Your Purpose Is To Serve. To Obey. To Surrender Completely.

Friendly advice from one boy to another.

The newest recruit always has the most to learn. It is part of the other boys duties to teach them. The advice comes think and fast:

Don't be proud. Don't assert yourself. Don't question anything. Don't think you're special. Don't expect attention. Don't express any opinions. Don't speak unless spoken to.

Do be absolutely submissive. Do conform. Do obey every single order. Do exactly what we do. Do treat Sir as your idol. Do abandon any notions of 'self'. Do feel grateful. Do give everything. Do realise that you exist only to serve.

The boy listened carefully and took the advice. This was how he wanted his life to be now. He wanted to be one of the boys.

Yes Sir... it's time for dresscode supervision...

Princeton, 1962

Peter: When vacations suddenly end

In the shimmering waters of Monte Carlo, under the Mediterranean sun, the story of Peter Summers took a dramatic turn. The heir to a billion-dollar fortune, Peter had always lived life on his terms, fueled by an insatiable thirst for excitement. His latest adventure involved his father's prized possession, a magnificent yacht named "The Marauder."

Peter, with his dark curly hair blowing in the sea breeze, had invited a group of friends for an impromptu party aboard the yacht. Music blared, drinks flowed, and laughter echoed over the waves. In a reckless moment of bravado, Peter decided to take the helm, navigating through the azure waters with the confidence of one who had never faced consequences.

However, his inexperience and the yacht's powerful engines were a dangerous combination. In a heart-stopping moment, Peter lost control. The yacht, like a wounded beast, crashed against a hidden reef, its hull gashing open. The sound of rending metal and the rush of water were terrifying. Fortunately, everyone aboard was rescued unharmed, but "The Marauder" lay partially submerged, a testament to Peter's folly.

The news of the incident spread like wildfire. Peter's father, a self-made man who had worked tirelessly to build his empire, was furious. For him, the yacht was more than a luxury; it was a symbol of his achievements, now tarnished by his son's carelessness.

Peter was summoned immediately. The confrontation with his father was intense. His father's disappointment was palpable, his anger barely contained. "You've crossed a line, Peter," his father said, his voice a mix of fury and frustration. "It's time you learn the value of responsibility, of discipline."

Peter's protests fell on deaf ears. His father had already decided on a course of action, one that would change Peter's life forever. He was to be enrolled in the Gentleman Academy, a prestigious institution renowned for transforming wayward young men into disciplined, responsible adults.

The academy, nestled near Kingston Upon Thames, was a world apart from Peter's life of luxury and indulgence. It was a place where discipline reigned, where the sons of the wealthy were taught the values of hard work, humility, and respect.

Peter's reaction was a mix of disbelief and anger. The idea of being sent to an academy for reform was humiliating. He argued, pleaded, and even tried to charm his way out of it, but his father was resolute. "This is not just for your future, Peter, but also to understand the consequences of your actions," his father said firmly.

The realization that there was no escape from this decision dawned on Peter. His privileged life, with its parties and freedom, was being replaced by a strict regimen in a place where his name and wealth meant little.

As he packed his bags, a sense of dread mixed with a flicker of curiosity. What would life be like in this academy? Could he, Peter Summers, the wild, carefree heir, adapt to such a disciplined environment? These questions swirled in his mind as he set off for the Gentleman Academy, unaware that his journey would be one of profound transformation.

In the heart of the prestigious Gentleman Academy, hidden behind its ivy-clad walls, was a barbershop known for its transformative haircuts. The barber, a master of his craft, was given a unique task: to fashion the hair of Peter Summers, the notorious son of a billionaire, who had recently earned infamy for wrecking his father's yacht in Monte Carlo.

Peter, a young man of 20, with a rebellious streak as wild as his untamed, curly dark hair, found himself seated in the barber's chair. He had been myopic since his 11th birthday, his thick glasses a constant companion. His arrival at the academy was sudden, plucked from the luxurious chaos of his holidays to the disciplined corridors of the academy.

