Remember, you are not shifting to another world. You are shifting to another you. Connect with your DR self as much as you can. That is all you need to do - be your DR self, and you will be.
I think the tough love doesn't work with most shifters. I think it should be more normalised to be gentle with yourself and allow yourself "failures" without guilt or self-judgment. I think most of the shifters start to blossom when they start showing more kindness to themselves.
Look within and utilize what you already know
You chase after methods, theories, and fleeting words of reassurance, as if the secret to your desires lies anywhere but within you. You scroll endlessly, consuming knowledge yet never applying it, convincing yourself that if you just find the right method, the perfect timing, then, then, you will act. But don’t you see?
You are running in circles.
Every technique, every new revelation, every promise of a shortcut, it all leads back to the same truth: you already know what to do. You’ve known from the start. Yet, instead of moving, you hesitate, overconsuming posts, paralyzed by the illusion that you need more before you can begin.
But knowledge without action is just another cage. Another way to stall. Another excuse wrapped in good intentions. And the more you wait, the further your desires drift, not because they are out of reach, but because you refuse to reach for them.
Look within. Trust yourself. Utilize what you already know.
There is no perfect moment. No missing piece. No secret you have yet to uncover. There is only you, standing at the threshold, waiting.
If you do not step forward now, when will you?
everytime i think about shifting i shift, everytime i go to sleep i wake up in my dr. it so easy for me, i can shift literslly whenever i want and i dont even have to try because it is that easy.
i swear shifting is so very easy. please just trust yourself and allow yourself to be. that’s it. you just have the intent and be.
reminder: shifting is real. you’re going to have memories from when you were a kid or random interactions with people you knew back then. even the dream you may have had when you were 10... oh and perhaps the supermarket you visited with your parents 6 years ago? your life in your dr doesn’t start from the moment you shift there. life is still life. don’t treat your dr as a ‘magical‘ place.
you're not "fantasising" about your "dr" you're thinking about your life. you're already there. it's all already yours.
when i have issues in this reality but i remember that im a shifter and can literally shift
reminder: shifting is real. you’re going to have memories from when you were a kid or random interactions with people you knew back then. even the dream you may have had when you were 10... oh and perhaps the supermarket you visited with your parents 6 years ago? your life in your dr doesn’t start from the moment you shift there. life is still life. don’t treat your dr as a ‘magical‘ place.
i’m really scared that i won’t ever shift, i’ve been trying for almost five years and i don’t know what else to do (i’ve reprogrammed my mind, tried almost every method, taken breaks, etc.) i know it’s real and i’m determined to shift. Any advice or motivation?
You’re going to shift. You’ve already shifted by sending me this message you have shifted. I think some people need to acknowledge that every choice you make leads you to another reality. What if you didn’t send me this message, stepped into the street, and got hit by a bus and paralyzed. That would be a different reality then where you sent this to me safe at home. You have an unknown allergy to apples, you eat apples, and then you die. That action would send you to a different reality than it would have been if you ate a pear or if someone had medication. You get it? You don’t need any method, reprogramming breaks, or anything else. Decide you have it, dwell in it, and accept it. You don’t have to believe it at first just go on about your day with the knowledge in the back of your mind that you are where you want to be.