirming is not the technique for you (which is OKAY!!)
you're affirming to get
"affirming to get" is a big debate as well. yes, you are manifesting your desire because you want to get it in your 3D. but in order to get it in your 3D, you must change your 4D first. so you should be using techniques such as affirming in order to change your 4D, knowing that if you change your 4D, your 3D will follow. there is no one to change but self.
if affirming is not the technique for you, there is always visualizing, scripting, vaunting, etc.
also the distraction technique, my fav way to get into the state of the wish fulfilled! hehe
to sum it up:
"it's not focusing so much on getting the objects, but becoming the one who already has it." - Edward Art
you should still be persisting in the fact that you already have your desire. you persist by consistently shifting back to your desired state, no matter what you see in the 3D.
reacting to the 3D, like negative thoughts, is an indicator that you have slipped from your desired state.
it can be very beneficial for you to have self-soothing tactics to use in case your 3D causes you to spiral or makes you anxious. these can include eft tapping, breathing exercises, etc.
your 3D is malleable. if you see something in your 3D that you don't like, you can change it. your 3D is simply a reflection of your dwelling state. if you don't see what you want in your 3D, let it serve as a reminder to shift your state back to your desired state. once again, you change your 4D to change your 3D. there is no one to change but self.
question: if you can affirm to get into a state, doesn't that mean your thoughts create your state and that your thoughts technically manifest?
answer: WRONG! like i've mentioned earlier in this post, you enter a state by intention. affirming can help you maintain the state, but your thoughts do not create your state. your state creates your thoughts. every state has thoughts that correspond with it, which is why can manufacture affirmations that imply you already have your desire and repeat them to conjure the feeling of knowing. it's also why negative thoughts act as indicators that you fell out of the state.
question: isn't that the same as someone saying "just assume?"
answer: NO! there are techniques to help you maintain the state. yes entering a state is instant, but there are techniques for you to use to stay in it.
question: are states ableist?
answer: NO!!!! this is something that people are saying on loatwt in order to villainize the people who teach states, and it's frankly disgusting. ANYONE can get into a state, even if they are neurodivergent! you are always in a state! you're in a state right now. i am neurodivergent, as are most of my friends that are states enthusiasts, and it has helped all of us to manifest our desires without driving ourselves to mental exhaustion by affirming 24/7.
question: how long do i have to stay in the wish fulfilled?
answer: it's not so much about how long you stay in the state, it's about frequency. no, not frequency as the law of attraction vibration bullshit, but how often you go back to the state. if you think about your desire 15 times a day, you should shift back into the state 15 times that day. if you think about your desire 5 times, then you should shift back into the state 5 times that day.
hopefully this helps clarify the idea of states for you, and helps you manifest your desires!! <3
do you think “little” things are easier to manifest because we have more faith in ourselves or something? i’ve manifested my electronics being charged when they were lowkey broken and not charging higher than a certain number, i’ve manifested finding things i’m looking for. it’s gotten to the point where i’m so very chill about it like, i’ll find it and i do right after i stop looking for it because i know i’ll manifest finding it. but how does someone get more trust like that with “bigger” stuff, and with bigger stuff that doesn’t have to be done quickly too?
For your subconscious no manifestation is harder to materialise than some other. The problem is your persistence, if you believe what the 3D says and try to connect your manifestation with logic and your environment you’ll come to the conclusion “that it takes too long” and “that it’s too hard to achieve”. When it’s actually already done in your 4D, doesnt matter if it’s a “big” manifestation it always materialises in your 4D instantly even with just one affirmation. So if you would believe your 4D and walk around knowing that it’s already yours bc 3D will match 4D no matter what, then you can manifest flying/ a new past/ new family/ new planets without any blocks.
Your subconscious can materialise your manifestations completely effortlessly. For her, there is nothing “harder” to materialise. Only you yourself block your manifestation by saying it’s hard and not focusing on your 4D.
None of this is your real reality. It’s just an illusion or video your brain is projecting, you chose this exact video or illusion trough your assumptions. So i never feel connected to what i see unless it benefits me. Sometimes throughout the day, i realise that my outer world is not really real and produced by assumptions so it’s very malleable.
How do i not feel a connection to anything i see or hear? I just don’t form an opinion to what I’ve heard. I don’t judge it i don’t feel anything for it and i just don’t consider it real. So when i hear something that is weird and doesn’t match my current affirmations, i start feeling disconnected and distanced to the illusion once again. I prefer surrounding myself with the real reality/ current thoughts.
„It’s not me…”:
You’re not what others tell you you are and you’re not what you see in your outer world. You are, what you tell yourself you are and what you think you are. No ones thoughts matter because no one matters, they behave based on your assumptions.
Also the thoughts and words of people you’re emotionally attached to don’t matter either, not even a single fuckinh bit. Unless these things match your assumptions. You’re thoughts created their thoughts.
„..but I’m it”:
The outer world is formed trough your thoughts. It represents your mindset. So change your mindset first! Then watch the outer world.
I hope i didn’t do any typos or grammar mistakes! If there are mistakes pls tell me!!
THANKS FOR READING MWA
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