-Ordering for your sub at a restaurant
-Choosing sub’s outfit for the day
-Giving a bedtime
-Corporal punishment for bad behavior
-Instructing the submissive to write your name somewhere on their body daily
-Training sub with non-verbal cues
-verbal cues to correct unwanted behavior in public
-sub must be at a certain distance & position when in public
-Training sub how to greet you(on call/in person)
-Sub must wear a collar/necklace w/your name/title on it
-Scheduling hypnosis time
-Choosing and/or putting sub’s shoes on for them
-sub must ask permission before speaking
-sub must ask permission before entering/exiting a room(could be in public, a designated play/comfort room, at home, etc)
-Sub may only sit on the floor, on a cushion, in a designated chair
-Scheduling exercise time for sub
-Scheduled chore time
-Controlling their alcohol intake(when they can get drunk, if they can’t get drunk, cutting them off)
-Monitoring water intake
-monitoring screen/phone time
-Monitoring a submissive's outfits while out
-scheduling a time daily/weekly for sub to sit on their knees in silence, repeating a predetermined mantra
-Instructing sub to complete scheduled chores in a required uniform
-serving Dominant drinks/food
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Let's add some more in the reblogs...
Born to serve. Made to obey. Proud to submit. If this is who you are, share and show your devotion to Alpha Men.
He couldn’t believe it. He had shown up to campus ready to party, his long hair blowing in the wind, his jeans ripped, and his sneakers scuffed. But something had happened during his meeting with his advisor. The man was… very persuasive about the freshman’s future academic career.
He showed up to his first class a completely changed man: a respectable man. His long flowing locks had been shorn into a strict horseshoe flattop. His casual clothing had been replaced with a closet full of starched short sleeve white shirts, black pleated slacks, ties, and white briefs. Inside each article of clothing was a tag with the day of the week so he knew what to wear each day. And everything was perfectly complemented with a pair of brightly shined penny loafers. To his classmates, he was anything but the freewheeling party dude he had arrived on campus as. They viewed him as a bit of a square, a fuddy duddy even!
The craziest part? He loves it. He loves how restricted and controlled he feels. He loves how short his hair has become. He loves never having to think about what to wear and just accepting his daily outfit. When he showed up to class, he was shocked to see his academic advisor had switched his major from music to classics but now he can’t think of anything better than studying Greek and Latin and translating the Ovid. Heck, he turns down weekend plans so he can spend more time at the library, properly dressed and studying like the hardworking man he is.
He would have told you just a few weeks ago that he was the ultimate rebel. Now? He’s the ultimate conformist and happier than he’s ever been. He will dress, groom, and act this way for the rest of his life because he knows it is proper. And he hopes you will join him.
In fact, he knows you will.
A submissive who resists this truth will always struggle, caught between desire and denial, torn between what they crave and what they fear. They will feel lost, uncertain, and disconnected from their true nature. But the sub who embraces it? They thrive.
They understand that submission is not weakness—it is their strength, their purpose, their calling. They do not hesitate, nor do they question their place. They find freedom in obedience, clarity in devotion, and fulfillment in giving themselves completely. They know that true submission is not simply about following orders but about embodying service in its purest form. It is about trust, discipline, and surrendering the ego in favor of something greater.
Service is not a burden; it is a privilege. To kneel, to obey, to devote themselves entirely to the will of another—it is not about losing themselves but about becoming more. A submissive who resists their purpose will always feel incomplete, as though something vital is missing. They will struggle against their own nature, fighting battles that only leave them exhausted and unfulfilled. But a sub who embraces their place? They find peace.
There is no shame in submission, only strength. The world may tell you that power is in control, that worth is measured by dominance, but you know the truth: your power lies in surrender. Your worth is found in your service. To give yourself without hesitation, without doubt, without resistance—that is where your true fulfillment lies. A submissive who gives themselves fully will always be whole.
Be... preppy...
It’s not just doing what you’re told while your mind drifts somewhere else. That’s not service; that’s convenience.
Real submission, the kind that leaves a mark, is deliberate. It’s conscious. It’s full-bodied and present. Every act of obedience becomes a message, a statement of who you are and why you’re there. Not because you have to. Not because you're programmed. But because you choose to give yourself fully.
When you offer obedience with intention, something shifts. It stops being about ticking a box or avoiding punishment. It becomes devotion. A form of worship. A quiet, sacred ritual of surrender that says: I am yours, completely, and I know exactly what that means.
Your posture changes. Your energy changes. You’re not just doing as you're told; you’re giving something of value. You’re offering focus. Discipline. Desire. You’re placing your attention, your will, your service, at someone else’s feet.
That’s what separates a forgettable sub from a remarkable one. That’s what makes a Dominant stop and feel your submission, not just see it.
So the next time you're told to kneel, don’t just drop because you're expected to. Drop with purpose. Drop with awareness. Feel what you're offering.
Your obedience is a gift. Treat it like one.