do you have any advice for someone who has been setting intention (using subs as well) to wake up in dr and still waking up here? i know by saying that i am technically going against what i should be doing but i struggle with mental health so i assume that it won't affect my shifting journey.
HI ML, okay so, first of all, "negative thoughts and mental struggles" cannot impacts your journey unless it's the thought of "I'm never going to shift/ I can never enter my Dr"
You sound like you already placed a metaphor that whenever you do that, you'll wake up in your CR, because going to sleep with only the hope of "I wish/ I hope I would wake up" will get you a 0.01 chance of actually waking up there, why? It's not backed up by genuine belief of laying back and letting it work.
If you wish for an apple to appear in front of you on the desk, and nothing happens? It's your assumptions that is only backed up by hope and nothing else, you have to back it up by simply saying.
"so there is an apple, and it's there, why worry? Why do I care? It's literally just an apple."
Same thing with realities, I know, I know we all want to go home so bad and be there for once, but my love you need to understand that your mindset needs a shift, needs one click of realization that you can most definitely just sleep and wake up there.
Why'd you think people on their success stories say "I just set the intention and i woke up there!"
Sounds weird? Not at all, they didn't back it up with hope, they backed it up by belief and knowledge that yes they'll wake up there.
Almost like the night before you sleep your mother will tell you she'll wake you up for a dentist appointment, so obviously you go to sleep with that knowledge, and when you wake up? You already know you have a dentist appointment.
GOOD LUCK
COCO, i almost entered the void state!! I’ve never been like this close and I feel like I’ll enter soon, i don’t know when but soon! I have a tendency to fall asleep and enter the hypnagogic state really easily but being too relaxed I never have the reflex to affirm but today I wasn’t really sleepy and just relaxed deeply not too much and then started affirming for the void…
I felt my body drift away a moment but then I got conscious again, it’s okay though I’m really really proud of myself knowing some days ago I was crashing out because I couldn’t enter ⭐️
Could I be your ⭐️🧇anon? I’ll come back with a success story, idk when but I’m sure I am!!
OANOSJOAJOSJOAJOSJOAJSO YESSSS I KNEW YOU COULD DO IT OMGGGGVKBBAONSOJALJEO
I just know it in my bones this week I'll have TONS of success stories in my asks omgggg.
And btw I think i already have the ⭐ 🧇 anon but is it you? Because the other one was 🧇⭐ but I'll add that one TOO OFC I CANNOT WAIT LANLSNLANODJO
why does it take effort to shift to your dr but when I want to shift back to my cr it’s so easy like literally me doing it in a blink
IABIBEKWKENKNEKENKS BEST QUESTION EVER OMG I AM GIGGLING AND KICKING MY FEET WITH HAPPINESS TEE HEE.
okay so.
There's no effort, they're both the same 🤭
"BUT COCO WTF HOW???"
You've been taught shifting could take a while and would take efforts, which obviously that's not true, why? Well, shifting is still shifting wether you go to an alternative reality or go to your home reality.
Literally the same, now it's because you haven't shifted before and YOU think it would take efforts to do so, you've trained your body that it's easier to shift back than go there which honestly? NOT TRUEEEEEE.
you can also shift there in a blink, wanna know how? Get closer and let me tell you this secret.....
JUST ADAPT THAT MIND WHERE YOU ARE IN YOUR DR SHIFTING TO YOUR CR.
Act like you have the mindset that you can shift there as quickly as you can shift back, I've literally seen people shift from their CR TO THEIR DR BY JUST SAYING A SAFE WORD, LIKE TJE OPPOSITE WAY.
Is suggestion means affrimation in ur hmm method
YUP! suggestions is just choosing an affirmation and saying it through the trance state, but don't use more than one affirmation/suggestion, one only for every session.
Hey, love your blog—seriously, appreciate the insight and the way you keep it real.So here’s a weird one I’m hoping you (or someone out there) might relate to
When I’m easing into that hypnagogic or void sttae,
if I try to stay aware, I keep running into this bizarre swallowing issue.Like, I’m just lying there, drifting toward the void... and then suddenly, my body’s like: “Wait! Should we be swallowing? Are we choking? Alert the system!” Total immersion ruined.
If I let go completely, I fall asleep just fine. But the moment I try to maintain awareness, my throat goes rogue.No idea what to do with this, but figured I’d throw it out there in case others are silently battling the same ridiculous issie
Thanks again for everything you share—it really does help
OH GOOD THING.
I actually used to have this thing too, but honestly for me I kept ignoring it, and sometimes I used to imagine drinking water so my throat opens up 💀💀💀💀💀 Ik I'm weird ✋🏻
BTW THANK U ML MWAH, but recently I don't have these anymore because I usually go past it, BUT IF ANYONE KNOWS HERE PLEASE LET US KNOW IN THE COMMENTS HOW TO GET RID OF IT
Hi..Can I enter the void state with sleep paralysis and astral projection?...how?