As the barber draped the cape over Peter's shoulders, he reflected on the explicit instructions he had received: to choose a comb-over hairstyle for the young Summers. This was not just a haircut; it was a symbol of the academy's authority and a step towards molding Peter into a gentleman.

Peter, accustomed to the latest loose-fitting sports brands and a lifestyle devoid of restrictions, felt a wave of unease. The barber's shop, with its polished floors and the scent of classic cologne, was a far cry from the world he knew. The barber positioned Peter with his back to the mirror, ensuring that the transformation would be a surprise.

The barber began his work, his skilled hands combing through the thick, curly locks. The sound of scissors snipping through hair filled the air, mingling with the soft, classical music in the background. Peter felt the weight of his hair lessen with each cut, a sensation both unfamiliar and unnerving.

As the barber worked, Peter's thoughts drifted. He felt the gentle tug of the comb, the cool touch of the scissors near his skin, and the occasional brush of the barber's hand as he sculpted the hair. The feeling of hair being lifted and sheared was both alarming and fascinating. He could sense the drastic changes occurring but was powerless to see or influence the outcome.

Gradually, the wildness of his hair was tamed. The barber meticulously crafted the comb-over, a style that required precision and an understanding of how to artfully disguise. Peter felt the hair being combed over from one side to the other, covering the top of his head in a smooth sweep. The sides were trimmed shorter, enhancing the contrast.

When the haircut was nearing its end, Peter's heart raced. He realized that this was more than a mere change of hairstyle; it was a shedding of his old identity. The young, carefree, and rebellious Peter Summers was being reshaped into something new, something unknown.

The snipping ceased, and the barber removed the cape. "Your new beginning, Mr. Summers," he said, guiding Peter to face the mirror. The reflection that greeted Peter was a stranger. The wild curls were gone, replaced by a neatly combed sweep of hair, a mature and controlled style that made him appear older, more serious.

Peter's initial shock gave way to a realization. This haircut was a symbol of his new life at the academy. He touched his hair, feeling the smoothness where there once was chaos. It was a stark reminder of the discipline and transformation expected of him.

The next step in Peter's transformation awaited him at the tailor shop next door. As he walked out of the barbershop, Peter felt a mix of emotions. The unfamiliar sensation of his new hairstyle was a constant reminder of the change he was undergoing. The journey to the tailor shop felt like a walk towards a new chapter of his life, one filled with the promises and challenges of becoming a true gentleman.

Peter Summers, still adjusting to his transformative haircut, hesitated momentarily before stepping into the tailor shop adjacent to the Gentleman Academy’s barbershop. The room, steeped in the tradition of tailoring, was awash with warm light. Rolls of fine fabrics and suits at various stages of completion surrounded him, a world away from the casual affluence of Monte Carlo.

The tailor, a man whose sharp eyes missed no detail, greeted him. “Mr. Summers, we’ve been expecting you. Let’s begin with your fitting,” he stated, a tone of finality in his voice.

Peter was handed the tight white cotton briefs and traditional undershirt, the underpinnings of the academy’s uniform. As he donned them, he felt a stark departure from his usual casual attire, a tangible stripping away of his former life.

The tailor then presented the black tailcoat, its classic design extending elegantly to the back of Peter’s knees. The weight of the fabric on his shoulders felt like a mantle of responsibility. Measurements were taken, chalk marks made, ensuring a perfect fit.

Next was the crisp white shirt with its high Edwardian stiff collar, a symbol of discipline and tradition. Tucked into the dark gray high-waisted pants, it transformed Peter’s appearance, lending him a gravity he had never experienced before.

A cream-colored waistcoat followed, adding sophistication. Finally, a dark red cravat was tied around his neck, lending an aristocratic flair to the ensemble.

Peter stood before the full-length mirror, hardly recognizing the young man clad in the uniform of the academy, his new combover hairstyle neatly covering his baldness.

The tailor’s approving nod signaled the end of the fitting. “You are ready to meet the headmaster,” he said.

