i feel like we dont talk enough about how distressing and disturbing memory loss issues are. forgetting what you were talking about halfway through a sentence, putting something down and instantly forgetting where you put it. having to reread one paragraph over and over again because by the time youve moved onto the next sentence you dont remember what the one before it said. always doubting if your memories of things are real, not being able to remember important life events.
its so incredibly scary, it feels like your mind is constantly playing tricks on you and you start to doubt whats real and what isnt.
“i forgot” is treated like a lazy excuse when it’s genuinely such a big issue for so many people.
being talked through an orgasm >>>
Do you ever feel like one of Donna’s dolls in the snow bc same
As someone who struggles with infertility, I *constantly* hear the defense from anti-choicers that I should be upset with abortion because I want a baby.
Let me say this loud and clear- going through infertility, IVF, and a miscarriage has only further strengthened my support of abortion rights.
Why?
Because I know how it feels not to have the right to choose.
Sure, it’s different in that I want a baby and some don’t. But I know the feeling of not being in control of your body. The fear of what the future looks like and how all of your goals and dreams are now murky and uncertain. The horrible depression and anxiety that comes with knowing no matter how hard you try or what you do, you don’t have control of your reproductive system.
Nobody deserves that.
“But, you could have had those babies for adoption!!”
No. Absolutely not. Adoption has never, could never, will never heal infertility. Whatever your opinions on adoption are, adopting a child doesn’t suddenly fix that trauma, and expecting that of them is downright cruel and abusive.
My infertility does not warrant a person to have to endure a pregnancy they don’t want. My infertility does not make their trauma “worth it.” My infertility absolutely doesn’t mean a child should go through adoption trauma all because I want a baby, and someone else doesn’t.
Stop using infertility to defend your bigotry.
“I… I broke into your house because I love you.”
“Yeah, I don’t really care why. I was lying on that floor bleeding out for eight hours and positive that I was going to die before you decided to do a bit of B&E, so I don’t care what lie you come up with. I’m just glad you found me in time.”
“Yeah - me too, because I wasn’t kidding about that loving you thing.”
when u exit hyperfocus mode and ur immediately hit with every status effect ever
they may be doomed by the narrative but atleast they had gay sex
basically they r all super autistic
you and a tall vampire lady!
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