Latest Posts by casuallystressedout - Page 5
Friendships as a teenager: we used to talk 5 hours every night now it’s down to 3… are we still friends 🤔? I wonder if they don’t like me anymore
Friendships as an adult: omg I’ve finally cleared up 20 minutes of my schedule to talk to my friend I haven’t spoken to in 4 months #bffs #we will find eachother in every life
butt shibari (¬‿¬)
“how can you vote for the democrats as a principled socialist/communist/anarchist/whatever the fuck” Well the opposition wants to make it illegal for me to piss in a public bathroom, and voting takes like 20 minutes, so
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People trying to pathologize like eating sweets and jerking off is wild. "I stopped doing this thing that feels good and I want more now ?? So this is an addiction and I have to keep avoiding it until the craving goes away" no you just want to enjoy things because you're a human being. Chocolate and porn and whatever aren't, like. Meth. It won't kill you to feel good. You don't have to be a medieval monk
we need to destigmatize dropping out of college I am so serious. like dude if u realize that is Bad For You then you can just Leave. I am so fucking serious. just stop. there are other options and you don’t need to force yourself through shit you can’t do and go into debt. i promise you can just Not.
From a session with @pixseabait and adorgeous from last year
this is your gentle reminder to stop fighting against your adhd and instead structure your life around it
buy a pack of chapsticks and put one in the pocket of all of your coats and jackets because you always forget to bring one and chapped lips is sensory hell
leave important things where you can see them. if they go in a box or a drawer you will forget they exist
put any appointments or deadlines in your phone calendar As Soon As you get them. set a reminder for a week before, a day before, an hour before, as many as you need as often as you need them.
when that little voice in your head says "i dont need to write that down, ill remember it" that is the devil talking!!! write it down anyway!!
plan for down time. have a few hours at the end of every day to just do fun stuff like engage in your hyperfixations. even if you didnt get all of your work done that day, have the rest anyway. you probably spent the whole day beating yourself up for not doing what you Should be doing, so you still need the break.
if you never eat vegetables because its too much effort to chop and cook them, get the frozen or canned shit. it doesnt go off for ages and you just have to microwave it. theres no point buying fresh vegetables if they just keep going off and being left to rot in the bottom of your fridge
if you struggle to decide what to have for dinner every day, take the decision out of it. choose a set of meals and eat those on rotation until you get sick of them, then choose some new ones and do it again.
its not stupid if it works! our brains literally have a chemical deficiency. you are allowed to accommodate yourself. go forth and stop making your life more difficult than it has to be because "this shouldn't be this hard". it is hard, so make it easier.
pokemon unite scares me but the holowear is awesome
can’t stop thinking about my friend’s cishet partner who said last night that he doesn’t think anyone is the same gender. god-tier take.
ADULT CONTENT SELLING RESTRICTIONS
adult content creators, I maintain this spreadsheet cross-referencing commonly banned kinks and different adult selling sites
In rope negotiations, talk about how long it will take to untie and make sure you’re both aware of how you’ll communicate when you want to untie! A red/yellow/green stoplight checkin system can be great. A nonverbal method of communicating this is an important backup.
Your safety shears should always be nearby too. Being in rope for any longer than you want can be scary and dangerous. Untie as soon as the limit is approaching, and never be scared to cut rope if you need to!
Riggers, make sure your bunny knows they can indicate when they’re wearing out, instead of waiting until they reach a limit.
Rope bunnies, get comfortable identifying that feeling and communicating it! A trustworthy rope top will never pressure you to stay in rope for more time than you are comfortable. (Even if they can’t finish the tie. Even if they’re taking pictures and are interrupted. Even if you’re in a scene). You deserve to have pleasant experiences in rope!
Play safely :-)
Modèle: La Petite Orange
Rigger et photo: L’Attachieur
Lovely ropey times
Modèle: La Petite Orange
Rigger et photo: L’Attachieur
Erica in Brooklyn
Buttefly and toe torture
Can you tie me up please?
Years on the internet and somehow i still click on comments sections with the insanely optimistic idea that I'll learn something new instead of being subjected to the dumbest motherfuckers online typing like their sole purpose in life is to make me want to end mine
"The trannies should be able to piss in whatever toilet they want and change their bodies however they want. Why is it my business if some chick has a dick or a guy has a pie? I'm not a trannie or a fag so I don't care, just give 'em the medicine they need."
"This is an LGBT safe space. Of COURSE I fully support individuals who identify as transgender and their right to self-determination! I just think that transitioning is a very serious choice and should be heavily regulated. And there could be a lot of harm in exposing cis children to such topics, so we should be really careful about when it is appropriate to mention trans issues or have too much trans visibility."
One of the above statements is Problematic and the other is slightly annoying. If we disagree on which is which then working together for a better future is going to get really fucking difficult.
me flirting: So…capitalism…pretty fucked up right
praying to the queer gods that we all get our guts rearranged by a hot trans person this pride month