In the headmaster’s office, a room redolent with the scent of old books and wisdom, Peter was introduced to the academy's ethos by the headmaster, a figure of wisdom and sternness.

“Mr. Summers, here at the Gentleman Academy, we live by ten golden rules. These are not mere guidelines but the pillars upon which true gentlemen are built,” the headmaster began, his voice resonating with authority.

“Rule One: Integrity above all. A gentleman is always honest and true to his word.”

“Rule Two: Respect for all. Regardless of status or situation, a gentleman treats everyone with equal dignity.”

“Rule Three: Self-discipline is key. A gentleman exercises control over his actions and emotions.”

“Rule Four: Commitment to excellence. Mediocrity is not in a gentleman's vocabulary; we strive for the best in all we do.”

“Rule Five: Empathy and understanding. A gentleman always seeks to understand others’ perspectives and feelings.”

“Rule Six: Maintain a dignified appearance. As you have learned, our dress code is part of our identity.”

“Rule Seven: Cultivate intellectual curiosity. A gentleman is a lifelong learner, always seeking knowledge.”

“Rule Eight: Be a pillar of the community. Give back and contribute positively to society.”

“Rule Nine: Practice humility. A gentleman never boasts about his achievements or belittles others.”

“Rule Ten: Uphold the spirit of the academy. Honor these principles both within these walls and beyond.”

Peter listened intently, each rule echoing in the chambers of his evolving self. These were not just rules; they were a blueprint for the transformation he was about to undergo.

“You will sign here, Mr. Summers,” the headmaster continued, presenting the rule book. “This is your commitment to us, and more importantly, to yourself.”

As Peter’s pen met the paper, he felt the weight of this commitment, a solemn vow to embark on a journey from reckless youth to disciplined gentleman.

With his signature, Peter stepped into a new chapter of his life, one that promised not only change but the awakening of a true gentleman within.

The morning sun cast a golden hue across the pristine room of the Gentleman Academy, where Peter Summers, erstwhile heir to a lavish lifestyle, now faced the daunting task of assimilating into a world of discipline and order.

Wrapped in a towel, Peter stood before the mirror in his room, the steam from his shower fogging up the edges. His reflection was barely recognizable - the combover haircut, a far cry from the wild curls he once sported, seemed to mock him from the glass. The realization that he had to style it himself, something he had never done before, filled him with a sense of dread.

As he fumbled with the hairspray, attempting to cover the baldness artfully, frustration crept in. Each unsuccessful attempt chipped away at his patience. “This is ridiculous,” he muttered under his breath, the can of hairspray slipping from his fingers, clattering on the tiled floor.

There was a knock at the door. “Peter, it’s Luis from down the hall. Can I come in?” called a voice, tentative yet friendly.

Peter, desperate for any semblance of help, replied, “Yeah, sure. The door’s open.”

Luis, a member of the academy’s male pattern baldness club, entered with a knowing smile. “Hair trouble, huh? It takes some getting used to,” he said, picking up the hairspray can and expertly beginning to style Peter’s hair.

As Luis worked, he talked about the club, describing how they supported each other in embracing their new looks. “It’s more than just about hair, you know. It’s about owning who we are now,” he said, his tone warm and understanding.

Peter listened, a sense of camaraderie building inside him. For the first time since his arrival, he didn’t feel entirely alone.

After breakfast, Peter found a secluded spot and dialed his father’s number. The phone rang, each tone amplifying his anxiety.

“Peter? Is everything alright?” his father’s voice came through, stern yet laced with concern.

“Dad, I... I can’t do this. I want to come back,” Peter’s voice wavered, his plea laden with frustration and a hint of desperation.

There was a pause, the weight of his request hanging in the air. “Peter, you can return, but on one condition,” his father finally said. “You join the family business, starting from the ground up, and you follow the ten golden rules of the academy, including their dress code and hairstyle. It’s time you learn responsibility.”

Peter’s heart sank. This wasn’t the escape he had hoped for. “Alright, Dad. I’ll do it,” he agreed reluctantly, understanding that this was another form of discipline, another challenge he had to face.

