Yo haircut stuuuuuupid af what did you think when getting your hair cut with a fckn booooowl
First of all, my haircut isn't stupid, yours is. Matter of fact it's probably dry, basic and straight with split ends, no style, volume or curl. Just dreadful and more lifeless than a dead rose. π
Small announcement, dear folks! βοΈ Starting sometime in the near future, I will begin posting weekly (or biweekly) video content called "TheWillyWonka Radio", which will consist of various music and white noise playlists. Because I have received messages and questions dealing with depression and insomnia, this content will be especially for those who love ASMR, are studying or need help with their sleeping and relaxing habits. As stated before, videos will be posted either once a week or biweekly, hopefully, should I find the time. Each week there will be a different music genre, from house, to techno, R&B, funk, jazz, rock and lofi. And different ambiences, from crackling fireplaces to waterfalls, thunder storms, rain and nature sounds. Also, I would just like to add that a dear friend of mine has recently informed me that my blog name has become a used hashtag among other tumblrs, and I'm very delighted to hear that! I had no idea I would be growing this fast or my posts still being reblogged! I couldn't be more appreciative! βΊοΈ
Now. Back to the announcement. If you like jamming or sleeping and you can dig what I'm laying down, then tune in to TheWillyWonka Radio in the future! β¨
That's all, folks!
Cya sometime in the future.
- Willy Wonka π«
Reblog to help others
Hello. My name is Nica. I want to stay anon until I get comfortable and Iβm not good with new people. But my question is, how do you advise someone to deal with their depression? Do you know any remedies that help with chronic sadness? Or panic attacks? My life isnβt where I want it to be atm, dealing with a lot of stuff and I donβt have any friends to talk to or get help from. Sorry if Iβm bothering you in the morning I just saw that youβre leaving tumblr and it triggered an attack and I feel like crying. You were the one blog I liked and how you helped people and now I donβt have anybody :/
Omg. No, no, no, you're not bothering me at all, & you're not just going to wake up one day & my account is going to be deactivated. I'll tell you all when I'm leaving & chances are I still won't deactivate, just cause. I'm so, so sorry, I didn't mean to trigger you. It was just an idea I had. I used to have really bad panic attacks to a point were my muscles would hurt for days, I had to be taken in an ambulance & put on meds cause I had them daily for like a month. I wouldn't eat, I was constantly snapping on people & irritated. I turned into someone who isn't me. My family noticed the change & pointed it out & I snapped on them for that. It was that bad. And this was recent, this wasn't like 5 years ago, all this happened LAST year. So I know from experience how difficult & painful what you're going through right now can be.
Even though I still have anxiety sometimes, I learned how to stop the attacks from happening, I don't have them anymore. But before then my doctor wanted to put me in a psych ward, (yeah, he literally recommended that) & I took Xanax (& Zoloft for two days) for a while, then it stopped helping, so he wanted to increase my dose. And I didn't want to become an addict or dependent on meds (I personally don't believe in taking meds for mental illnesses), so one day I just decided "fuck it, I'm not taking anything anymore" & I realized in that moment that the decision I made scared me a fucking lot cause I wasn't going to have anything to run to, but ultimately it was going to help me. I had to hurt & pray A LOT before I got better. While I was going through it I felt so hopeless & lost & I started questioning my faith in God cause I didn't feel like anything was changing, I felt worse tbh. I remember one night I just completely gave up & I drove to my mom's house in the middle of the night cause I didn't know what else to do. We went for a walk & talked until the sun came up. I never call my parents when I'm going through something terrible, I always try to resolve my problems on my own, so if I call them it's serious. But with time I got better. And I'm happier. So I'm living proof that you CAN overcome your biggest demons. My advice to you would be to start slow, you won't get better overnight. It's going to take time & it's going to hurt - I won't lie to you, but you WILL prevail in the end. But for now, distract yourself, get on your phone & find a funny video. Give yourself time to breathe & realize you're safe. That feeling will pass & you'll be okay again. & if you ever need someone to talk to to help you calm down, come hop in my dm's & we can hang out until you feel better. You don't have to be alone. & you definitely don't have to suffer alone. I often get people who ask me for advice in handling depression, that's partially the reason I haven't left Tumblr. I wouldn't want to abandon anybody. I'm so sorry you're going through this, honey. I hope things get better for you. Literally if you need me to just stay here for you just to help you, I will. & if you need any more resources in dealing with anxiety/depression, dm me. I'm so sorry for triggering you. I'll choose my words more carefully next time. Bless your heart, I'll pray for you.
