mutuals, non-mutuals, ops of years old posts, you can all catch these paws
“When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself.”
— Wayne Dyer
I’m attracted to mindsets, I need to see how you think because how you look ain’t enough.
i wanna say fuck you to anyone who shame disabled, chronically ill & neurodivergent people, especially homebound folks, for "spending too much time on their phone/on the internet/etc." when it's the only (Somewhat) accessible way for them to experience the world. many people don't get to get out much even if they want to because of their disabilities. shaming someone for trying to connect with the world, make friends and engage with hobbies in ways that are accessible to them is beyond cruel and unnecessary
you can reinvent yourself as often and as much as you want. you don’t have to stay stagnant to make other people comfortable.
People who love you shouldn't make you feel ashamed of your interests and hobbies. What you enjoy is wonderful, even if it's uncommon, complicated, stereotypical, etc. Please keep sharing your lovely energy with the world.
“Forgive me if I don’t talk much at times. It’s loud enough in my head.”
— Unknown
Some people don't see how much you do for them. they only see what you don't do. you'll never satisfy an ungrateful person.
whenever i like your vent post pls don’t imagine me standing there with a thumbs up pls imagine me bringing you a warm blanket out of the dryer and a cup of your favorite drink bc that is what i am doing mentally in my own mind
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