Can People Stop Saying Neurotypicals Shouldn’t Use Stim/fidget Toys??????

Can people stop saying neurotypicals shouldn’t use stim/fidget toys??????

-people might not be diagnosed or realize they have adhd/autism/whatever and by telling them they cant use the thing you are restricting their access to something they might not even know they need but could help them immensely - esp if they are undiagnosed adhd its so hard to not have anything to fidget with when unmedicated imo

-saying only nd people can use them could make ppl feel they have to reveal diagnoses theyd rather keep private to avoid being looked down on for using them

-fidgeting can help nt people too

-the more people want them, nt and nd, the more available they will become for nd people as well as nt people and that availability can only benefit nds who fidget/stim

-it just generally doesn’t feel right to restrict access to things that benefit everyone (to me at least)

edit since apparently i didnt word this right: this does NOT APPLY to treating them like toys and not for their intended person, eg throwing them. But if nt people wanna fidget with a spinner and arent misusing them dont tell them they cant use it bc theyre nt mmkay

edit 2: I am, in fact, ADHD, if you didn’t pick up on that, and very well understand the importance of fidget toys to those who stim. Please don’t treat me like a neurotypical trying to steal resources from neurodivergent people.

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4 years ago

Best headcanons I've ever read-

headcanons bc im bored af

kid:

- real name is Kai

- has a huge crush on Billy

- watches crime shows (w/ lily and billy)

- pretends to like science for billy

- parents ignore him

- gets into fights despite being

- a huge pacifist

- only crys when mad

- secretly shares a bed/sleeping bag with billy when they both go to sleepovers

- good at making music

- wants to be a detective

- smokes weed sometimes (w/ billy)

billy:

- has health problems and goes into hospital a lot

- actually a good singer

- can play ukulele

- great at drawing

- terrible handwriting tho

- has a huge crush on Kid (and nugget)

- has a pet rabbit

- loves biology and

- is really good at biology and chem but is terrible at physics

- wants to be a forensic scientist

- hates maths

- gets mad very rarely

- only swears when he’s really mad

- hates cindy (obviously)

- only watches crime shows bc Kid likes them

- actually really likes gore

- quite strong (can hit hard) despite not being able to lift anyone

- wants to set up a band with Kid

Lily:

- kinda has a crush on Cindy even after everything she did

- has a pet tortoise

- pacifist until she gets mad

- is the older twin

- has a small flower garden thingy

- hates gore

- secretly is rly strong and can probably lift buggs if she wanted to

- “the quiet kid”

- loves pastel colors

- likes to paint

- wants to run her own detective agency when she’s older (and will possibly employ kid and billy)

- allergic to dogs

- forgives people too easily

Jerome:

- crushing on monty super hard

- great at doing tricks with his yo-yo’s

- is monty’s favourite customer

- his dad wants him to be the next principal

- but he actually wants to be a musician

- rly good at guitar

- and didn’t take any lessons

- probably the kid that puts his feet up on the desk

- sassy af

- uses snapchat and insta too much

- throws amazing parties when his parents aren’t in town

- his mum works at a bank

- the rich kid

- probably got high once

- and it was probably by accident

- has kissed monty twice

- hates it when ppl smoke (especially monty)

monty:

- cute af

- “being straight was my phase”

- pretended to date jerome to make his ex mad

- jerome made out with him

- “i told you to pretend to date me! not stick your tongue down my throat!”

- actually liked it bc

- he’s also crushing on jerome

- can get quite agitated and paranoid

- only jerome can calm him

- calls jerome at 3am bc he cant sleep

- insomniac

- lives on energy drinks (and coffee sometimes)

- smokes behind jerome’s back

- smokes weed too

- sells weed to Kid

- takes anti-depressants

Cindy:

- not as much as a bitch anymore

- another rich kid

- wears too much makeup and slutty clothes

- loves hot pink

- wants to work at starbucks

- is actually a gamer (and is quite good)

- plays games w/ everyone

- loves shooter games

- salty af

- has 3 dogs

- dog person

- wants to date lily and is planning to confess on lily’s birthday

- “lesbian power, bitch!”