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Organizations:
National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH); 866-615-6464
National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI); 800-950-NAMI (800-950-6264)
Anxiety and Depression Association of America (ADAA); 240-485-1001
American Psychiatric Association; 800-357-7924
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, Division of Mental Health (CDC); 800-CDC-INFO (800-232-4636)
American Psychological Association; 800-374-2721
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Coping, Advocacy, and Support:
Anxiety and Depression Association of America: Support Groups
The Anxiety Network: Help and Support
Anxiety Central: Forums
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Medications for Anxiety Disorders (talk to your doctor first):
Cymbalta (duloxetine)
Celexa (citalopram)
Zoloft (sertraline)
Anafranil (clomipramine)
Prozac (fluoxetine)
Paxil (paroxetine)
Xanax (alprazolam)
Klonopin (clonazepam)
BuSpar (buspirone)
Valium (diazepam)
Ativan (lorazepam)
Lexapro (escitalopram)
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Links:
https://www.counseling.org/knowledge-center/mental-health-resources/anxiety
https://adaa.org/understanding-anxiety/generalized-anxiety-disorder-gad/resources
https://blog.thetransitionhouse.org/anxiety-help-and-resources-1
https://www.rtor.org/anxiety/
https://www.nami.org/About-Mental-Illness/Mental-Health-Conditions/Anxiety-Disorders
It means you sexy
Ur thicker than a bowl of oatmeal πππ
I have no idea what that means, and I hate oatmeal. I'll take it as a compliment, though! Thank you! βΊοΈ
LOL π€£
*toddling over, now having flour in their hair aswell*
The first baking tray is ready!
The chocolate still needs to dry tho.
But it's ready!
Sorry, I was dealing with a rather annoying, pesky, gender confused woman, or whatever it was.
What exactly did you make?
That's not nice and I'm just saying what your both too scared to say to each other because willy is awkward about his feelings and your lying about yours ππππ
Ooooooooh you and cocoa ARE dating
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BEAUTIFUL PERSON AWARD! ππΈπ Once you are given this award youβre supposed to paste it in the asks of 8 people who deserve it. If you break the chain nothing happens, but itβs sweet to know someone thinks youβre beautiful inside and out. -@chocolatecakekween
For me? Oh, thank you! You really shouldn't have! How sweet!
I'm weak because it's like I read your reblogs or answers and you're mean but you're nice at the same time π
I'm not mean, and if I am mean to anyone then it's probably because they said something to me first to deserve the mean response or reaction they received. Simple. Hmph.
Imagine being 30 and being pressed over a reblog ππ
Chile anyways
LMAO he looks totally gone ffs
Have you ever been flat out drunk and hungover and how do you deal with it?? Virgin drinker here ππ
For sure. This is usually how I deal with it:
Shades & lots of sleep, my advice to you is always hide your eyes when you're in public. I get really hungry when I'm hungover. Always try to eat so you don't feel lightheaded or nauseous, bread soaks up the liquor. Drink water too, helps to dilute alcohol & hydrate. Looking back on this I don't know what I was thinking. Had 3 full glasses of tequila, one Margarita, two vodka shots & two shots of rum. I was a complete mess here & I showed up to work like this (somehow managed to not get fired, but I had the worst migraine), my shades were so crooked, Lord have mercy. Please don't search my instagram, lmfao. Never drink the night before work, sweetheart. And don't toss 'em back to back if you're a lightweight.
Have you tried the BTS meal Mr wonka?
Ew. What have I told you about asking me about McDonald's food?
Never do that, 'kay?