HI GIRLY.
Okay, so first of all, I have VERY limited knowledge to astral projection, I am so so sorry but I don't want to say anything that might be wrong about it, I've never been close to astral projection and I honestly know nothing about it, SO SORRY.
But I have tons about sleep paralysis! So let's see, sleep paralysis is a state where your body is completely asleep, mind awake, making you vulnerable into seeing everything around you while not a body part of ours is aware of it.
Of course some get it naturally, some never gotten it but still can induce it, I'd say it's actually a really good state to enter the void to, there's a post about it on @ruloaapaul that I ADORE sm, but here is how it's done.
If you naturally get it, THAT'S COOL, next time you wake up in it, stabilize yourself to push fears aside, because sometimes it can project fears from how your mind perceives itself, once you are in it, stabilized yourself, you LITERALLY only need to affirm for the void ONCE and bam you're in it.
Sleep paralysis is such a great way honestly, but inducing it when it's not natural to you might sound hard but it really isn't, all you need is to have patience, and not to ever move when laying down until your body falls asleep completely, it's a state when you cannot move.
AGAIN GOOD LUCK ML.
Edit// easier steps (FULL AND BETTER EXPLANATION NEEDED? HERE'S THE BEST)
1. If you naturally get in the sleep paralysis state then go to the next step, meanwhile, in order to induce it, lay still and do not move, tell yourself that your intention is to enter the void through the paralysis, and actually understand it's a calm and safe space.
2. Some say it takes hours, some say it's minutes, it all goes down on BEING STILL.
3. Now your body will lock in place and only you can see and look around being in bed, now it's the chance to affirm once and twice for the void, you should be there by then.
The long awaited method : HMM for self hypnosis towards the void, enter under 2min.
WARNING : this method is quite powerful, it's not a method on directly entering the void, but it's a method I've perfected to be able to induce the void INSTANTLY under 5 minutes, given by on how to hypnotize yourself.
Please make sure you're ready for this, and you have a clear mind for this, self hypnosis is extremely powerful and if done rightly? It helps immensely, the chances after this to enter the void is 90%, you know what the 10% is for, belief and trust in this method.
Let's start.
This method is something I've stumbled on long before, and I just remembered how it may actually help those with a limit in their mind that does not let them enter the void, first of all, props to the person who make this trance inducing method which is using the magic magnet fingers, and since I'm pairing it with the void, I'll call it Hibiscus's Mind Magnet, or just HMM for short.
This method requires you to sit down somewhere quiet, somewhere with limit sound, does not matter if there's light or not, simply sit somewhere comfortably and I urge you to do a small mini meditation before hand if your mind is crowded, best time to do so is when you wake up.
Sit comfortably. (Has to sit)
If having crowded thoughts, meditate for a clearer mind.
Set your suggestion : a suggestion is something you want to stick deep into your subconscious, aka "I always enter the void under 2 minutes."
You can use any other suggestions, this is just for the void I'm explaining now, now that your mind is calm, everything is ready, simply begin by clasping your fingers in front of yourself together and leaving the two index fingers to stick above.
Now, look and focus at the space between those two fingers, okay? Now begin to imagine that ok either sides of your palm, there's two big magnets.
Stare at the space between the fingers, in a moments time when you let go, you see your fingers actually getting pulled subconsciously together like magnets, and eventually you'll feel this sudden pull of your own face towards it, at this point, continue to stare at it UNTIL your indexes hit each other.
Now you begin to realize even your eyelids are tired and droopy, that's the perfect state, now gently lower your hand in your lap and close your eyes, let the fatigue wash over you, you'll feel lightheaded and dizzy, this, is the perfect state called the Trance state.
Begin by saying your suggestion slowly, simply affirming deeply by saying "I always enter the void under 2 minutes." And only use one suggestion please.
When you feel ready, and you feel done, that's when you're done with this trance state, to get out, begin by forcing yourself to focus things around you, the blanket underneath you perhaps, the hands in your lap, and slowly open your eyes again.
Done, you have just hypnotized yourself, and remember, results can show in just one session, but if you're doubtful, it will take more than one session, do this before attempting for the void and simply go on with ANY method of the void, you'll succeed.
Good luck ml! I hope I made myself clear, and please remember I won't be online here for a couple of days as I have been too much on here and it's affecting my studying, either way, good luck and whatever questions you have I'll answer later, happy void!
Edit// for those who don't understand the hand part and how to clasp it:
It's like this
can I get some void state advice?