- found out she was lesbian after dating Kid

- was only nasty bc she loved lily

4 years ago

Please kill me


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3 years ago
Felt Like Making A Comic About Nightmare And His Dummies Uwu
Felt Like Making A Comic About Nightmare And His Dummies Uwu
Felt Like Making A Comic About Nightmare And His Dummies Uwu
Felt Like Making A Comic About Nightmare And His Dummies Uwu
Felt Like Making A Comic About Nightmare And His Dummies Uwu
Felt Like Making A Comic About Nightmare And His Dummies Uwu

Felt like making a comic about Nightmare and his dummies uwu


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4 years ago

Got in to DHMIS

I'm now shipping inanimate objects.

DigitalTime is my OTP. I'm sad I'm shit at drawing them BC I wanna make fanart but I'm shit at it so like DDDD:


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4 years ago
MCYT Twitter Is Having A Holiday Party, And MCYT Tumblr Is Invited Too!

MCYT twitter is having a holiday party, and MCYT tumblr is invited too!

We’ll be having the event on Dec 20th from 9-11am EST on our Minecraft server and Discord server! There will be games and activities and music and it’ll be a lot of fun!

You do NOT need to have a twitter to be a part of the event. Anyone involved in mcytblr is invited. Let me know if you have any questions!

Please RSVP here: https://forms.gle/dzEmqUNjNEgT9TXq5…

Join our discord too! https://discord.gg/EMyjA3rWqZ

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5 years ago

IBVS WEEK

@onebizarrekai

Day I have no clue: Caring

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Drew walked home alone. He stumbled. The crutches were hard to get used to. He still wasn't even used to them. He let out a yelp and fell to the ground. He landed on his broken leg. He let out a cry of pain. He wished his brother was here. But he was at Chris' house.

Barry was walking home from school when be found the smaller boy on the ground crying. "Are you okay?" He asked. Drew looked and shook his head. Barry examined the boy. "Let me help you. Could you hold your crutches?" Barry asked. He nodded and grabbed them the best he could. Barry scooped the boy up.

Drew gasped and blushed. Barry smiled. "Would you like me to take you to my place or yours?"

"Mine please..." Drew said quietly.

Barry smiles and nodded. "Where?"

Drew gave him the address and the two set off.

Drew unlocked the door with his keys and went inside with barry, still carrying him. Barry set the smol on the couch. He closed the door and went back to the boy. "We should put ice on that." Barry said. Drew pointed to the kitchen. "Yeah.. we should..."

Barry left and came back with an ice pack, placing it on the broken leg. "You live alone?"

"N-no... my grandma is upstairs and my brother is at a friend's place. I think." Drew said, smiling. "Do you always walk alone?" Barry asked. "No, Nevin walks me home too. Just not always."

"Text me when you need help getting home then. I'll hand you my number." Barry said taking out his phone. Drew blushed and nodded, taking out his as well.

The two boys exchanged numbers and went on with their days.


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3 years ago

hey have you heard of tone indicators? if you have- go right ahead and ignore this ask

if not;

Hey Have You Heard Of Tone Indicators? If You Have- Go Right Ahead And Ignore This Ask

thats the list i use!

you basically put one of those (or more, if your post/message has more than one tone) at the end of a post or message and it helps a lot of people who struggle with tone

when i say more than one tone, sometimes it can be hard for me to pick which fits the best so ill put “/srs/nm” on there (meaning that im not joking but im not upset either). or if im being sarcastic but the message is meant to be a joke ill just do “/s/j”

(also, as a side note i couldnt find anything about ships on your pinned post/bio- if youre an anti for any kind of ship, can you tell me so i can block you? its nothing personal, its just for my own mental health. you dont have to say it here either, if you want to send me a message, go ahead)

Hi there, I totally understand! I checked your profile and I assume you mean Ninjago Ships, and if that's the case, then no I don't think there's any ship I'm an anti for, I mean obviously 1nc3st and p3d0phili4 are a no go but toher than that there's no ships I'm against. There's Lloyd x Harumi that rubs me personally the wrong way, but I'm fine with people who do ship it, I mean I totally see it happening too, but other than that I'm all for shipping and stuff.

