Get Off C.ai Fr

I feel so bad for shifters who ARE schizophrenic or have psychosis. I can't imagine how demeaning and demotivating it must be to have your condition brought up by antis. I feel like it would be such a gaslighting notion and that's so frustrating to even think about, let alone experience. You guys are doing good, you have my heart <3

✧ OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF SHIFTING: IT’S MORE COMMON THAN YOU THINK

✵ UNDERSTANDING THE FEAR. The fear of actually shifting to your DR is such a sneaky block because it’s not something we expect to feel. Like, you’re doing all this work (visualizing, affirming, scripting, etc) and yet deep down, you might be scared of actually getting what you want. It’s wild, but it makes sense when you break it down.

✵ WHY SUCCESS MIGHT FEEL SCARY.

— Even if you’ve visualized your DR a million times or planned your DR down to the last detail, but actually being there is a completely new experience. What’s it actually going to feel like to be there? What if things don’t go how you imagined? That uncertainty can trigger a lowkey (or not so lowkey) fear.

— Success comes with its own pressure. Once you shift, it’s easy to start overthinking. What if I can’t do it again? What if it’s not what I expected? That “what if” spiral can get overwhelming. And that might create a fear of succeeding.

— Even if you don’t love your CR, it’s still comfortable because it’s familiar. Leaving behind parts of it, even if it’s just for a short amount of time, (people, routines, or even just your identity in this reality) can feel heavier than you realize.

— What if your DR doesn’t live up to the dream? What if it’s not perfect? That fear can make success feel risky, and your brain might unconsciously try to avoid it altogether.

✵ HOW THIS FEAR MESSES WITH YOU. This fear doesn’t usually scream “I’m scared to succeed!” It shows up in subtle ways like procrastinating, feeling “stuck,” constantly tweaking your script, overthinking your method, or second-guessing yourself. It’s like your mind is putting up invisible walls without you even realizing it.

✵ WHY PEOPLE DON’T TALK ABOUT IT. This fear gets ignored because it feels backwards, like why would you be scared of getting what you want? Plus, in the shifting community, everyone’s so focused on HOW to shift, they don’t always talk about the emotional side of it. It’s easier to think you’re just “doing it wrong” than to realize you might be holding yourself back.

✵ HOW TO GET PAST IT.

— Acknowledge it. The first step is being honest with yourself. Ask, Am I scared of actually shifting to my DR? Once you see it for what it is, it’s easier to work through.

— Instead of obsessing over the moment you shift, think about how you’re going to feel and thrive once you’re there. Build that excitement so it outweighs the fear.

— Remind yourself you’ve got this. You’ve done the work, and you’re capable of handling whatever comes up in your DR. Affirmations like “I’m ready for this” or “I trust myself” really help.

— Your DR doesn’t have to be perfect for it to be worth experiencing. Give yourself room to explore and grow. Nothing has to be set in stone.

— Shifting doesn’t have to be some huge, dramatic moment. Every step (big or small) you take is progress, so don’t psych yourself out by making it feel bigger than it is.

✵ FINAL THOUGHTS. So yeah, fear of success is real, but it doesn’t have to stop you. The key is recognizing it for what it is and deciding it’s not going to hold you back. You’ve already done the hard part by getting this far, trust that you’re ready for what’s waiting on the other side.

again, when you utilize imagination (affirming, visualizing, scripting, knowing, deciding etc) to show yourself you’re in your dr, you’ve already shifted.

when you imagine that you’ve successfully shifted to your dr, you’ve successfully shifted to your dr.

it’s instant. you are pure consciousness and are not tied down to one reality over another. no matter what happens, remind yourself that because you did it in imagination, it is done period. the 3d obeys what you pay attention to.