I have been attempting to enter the void for the past 5 years and have never once wavered. This is the first time I’m actually admitting my failure and not staying strong in affirming. I lay in bed, I affirm i visualise I count I’ve tried guided methods, I’ve tried being sitting up but nothing works. I don’t even feel symptoms I do believe the void exists and I know I can get there but I physically can’t and it’s been five years so it’s so emotionally hard now because I’m so tired off it.
do you see it as a "desire"?
If yes, then it runs away more from you.
The void is YOU, how can you DESIRE IT TO BE IN UR HANDS WHEN IT ISSSSSSS AERHAOHD.
and it's completely fine to waver actually, what you're doing is somewhat toxic positivity, and that might help some but never for me.
ACKNOWLEDGE the negativity but don't let it affect you, you actually need to let out emotions and not let it suppress you, you sound like you were burnt off from that toxicity.
You see, shifting, void, loa, they do not say "go and be delusional and don't ever think bad!"
It simply says "be it."
Being LITERALLY means being human, of course humans can cry, they can feel doubts, just one thing, if you continue on the doubt? It'll follow.
You're completely burnt out my love, for once, I know it'll be painful, take some break, to be refreshed, and in that break? COMPLETELY be yourself and let go, had negative thoughts? Learn to see them and just pass them, not to hold them, you get me?
(AND NO, I DON'T SAY BREAKS ARE BAD, THEY DON'T HAVE ANY EFFECT ON U)
everyone can take a break, and you sound like you need it, TRULY let go and just be calmer, whenever you feel ready, try it, DON'T push yourself to affirm, whenever during the day you remember the void simply say "I have it, it's easy."
That's it.
Good luck ml, I swear, you won't ever regret not giving up.
HIII ITS THE ANON WHO WAS HAVING ISSUES WITH WAKING UP IN DR AND I SET INTENT LAST NIGHT LIKE ROBOTICALLY AFFIRMED (just cause i have anxiety so i like focusing on one thought) and i ended up shifting and having a dream as my dr self!!! thank you for your advice it really did help me realize i have to be certain and not hopeful<3
HOLY SHIT
A SUCCESS ON MY BLOG??? AONSOBAOJSONAONDONSOD IM LOSING MY MIND GIRLYPOP YOU CAN'T EVEN FATHOM HOW MUCH I AM PROUD OF YOU.
those reading rn? This could be you 🫵🏻
YOU'RE ALWAYS WELCOME ML AND I AM SP HAPPY TO HEAR YOU DID IT, SEE Y'ALL? ITS JUST CERTAINTY.
I seriously am rolling in bed kicking my feet bc seeing my beloved ppl have their realities? UGH BEST THING EVERRRRRR
Congratulations again ml 🌺
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My journey. (Tw)
I want anyone who is doubting themselves, anyone who is trying not to give up, anyone else in the community of being blessed, to read the post whole.
I'm going to be talking about my life, and how the journey started, what I did and what I did not, bear in mind please, this was a little emotional for me to write, I feel a bit nostalgic about it all and I honestly can't believe so much went in such a time.
I found out about everything starting with a book I bought from the local fair that interested me a lot, and I swear if it weren't for the book, I would be here, I used to be the most logical bitch child ever, top grades, stressed like I'm in college already, pained mind and always pressured to be perfect, resulting in me being burnt out and already too mature for my age in mind, yet still childish in many senses, and constant fights with my parents, I felt like I was against the world.
The book was The Power of your Subconscious Mind - Dr. Joseph Murphy.
I was a kid who loved hobby reading, sort of an escape from the hell hole of the pressure I would have around me, and I adapted by this book, and it changed everything for me.
I was only 13 at that time of the book, after that I started trying it out for things and I saw results, made me happy, and I went to something I found in the corner of YouTube, called subliminals, and another part of it where it was called manifestation.
Now with subs, I found reality shifting, then came the void, then came lucid dreams and all that combined together in a hot mess.
Shifting was something so beautiful to me, The idea of a world where I could live my life was something that trapped me so much, I already imagine things a lot and use it as an escape mechanism, sounded perfect, right? And naturally, my first DR was my hero academia, just because I wanted to relive being a proper teenage.
And for subliminals? I can tell you one thing, I was extremely insecure of the person who used to be in the mirror, because all I did was to throw away my life, I studied, slept, and woke up, no friends, no one to trust, I just lost myself, and all that when I was 13-14, (tw) I hated hated hated myself and my appearance so bad, I could only pity myself for the state I used to be in.
I feel almost sad for my younger self, as I'm 18 now watching my young teen self stress through her life, cry at her appearance, even sometimes (tw) wishing to be just die in her sleep, all that because I was heavily burnt out, seeing girls my age looking prettier through puberty, talking with others and I'm stuck on a wish that felt like it won't happen, and yet, a part of me was too ashamed to feel this way, because I knew there are people worse than me, and I sympathized for them.
I think it started good, at 14 years old, I fully started subliminals and it worked for a while, especially my first results that hyped me up so much as changing the grades I mentioned on the other post, so I thought life was changing right?
