HII!! I’m A Padded Regressor That Is Hidden From My Parents And I Have A Question I Hope You Could

The regressor feeling of "man i wish they made that but in adult sizes"

Sometimes I see people saying “anypup” instead of anyone and it’s just so cute!! It’s like when they say “anypony” in mlp! I luv it hehehe, might start using it idk.

CW: Mention of sexual things (vent/psa) (Minors DNI)

This community needs to be better at not demonizing kink communities. Boundaries are one thing but referring to kink communities as “icky” is hurtful.

Agere and kink must be separate and boundaries are very important but that in no way requires hating on kink communities and the people in them. Unfortunately, I think a lot of this hate just comes from being misinformed. I used to hate on kink too but when I educated myself I realized that age play and abdl aren’t pedophillia or gross or anything like that. Many age players engage in such for the same reasons we do: childhood trauma and the comfort and safety of being kid again (there are other reasons too, I just didn’t mention them). They just do it in a different way than we do which is 100% valid.

You also have to acknowledge that just because someone is a sfw regressor, that doesn’t mean their entire existence is sfw. That shouldn’t be mind blowing. A lot of us are adults that like adult things. When you demonize kink communities, you are probably hurting people in your own community too. Sex is normal and should NOT be shameful. Feelings don’t make anyone bad or evil and I went through way too much purity culture related trauma to say otherwise.

Anyways, thanks for listening to my ramble. This isn’t what I normally post about but I wanted to talk about it. Have a great day and thanks for listening. <3

It’s that time again—I’m going around and asking… We’re at the park! What do you wanna do? You wanna go down the slide, fly on the swings, ride the seesaw? Climb the jungle gym, swing on the monkey bars, scale the climbing wall? Or maybe you like to take things slow. Do you wanna do a coloring book, make leaf pressings, take fun photos? Go on a nature walk, watch the animals play, sit in the grass? And it’s okay if you wanna sit in the shade, enjoying a little snack or a sweet treat.

Oooh! Hmm lemme think...

I love the swings so I'd definitely spend lots of time there! I also like climbing so I'd probably climb on all the equipment and any nearby trees. If we lived in a perfect fantasy world where no one judges anyone, I'd wanna go on a walk with a super cute leash and harness. I want a puppy harness so badd. They just make me feel so safe! I have a mini backpack I wear that Daddy pulls on sometimes when we're out together to get my attention and it's just like "aww he's got me and he's protecting me and keepin me safe!" When it's lunch time I'd want to have a picnic and find a way to include my tea set! I don't actually like tea but my daddy does so maybe he's have some and I could have chocolate milk or something. After lunch, I'd wanna rough house in the grass and maybe climb on stuff some more. Then we'd go home and take a nap. :)

Thanks for the ask!

literally

nice argument, unfortunately woof woof bark bark + i will bite your legs

30 Days of Agere!

Day 29 (almost done!): Favorite hobby?

Answer: Hmm probably something active like rock climbing or exploring!

tips to caring for littles who suffer from:

emotional dysregulation, hyper empathy,

and harsh moodswings !!

• develop grounding techniques to bring your little back to earth when they spiral. (breathing exercises, hand squeezing, observation games, etc.)

• remind them that what they're feeling is only big right now, and will pass.

• offer reassurance and spend time with them. Do not get angry if your little is easily upset or agitated.

• if the source of the moodswing or dysregulation is removable, try to get your little or the cause away from the other.

• find distractions to help your baby cope. (tv, games, toys, coloring, etc.)

• offer to talk with them about their big feelings and / or listen.

• if they're comfortable with it, take over bigger tasks and set down rules to prevent harm. (Ex: earlier bedtimes, no exceptions.)

• show love towards your little, and communicate your feelings aswell.

• encourage your little to be open about their moodswings the moment they have them. Preventing further damage or fear for both parties.

• if your little is experiencing hyper empathy towards another party, assure them they're a good person for feeling on the other's behalf, but remind them that they're their own person.

• if your little is neglecting themselves for others, step in and stop them from doing so if safe.

As someone who experiences big emotions very quickly, and has symptoms of hyper empathy as well as bpd. I have a hard time distinguishing my emotions, I hope this post helps others like me ^^ feel free to add your own tips on!

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30 Days of Agere!

Day 25: Favorite Disney Princess?

Answer: Vanellope or Moana!

fidgety border collie stimboaaaaaaard

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