"There is no glory in suffering just take the medicine"
I haven't seen it said much on many of these glow-up/self-improvement accounts, so let me put it out there for you all: Psychiatric medications can be among the most powerful of tools.
People talk a lot about "shifting your mindset" in a metaphorical sense. The right psych medication will do this for you on a chemical level. I have genuinely forgotten what it feels like to have an anxiety disorder.
Never feel ashamed for doing what you need to do to improve your quality of life.
Don't make the mistake of being so understanding and forgiving that you overlook the fact that you're being disrespected.
(The Messenger ﷺ said): “Whoever read a letter from the Book of Allah then he will receive a reward for it and every good reward is multiplied by ten the like of it, “من قرأ حرفا من كتاب الله فله به حسنة، والحسنة بعشر أمثالها I do not say that ‘Alif, Laam, Meem’ is a ḥarf (ie: letter) لا أقول: {الم} حرف but Alif is a ḥarf, ولكن: ألف حرف and Lām is a ḥarf ولام حرف and Mīm is a ḥarf.” وميم حرف”. Ṣaḥīḥ; On the authority of Ibn Masʿūd. Sharḥ al-Ṭaḥāwīyyah p. 158, al-Mishkāt #2137. (صحيح) [تخ ت ك] عن ابن مسعود. شرح الطحاوية 158، المشكاة 2137. Muḥammad Nāṣir ʾl-Dīn al-Albānī, Ṣaḥīḥ al-Jāmiʿ al-Ṣaġīr 2/1103 #6469 محمد ناصر الدين الألباني، صحيح الجامع الصغير وزيادته ٢/١١٠٣ #٦٤٦٩ https://shamela.ws/book/10757/1037 @ilmtest [https://t.me/ilmtest]
"The time is now. Stop hitting the snooze button on your life." — Mel Robbins
I think she’s in trouble!! 💜💜💜💜
Girls do better than most men and boys
I want to feel you 😍😘
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Al-‘Allāmah Ibn Bāz - may Allāh have mercy on him - said:
“Difference in age between the husband and wife is not an impediment; whether he is older than her or she is older than him, it is not an impediment. The only thing that is important is that she is religious. If she is religious then take her even if she is older than you.”
📖 [Fatāwā Nūr ‘alad-Darb 20/137]
“Nurture your mind with great thoughts, for you will never go any higher than you think.” — Benjamin Disraeli