Epilogue: Transformation

A year had passed since Peter Summers left the Gentleman Academy and joined his father’s company. The journey had been arduous, filled with challenges and lessons that reshaped him.

Peter started at the very bottom, his days filled with tasks he once deemed menial. Each morning, as he styled his hair, now a routine he had mastered, he saw not just his reflection but the embodiment of his new ethos. The combover, once a symbol of his constraints, now represented his commitment to change.

He adhered strictly to the ten golden rules of the academy, each one etched in his memory. The discipline, once a burden, had become a source of strength. He dressed in the prescribed uniform, the tailcoat and crisp shirt a daily reminder of his journey.

His relationship with his father evolved. Respect and understanding grew where frustration and defiance once reigned. They shared conversations, not as father and son, but as equals. “I’m proud of you, Peter,” his father said during one of their meetings, a sentiment that filled Peter with a sense of accomplishment.

Peter’s transformation was not just in appearance but in spirit. He learned the value of hard work, the importance of humility, and the strength in discipline. The reckless young man who once crashed a yacht in Monte Carlo was now a responsible, dedicated member of his father's company.

As he walked through the company's halls, his colleagues, who initially viewed him with skepticism, now looked at him with respect. Peter Summers had not just followed the path laid out for him; he had carved his own, guided by the lessons he learned at the Gentleman Academy.

The year had been a crucible, forging a new Peter, one ready to face the world not just as an heir to a fortune but as a man of character and substance.

The Society of Obedient and Chaste Men: A Path to True Discipline

Introduction

Welcome to the Society of Obedient and Chaste Men, an elite program for young men aged 20-25, crafted to instill a lifetime of obedience, humility, and self-control. In today’s world, indulgence and excess often cloud the path to true character. For fathers concerned about the future of their sons, we offer a transformative journey that reshapes attitudes, disciplines behavior, and fosters a refined moral foundation.

Our Society’s program is built upon a time-tested framework that combines rigorous routine, physical and mental discipline, and daily supervised mentorship. Here, young men learn to value modesty over pride, duty over desire, and restraint over indulgence. They emerge with a profound sense of purpose, prepared to uphold a legacy of integrity and responsibility.

“The Society has helped me become a better man. I feel calmer and more focused every day.” – Samuel, Age 22

Samuel and many others have found a bright future through the Society. Your son could be next.

The Structure of Our Program

The foundation of the Society lies in its meticulously structured program, crafted to instill lasting habits and values. From dawn till dusk, each day is organized with precision, filled with activities designed to foster discipline, obedience, and introspection.

The day begins with Morning Assembly in the chapel, where members reflect silently on the Society’s principles. Under the watchful eye of mentors, every action they take, from uniform inspection to mealtime behavior, reinforces a strict sense of order and accountability. Each member’s day is devoid of distractions, allowing full immersion in personal development and ethical reflection.

Members quickly come to understand that time is precious and that every moment must serve a purpose. This structure, while challenging, creates an environment where growth is inevitable and character is cultivated, transforming each young man into a person of substance and strength.

“I appreciate the structured days here. There’s never any time wasted, and I feel more productive than ever.” – Oliver, Age 23

Uniform and Dress Code

At the Society, uniformity is a symbol of unity, humility, and dedication. Members are required to wear formal black tailcoats, white high-collared shirts, and dark trousers every day, whether they are attending chapel, eating meals, or participating in activities. There are no exceptions; each man dresses the same, representing a commitment to collective identity and a relinquishing of personal vanity.

The dress code serves a deeper purpose than simply standardizing appearance. By wearing identical attire daily, members learn to value modesty and simplicity, redirecting their focus away from superficiality and toward their inner qualities. This formal attire also cultivates a posture of dignity, encouraging members to hold themselves with respect and composure at all times.

As a symbolic gesture, members are discouraged from paying undue attention to appearance. Instead, they are guided to keep themselves neat without indulging in vanity. Personal expression through clothing or accessories is entirely absent, reinforcing the values of humility and self-restraint.