꒰ 𝗍𝗁𝗂𝗇𝗀𝗌 𝗍𝗈 𝗌𝖼𝗋𝗂𝗉𝗍 : 𝑣𝑎𝑙𝑒𝑛𝑡𝑖𝑛𝑒'𝑠 𝑑𝑎𝑦 𝑒𝑑𝑖𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛 ! ꒱ ᢉ𐭩 ‧₊˚ ⊹

꒰ ⏦ﾟ♡︎꒱ the entire day feels as though you’re walking on clouds . a day that's filled to the brim with fluffy affection both platonic and romantic , chock-full with fond and happy memories that will last you a lifetime

꒰ ⏦ﾟ♡︎꒱ heart shaped clouds are notorious for decorating the sky on valentine’s day . to pair with that , the prettiest sunrises and sunsets are a regular occurrence on the day of love as they paint the sky an extraordinary pink ૮ ◜ᵕ◝  ྀིა

꒰ ⏦ﾟ♡︎꒱ ꒰ uni focused ꒱ you run your schools radio station and annually for the valentine’s week you take up a pseudo cupid role where people call in for relationship advice or maybe even to confess their long-standing affections for someone they harbour a crush for !!

꒰ ⏦ﾟ♡︎꒱ for the valentine’s week , there’s always annual festivities held . lots of stores and businesses come up with innovative and really fun games/experiences where you can win really cute stuff ꒰ like life sized teddy bears ohemgeeee !! ꒱ , streets are decorated with the cutest decorations one can imagine , it just feels like love is literally in the air ໒꒰ྀི ˊᗜˋ* ꒱ྀིა

꒰ ⏦ﾟ♡︎꒱ you and your friends make the most of the day together , from sunrise to sunset you're out and about doing activities like having a picnic at a park all the way to going to a valentine's day themed amusement park and stuffing your face with the fluffiest of cotton candy (˶˃ ᵕ ˂˶)

𝑠𝑖𝑔𝑛𝑖𝑓𝑖𝑐𝑎𝑛𝑡 𝑜𝑡𝘩𝑒𝑟ﾉ𝑟𝑒𝑙𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛𝑠𝘩𝑖𝑝 𝑓𝑜𝑐𝑢𝑠𝑒𝑑 𝑒𝑥𝑡𝑟𝑎𝑠 :

꒰ ⏦ﾟ♡︎꒱ both you and your s/o have been each respectively planning a surprise shrouded in secrecy for weeks , wanting to be as diligent and detailed as possible to show your love and appreciation for one another , only to be both surprised the day of when you’re faced with date plans that intuitively go together like two pieces of a puzzle as though you’ve both been planning them together side by side

꒰ ⏦ﾟ♡︎꒱ your s/o doesn’t take valentine’s day as the only day of the year to show you how much they appreciate you , rather they treat it as a day where they’re usual style of showcasing affection is ramped up to it’s maximum level

when i have issues in this reality but i remember that im a shifter and can literally shift

you owe it to yourself to shift. don’t fucking give up.

i’m really scared that i won’t ever shift, i’ve been trying for almost five years and i don’t know what else to do (i’ve reprogrammed my mind, tried almost every method, taken breaks, etc.) i know it’s real and i’m determined to shift. Any advice or motivation?

You’re going to shift. You’ve already shifted by sending me this message you have shifted. I think some people need to acknowledge that every choice you make leads you to another reality. What if you didn’t send me this message, stepped into the street, and got hit by a bus and paralyzed. That would be a different reality then where you sent this to me safe at home. You have an unknown allergy to apples, you eat apples, and then you die. That action would send you to a different reality than it would have been if you ate a pear or if someone had medication. You get it? You don’t need any method, reprogramming breaks, or anything else. Decide you have it, dwell in it, and accept it. You don’t have to believe it at first just go on about your day with the knowledge in the back of your mind that you are where you want to be.

"you can't shift if you're too tired."

"you can't shift without a method."

"you can't shift if you doubt."

STOP IT. hush.

these are all things / beliefs that can become limitations. shifting doesn't follow any sort of “rules” except the ones you create for yourself.

you aren't tethered to anything except your own expectations.

reminder: shifting is real. you’re going to have memories from when you were a kid or random interactions with people you knew back then. even the dream you may have had when you were 10... oh and perhaps the supermarket you visited with your parents 6 years ago? your life in your dr doesn’t start from the moment you shift there. life is still life. don’t treat your dr as a ‘magical‘ place.