It did for a year, at 15 things were going well on the outside, I started obsessing over my look, I started using subliminals even more too much for my appearance, I changed drastically, and tried to fit in, but get, none of those changes in my self were drastically from manifesting or anything, sure of course I had some small results, it was almost like I was not naturally like that, I felt fake in short, like a second skin to my real self, every night trying to shift or enter the void and whatnot, all that and finally, and I even opened a Tumblr account which safe to say, got pretty popular back in the day and honestly that was quite a mistake for me at that time.
Why? It ruined me.
I thought I could open the blog to help people with their journey as well as help myself with mine, y'know? Things got out of hand when I got a bunch of people who messaged me and ranted to me about their problems, and bless my younger heart, I used to be so touched by it and help them with it, I was like an unpaid therapist, and I never cared about my health, I just wanted to make people who had worse life than mine, get their results before even I did.
I should've told them I can't manifest for them, but that was where the shit and trust issues came from, sadly I got into the trap of (tw) "suicidal" people who claimed they'll off themselves and blame it on me if I don't enter the void for them, saying how they hate their life and everything else and how they want to change everything.
Please.
For the love of god.
I've been there like you and in worse, I stood up, I found the courage to stand up everytime I fell down, everytime, and that happened so much, almost 6 years worth of failure and never once I wanted someone to do it for me, why? Because it's your life my love, please don't think I'm rude or whatnot, I seriously I'm telling you, it's all in your hands.
And yes, of course there are people with far worse conditions and living state than mine, and I'm never blaming anyone to ask for help, but seriously.
To threaten a literal child on a simply happy pink blog telling her to enter the void for them or else? Especially one where she was a little too eager to help? Please, do it on your own as much as we all did on our own, I used to think "why don't bloggers like to manifest for others?".
I understood it after that, the emotional baggage? That was traumatizing for me.
Either way, I also had one of my followers spam follow me on my private Instagram (which I don't know how) and started (tw) a slight talk of let's say, almost grooming.
Thank God it wasn't pictures, I don't know if it is considered that, but is it alright to be told (tw) that they'd like to f#ck me or what not? I'm uncomfortable to go into more details but that was the breaking point for me, seeing almost 40 or something accounts spam messaging my requests no matter how much I block them, kept making more accounts.
I. Was. Horrified.
That's when I snapped, that was my last resort, I hated everything, I hated it all, I blocked all the current accounts, deleted my Instagram account, shut my blog off and started neglecting myself heavily and got back again into a depressing state, where I thought that's it, I'm cursed, wasn't I?
I burnt out so bad.
I genuinely believe it was the worst year of my life, even when I turned 16, everything got wrecked, the life I built and tried to maintain it fell apart, one of my friends backstabbed me so hard, I just gave up on manifesting and the void, which was something I wanted so much every night, wishing or begging anyone listening to help me, scrolling hours in Tumblr trying to find something helpful.
When I turned 17, this was my healing stage.
I may have slight tears in my eye, or I may sound dramatic, but oh god I am so glad to be here where I am now, I love myself, I seriously feel so bad and emotional for my younger self, if only, oh if only I could go back to hug her and tell her to live her teenage life, but I couldn't, I took life too seriously at that time and told myself I was cursed, only in the summer of 2024 I got back to my manifesting mindset, without Tumblr.
At 17, I started fixing myself, I gently loved myself, I started throwing the pedestal of the void away, I treated everything in front of me as a miracle, I loved myself, helped myself, took myself back on my feet and I gave myself time.
Time is something a lot of people here are annoyed by, it does not exist, so why are you bothered to give yourself some of this "nonexistent" time to heal yourself? I know some might say it's hard to love yourself, guys please.
Just love that small part of you that is still standing, that was shown the void and shifting and anything else for a reason, at 17 I started seeing results from everywhere again, I gained popularity, I built myself, I helped myself, trusted the law of assumptions, and my mindset had grown.
Now, I'm healed.
I no longer do this just to "get out of this" or "to escape everything", I do it for myself and because I know I deserve it, I don't place it up, I place it within reach like an apple waiting to be picked.
Everyone reading this, if you have come so far, do not give up, but of course.
It's your choice, no one can beg you to come back to your life, it's your choice my love.
I hope everyone in any situation my deepest and my most tender love to them, wether you're shifting, premashifting, rebuilding yourself with the void, changing everything.
Please thank yourself for staying strong and reaching here for so long, some say they've been doing this for 2 years, some say one.
I went on strong for 6, and I am glad I did, and I realized it all falls in your hands, I could've done it all by the first year, heck, even the first month, so my loves, my last piece of advice:
Love yourself, thank yourself, and ease yourself, let the apple fall, and not your hand that was straining for the apple.
Xoxo. Coco