“We’re afraid others will see our flaws, weaknesses and insecurities. We’re afraid if others really knew us, they would reject us. We feel like fakes and frauds in a world that seems to have it all together.”
— Dave Earley
Boundaries
I just had to let it go
“I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become.”
— Carl Gustav Jung
The amount of nonbinary friends I've had ask me, a binary trans man, if they're "allowed" to call themselves a part of the trans community is so sad. Yes, of course you can. We are all in this together. You can fly the trans flag you can call yourself trans you can celebrate TDOV and mourn TDOR with us please come hold my hand and fight by my side. When you started identifying as nonbinary you got an optional trans bundle, too—you don't have to take it but you absolutely should if you want to. The white stripe is for you.
Honestly? Shoutout to those of you who are completely fucking lost in life. Those who don’t know what they want to do with life. Those who are stuck in a certain part of life and can’t get out. Those who are reaching for dreams they feel are impossible to reach. Those who feel like they’re accomplishments are being overlooked. Those who feel like their enough just isn’t enough. It is. You can make it. You will make it. There is an opening at the end of the tunnel.
You’ve grown into someone who would have protected you as a child. And that is the most powerful move you made.
not to be annoying but i don't see like any aseuxal/aro rep in most pride month posts so remember to pour one out for the homies
“Do not expect people to tell you the truth because they also lie to themselves.”
— Don Miguel Ruiz