Say It With Me. Your Trauma Is Valid Even If:

say it with me. your trauma is valid even if:

the ones who hurt you were/are traumatized individuals.

you are/appear functional.

it was not caused by a romantic partner or family member.

“it could have been avoided”.

no one knows about it.

“it’s not that bad”

other people had it worse.

someone went through the same experience and does not feel debilitated by it.

it occurred a long time ago / you feel just fine now.

the ones who hurt you have apologized.

be gentle with yourself today, folks. feel free to add.

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11 months ago

genuinely need some toge inumaki fics like... someone pls feed me🙏


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3 years ago

i genuinely thought these three were the same person

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3 years ago

A Hundred Promises In One Kiss - erlandwrites - 東京卍リベンジャーズ | Tokyo Revengers (Manga) [Archive of Our Own]

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"Takashi?"

"Yes?"

"You've read the latest chapter of my book, right?"

"Yes."

"Do you, by any chance, remember anything from it?" You sniffle.

Mitsuya halts the balance wheel with a jerk of his hand, his foot freezing under the table at the same time. Did he hear that right? Did your voice quaver slightly and crack in the middle of that sentence? And did you just sniffle?


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4 years ago

me watching a volleyball match on t.v: huh, so they do fall on their bums...


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3 years ago

There it is. The blind trust thing hitting me hard again.

There It Is. The Blind Trust Thing Hitting Me Hard Again.
There It Is. The Blind Trust Thing Hitting Me Hard Again.

Compared to the other partnerships this duo is so lighthearted and fun I almost never think much about it. Almost.

Mitsuya knew that the chances of the Haitanis pulling some sort of trick was not nil, tried to stop Hakkai from following them and could've asked for help before walking right into danger himself but instead just went with the flow. Mitsuya acts responsible for fixing Hakkai's mess, one reason being that he's older and has known his for long enough to have those kinds of feelings towards him. He rushed to Hakkai knowing that he'd be in a pinch, made sure he was okay, let him rest while he fought and Mitsuya just is that kind but it doesn't go unnoticed that he has a soft spot for Hakkai wether is be looking after him or letting him off the hook for those silly comments.

But he has never thought of Hakkai as someone who needs saving. He believes in Hakkai's strength.

There It Is. The Blind Trust Thing Hitting Me Hard Again.
There It Is. The Blind Trust Thing Hitting Me Hard Again.
There It Is. The Blind Trust Thing Hitting Me Hard Again.

Mitsuya Knows that them together are unbeatable and takes pride in their partnership. There's a blind trust of "I can always count on him" from Mitsuya's side and a "As long as Taka-chan's by my side I'm fine!" from Hakkai.

They're the ultimate "with your support I can win any fight", and I can't get enough if it.

7 months ago

man ive gained a new appreciation and admiration for smut writers cuz goddamn is it hard!!! (pun unintended)

like i have been edging my characters for so long because i do not know how to write sexy scenes


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3 years ago

no YOU are crying about the fact that mikey gave himself the foreign nickname so that emma would not be the only one


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3 years ago

idk if i should be worried about this but i can't seem to relax properly as in there is a dull pain in my chest, right above my heart - might even be my heart tbh but it's not like a searing pain. it's like if someone is gently pushing my chest.

my heart also feels like it's beating very fast but when I press my hand against my chest it feels normal. at least that's what I'm getting

ive never had anything like this

this has been going on for a while ever since I started to eat lunch. I came back from exams which is offline here. I felt nothing on the way. now I've washed the dishes (it felt weird even tho I used to do it all the time) and am on my bed now, going to fall asleep and hopefully wake up more refreshed. I admit school has been stressful cuz of the practical exams I had and now I have exams till second week of march.

idk if it's cuz of the stress I've accumulated but I just wanted to write it down. for evidence ig


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4 years ago

whats this i hear about people tryna cancel kenma??? as a kenma stan, i am disappointed in humanity


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idk what this acc is for anymore. student/part-time ponderer/part-time singer. 19.

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