I try to use tone tags as much as I can or as much as I can remember too. I usually write stuff and out trigger warnings there and all. Since you seem to be a ninjago fan I'd recommend my Ninjago account @deadfire910isstanningninjago as I mainly post Ninjago content there.

TL,DR: I just don't care what or who you ship as long as it isn't p3d0phil1c or 1nc3sti0us

8 months ago
a drawing of Poof, Foop, Goldie Goldenglow and Sammy Sweetsparkle as teenagers, somewhere between fourteen to fifteen. Poof and Goldie are in the background, with Poof having a look of complete dismay and horror as he thinks to himself "I should blow myself up right now." as he watches Foop float off while holding hands with Sammy. Goldie floats next to Poof, a concerned expression as she is trying to get his attention, saying "Poof? Are ya alright, Poof? hello? Periwinkle?"

the idea of Poof being jealous of Foop and Sammy being together, and also Goldie is there. based loosely on this frame:

a screenshot from the episode "School of Crock" where Foop is fawning over Sammy wearing a dark purple leather jacket, while Poof stares at him in disbelief.
4 years ago

I’ve changed how I want the dream smp to restart for the update.

Karl.

I want Karl to call everyone, and I mean everyone like even Alyssa everyone, to a building.

I want him to tell him all that he’s a time traveler and how he tried to set the world right and fix things but by doing so he only doomed the world (the egg.)

I want to say that they have only one shot at living and how he’s sorry.

I want him to light an end portal (but no one knows what it is) and slowly one by one everyone drops into it.

I then want everyone to appear on a brand new dream smp with no memory or the past one or what happened on the last one.

Everyone has slight memories of each other and the relationships they had but no solid ones.

Only Karl knows.

I want to see Tommy and Ranboo on edge around Dream but have no idea why.

I want Tubbo to freak out at the first firework he sees but have no idea why.

I want people to be scared of sapnap near their pets.

I want Funny accidentally calling Wilbur dad.

I want wilbur lightly humming the anthem while building his house.

I want to see the sbi building houses next to each other’s and Techno complaining that they are too close to his house.

I want Eret making a comment about how nice a castle would look in a place.

I want captain puffy handing out flowers and making sure Nikki always had a new one.

I want Phil on edge whenever Wilbur is near a button.

I want Tommy to build a bench and Tubbo just sits down like he always has. I want Tubbo to offer to play a disc he found.

I want Sam subconsciously placing himself between Tommy and Dream.

I want Dream following Puffy around randomly before pausing and walking away.

I want Connor to avoid Techno and Tommy when they are near any form of water.

I want Quackity to always move to stand next to either Sap or Karl.

I want George to build a cottage while making Dream collect all the materials for it, maybe jokingly calling him his knight.

I want Tubbo showing Schlatt his house and schlatt being impressed and insulting anyone else in the call with them.

I want Jack to adore Tubbo but avoid Tommy when he can.

I want Bad and Skeppy to build a house together and Ant being their next door neighbor.

I want Nikki to open a bakery and Karl’s fear that they’ll remember.

I want to taunted with the past and only Karl knows (and us of course)


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4 years ago

Like Jay trying to figure out how to propose to Nya was very Ironic because that's when I'm like "DAMN NYA KAI TRYNA STEAL YO MAN"

All season 10 did was make me ship Plasmashipping and Survivalshipping.


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