“Wearing the same clothes every day really makes you appreciate the simple things. I feel… well, I feel content.” – Adrian, Age 21

Hair Style Description

In the Society of Obedient and Chaste Men, hair styling is a key aspect of personal grooming, symbolizing discipline and adherence to rules. Each member is required to maintain a specific hairstyle that reflects humility, restraint, and an unwavering commitment to Society standards.

• Length: Hair must be kept short on the sides and back, no more than one inch in length, with slightly longer hair on top, allowing for it to be slicked back neatly.

• Top Styling: The hair on top should be at least two inches long, long enough to be smoothly combed and styled back flat against the head.

• Slicked Texture: Hair is to be slicked back using a generous amount of gel or pomade. The result should be a glossy, firm style that maintains a polished, fixed position throughout the day.

• Side Part: While not mandatory, a slight side part is encouraged, though it must be discreet and only accentuate the overall sleek, neat style.

Rules and Maintenance

1. Daily Styling: Every morning, members are required to style their hair as per Society standards. Hair gel or pomade must be applied liberally to ensure the hair remains in place, presenting a shiny, controlled appearance.

2. Mirror Checks: Members are to inspect their hairstyle thoroughly in front of a mirror to ensure the slicked-back style is neat, symmetrical, and free of stray strands.

3. Uniform Consistency: The hairstyle must be identical each day, reinforcing discipline and adherence to Society standards. Variations in length, texture, or style are strictly forbidden.

4. Touch-Ups: Hair should be restyled as needed throughout the day. Members may carry a small container of gel for this purpose, and any signs of stray hairs or lack of gloss are to be addressed immediately.

5. Regular Trims: Haircuts are scheduled every two weeks, ensuring uniformity across the group. The exact length specifications must be followed strictly by the barber, ensuring the style can be easily slicked back and remains low-maintenance between cuts.

6. Mentor Inspections: Senior mentors conduct random inspections, especially before meals and assemblies, to ensure each member’s hairstyle meets the Society’s standards. Members found with an improper style may receive additional grooming duties as part of discipline training.

“I used to let my hair grow wild and free—it was like a symbol of who I thought I was. Now, keeping it short, slicked back, exactly as they require… it’s a constant reminder that discipline starts with the small things. Strange as it sounds, I’ve found clarity in something as simple as a haircut.” – Julian, Age 23

By adhering to these guidelines, each member not only reflects the Society’s values of discipline and restraint but also internalizes the importance of daily attention to detail and uniformity. The hairstyle serves as a symbol of commitment and is a visible sign of each member’s dedication to the Society’s values.

The Importance of Physical Transformation

Our philosophy extends beyond mental discipline to encompass the physical. Through carefully supervised, regular meals and limited strenuous activity, members cultivate a softer, more unremarkable physique. The goal is not physical perfection but a modest, even somewhat chubby appearance that encourages members to focus less on vanity and more on humility.

This physical transformation supports the Society’s value of modesty, ensuring that members do not rely on physical attractiveness as a source of self-worth. Meals are balanced, nutritious, and tailored to promote a steady, healthy weight gain that aligns with the Society’s aesthetic. By developing a comfortable, grounded physique, members learn to appreciate substance over style, inner quality over appearance.

“I’ve never felt so comfortable in my own skin. The Society teaches you to appreciate yourself as you are.” – Michael, Age 24

Supervised Diet and Routine Meals

Mealtime at the Society is as structured as every other part of the day. Members gather in silence, under the watchful supervision of mentors, and consume nutritious, hearty meals designed to cultivate a comfortable physique that reflects the Society’s ideals. Meals are simple yet nourishing, carefully planned to avoid any indulgent flavors or luxury. This dietary regimen ensures that each young man grows into a steady, reliable presence, both physically and mentally. The emphasis on steady, healthy weight gain reinforces values of modesty and simplicity, providing sustenance without catering to excess. Members learn mindfulness during meals, understanding that food is meant for sustenance and not for indulgence.

