Hi So Someone In My Family Just Told Me That I Gained Weight (( As If I Didn't Already Know That And

Hi So someone in my family just told me that I gained weight (( as if I didn't already know that and feel super insecure about it 🙄🙄)) and it just ruined my day tbh like my feelings are hurt and I'm mad af bc I feel fat and having it pointed out was completely unnecessary and ironically my weight gain was pointed by someone who's damn near 300 pounds. I hate people and my family really ain't shit sometimes I swear. Sorry I just needed to vent I hope you're ok with it, I'm not asking for you to solve my problem I just know you're the only nice blogger I follow. Everyone else is weird af about people venting. But yeah I'm really upset now and I was about to eat but I lost my appetite. It's a reason I gained weight, my family is basically homeless living in our car rn bc of the pandemic and fast food is all we can afford so it's not like I'm just out here being a fat bitch, I'm relatively skinny but I hate having my weight gain pointed out like wtf 😒

Oh wow, okay this is a lot to take in. I'm okay with you guys venting, as long as you understand that I'm not a therapist & I don't have the answer to every question/problem. As far as this situation goes, whoever pointed out your weight gain was incredibly rude, hypocritical & insensitive, & you have every right to be upset. No one likes having an insecurity pointed out. The next time they do that you should point out that they're on the verge of 300lbs & see how they feel (sometimes you gotta give people a taste of their own medicine for them to realize how fucked up they're being). They also need to be more self aware & realize that pointing things out like that could affect someone's mental health & cause/trigger an ED. I'm sure you're beautiful. Please remember though that it's an insecurity - insecurities are not a reflection of who you are, they are simply negative emotions, & a lot (I mean a lot) of people have gained weight during the pandemic, you're definitely not alone. Even my sister has, lol. But it looks good on her & we don't make her feel like shit for it. If they do it again, call them out on it. Keep them in check, don't let people disrespect you. Nobody asked for their opinion of your body. I'm really sorry about your living situation though, if you were to set up a GoFundMe or something I'd be happy to donate & share! All the best to you, dear! Stay safe. 💛☺️♥️

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anuerysmm

3 years ago

@sansgriff

K, I'm getting bored with tumblr, & I kind of want to move over to Discord? All of the chaos & negativity I see between folks on tumblr (not to mention porn/bots) makes it unenjoyable. I'm thinking about just making a Discord group chat (18+) for people who just want to talk, vibe & get to know each other on a real basis & ditch tumblr. Also, just cause I can't be on here like that all day & I'm in the process of reorganizing my life, so I'll probably eventually leave soon anyway. (Mentally, I'm already gone from here).

Dm me or reblog if interested. Idc. Night. 🌆🌙

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anuerysmm

3 years ago

Just found your page. I really like the stuff you post. You seem like a unique individual. That’s all. Hope you’re having a joyful day.

Hey! Welcome to the cozy eccentric side! I'm glad you enjoy my content & I appreciate the kind words! I hope you're having a great day as well, stay healthy & happy holidays! ❤️☺️

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anuerysmm

3 years ago

Your sexy as fuck 😆

Gee, how sweet of you. 😂😂😂

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anuerysmm

4 years ago

Are you religious at all?

Yes, I was raised in the Catholic church, but as I grew up some of my views changed, so I kind of distanced myself from the church. Now I just study from home.

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anuerysmm

4 years ago

Yo haircut stuuuuuupid af what did you think when getting your hair cut with a fckn booooowl

First of all, my haircut isn't stupid, yours is. Matter of fact it's probably dry, basic and straight with split ends, no style, volume or curl. Just dreadful and more lifeless than a dead rose. 😌

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anuerysmm

4 years ago

Was she one of those lgbt 'i don't have a gender' weirdos?

Y'all DEAD wrong for clowning @wonkasseur like that 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Well, maybe they shouldn't haven't responded if they have sensitive feelings because no one was talking to them. They don't even know what gender they are and they're 30 years old reblogging children's posts. Sometimes a few good jabs to the gut can be enough to shut people up. Don't act like a clown and nobody will clown you.

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anuerysmm

3 years ago

Lmao dude probably gets teased all the time that he looks like willy wonka and yall disrespectful af just to be finding peoples personal shit but Im still gon save this pic 👀👀👀👀 😂🤣😆

Not me finding @thewillywonka instagram after 38483382 hours his name Winslow Sully lol y'all welcome my stupid ass mom thought he was a woman at first smdh 🤣🤷🏽‍♀️

TAKING MY ASS TO SLEEP THE KITCHEN LOL IGHT BYE~

Go people, raid him!

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anuerysmm

3 years ago

@winslowat3am 😍❤️😍❤️💖❤️💖❤️💯❤️💕❤️😍

These is literally my favorite pics of you you‘re so beautiful like I want freckles now too 🌟❤️

I had some questions about modeling and acting that I wanted to dm you about if that‘s ok? And can I ask what ethnicity are you?

My freckles only appear in rare cases & disappear later on (idk if freckles caused by sun exposure count as natural freckles?). But thank you. I'm Native American. & you're free to dm me & ask whatever you want, that's fine. ☺️🖤

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anuerysmm

3 years ago

n e u t r ɑ l s ɑ m 銀河

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anuerysmm

4 years ago

You must be the butthurt 30yo ppl were laughing at? Imagine being your age and getting pressed by a reblog of a post that don't belong to you. 🤡 < That you?