“The meals are… fulfilling. You really learn to appreciate the taste of food when there’s no rush.” – James, Age 21

Obedience training

Obedience training is the cornerstone of the Society’s program. Through daily exercises supervised by mentors, members are taught to accept guidance without hesitation, instilling discipline, humility, and respect. Obedience exercises vary in form and intensity, from silent meditation sessions to group tasks that require coordinated effort and focus.

Every command given to a member is intended to reinforce their willingness to follow orders, setting aside personal pride and ego. Members complete repetitive tasks, silent reflections, and routine physical exercises that emphasize the importance of submission and respect. This training transforms independence into humility, preparing members to embrace a life of disciplined obedience both within and beyond the Society.

“Following orders has helped me find peace. I used to question everything, but now I trust the process.” – Liam, Age 20

Embracing Chastity and Purity of Mind

Chastity is a virtue essential to our mission. Our chastity training focuses on cultivating a pure, undistracted mind, free from indulgent thoughts or temptations. Members are guided through daily meditation sessions, mental exercises, and supervised study periods that strengthen their resolve to maintain purity of thought and conduct.

Through this training, members learn self-control, gaining mastery over impulsive thoughts. They are encouraged to monitor their thoughts and avoid temptation, developing a sense of detachment from external allurements. This training not only promotes a life of chastity but also reinforces the mental clarity and focus essential for meaningful personal growth.

“I didn’t realize how freeing it could be to have control over my thoughts. I feel more grounded every day.” – Nathan, Age 22

Personal Accountability and Daily Reflection

Reflection is a crucial component of each day, providing members with an opportunity for self-examination. Every evening, members are required to write in personal journals, documenting their reflections on obedience, chastity, and growth. This daily ritual encourages introspection and strengthens their sense of accountability, helping each young man track his progress and reflect on his shortcomings.

Weekly, mentors review each journal entry, providing constructive feedback to help members overcome personal obstacles. These sessions instill honesty, humility, and a willingness to grow, allowing members to witness their own transformation and build habits of self-reflection that last a lifetime.

“Writing in my journal every day helps me understand myself better. It’s actually kind of… insightful.” – Henry, Age 23

Weekly Compliance Review

The weekly compliance review is a unique and rigorous practice that solidifies the Society’s values. Every Saturday, members are asked to share their reflections and personal growth openly with peers and mentors, confessing any lapses in discipline and receiving feedback. This transparency builds trust and accountability within the group, creating a supportive brotherhood that values honesty and humility.

In these reviews, members learn to take responsibility for their actions and thoughts. This public reflection fosters a culture of openness and collective improvement, reinforcing the importance of humility and respect in their personal journeys.

“Sharing my struggles has helped me let go of my ego. We’re all here to improve, and that’s what matters.” – Mark, Age 24

Preparing for a Future of Integrity

Upon reaching 25, members of the Society are ready to embark on new chapters in life, grounded in the virtues they have acquired. Some choose to remain as mentors, passing on the values of discipline and humility to younger members, while others pursue life outside, equipped with the moral strength and refined character they gained here.

The Society’s ultimate goal is to ensure that each young man leaves with a profound sense of purpose, a life of modesty and integrity that transcends societal expectations. No matter their path, they will carry forward the principles of obedience, humility, and restraint, establishing a legacy that their families can be proud of.

“I’m grateful for the changes I’ve seen in myself. I know I’ll carry these lessons with me forever.” – Alex, Age 25

For fathers seeking a true transformation for their sons, the Society of Obedient and Chaste Men offers a proven path to character refinement. This is more than just a program—it is an investment in a life of honor, discipline, and integrity. Enroll your son today.

I met a guy here at the park last week who had all kinds of compliments for me. I liked him too and asked if he wanted to get together sometime. He said sure but he’d only do that if I was caged. I told him that seemed an odd requirement and he said maybe, but it was a rule he had. I wasn’t about to do that so we went our separate ways.

I thought about it all week and now I’m back here looking for him. I’m willing to wear a cage. I just need to know what kind he wants me to get.