clara dao getting a boob job was definitely a big eye opener for alot of flat chested womyn about boob jobs.
for context, she was a tiktok body positivity type influencer with a flat chest. she was a big inspiration to alot of flat chested girls, but after she gained popularity she got a boob job.
i love how people have been reacting to this tbh. how dare she use flat chested womyns insecurities to buy her boob job!
this is just reinforcing the belief that being flat chested as a womyn is in some way a flaw and needs fixing.
hi omg i just wanted to say its so awesome to see another teenage radfem! it feels like there isnât really a lot of us, much love <3
HII theres definitely a scarcity of us here yeah đ <3
girl don't be sorry for not posting!! not posting on tumblr isn't the end of the world, just do what you gotta do!
ily nymph đ
remember to comment "not funny" under EVERY male comedian you see đ
I want women to collectively start gaslighting men, in the way they gaslight us. If you see Reddit posts / IG posts say things like this.
I want women to undermine any menâs issues with saying:
âAhhh itâs not that deepâ
âChill, youâre being emotionalâ
âYou should focus on being a dad, none of your passions will matterâ
âAre you sure your fit to do this job?â
âI mean will your education even matter, your degree doesnât have much value lolâ
âAhh Menâď¸â
âI canât take you seriouslyâ
âYou sureâ
âI think youâre being dramaticâ
âYouâre being irrationalâ
âMen live life on easy modeâ (which they do)
âAre you sure, you didnât imagine it?â
âNahh we donât care about your passions and hobbies, how much money do you make?â
âI want a traditional husband that pays for everything but who also does all the domestic labourâ
âHave you gained weight?â
âIâm a visual creature so i need a really handsome manâ
âWhy am I not allowed to have preferencesâ
âAre you sure itâs not your faultâ
âI need to hear her side of the storyâ
â#notallwomenâ
âI mean if men donât go to war whatâs the point of them? Lolâ
âYou should give her a chanceâ
âYouâre standards are too highâ
âAre you sure you didnât imagine it?â
âI think youâre being hystericalâ
âYouâre standards are too highâ
âLearn to take a jokeâ
âwhy should someone have you if they could have someone younger?â
âWhy would she go for you, if she could have someone with more money lolâ
âYouâre gonna die aloneâ
Even if a Man is right about ANYTHING still proceed to gaslight him. IDGAF. Lmao. They have been doing this to women for most of history. Gaslight him, make him feel unworthy and shitty. I genuinely donât give a shit.
Let me know what more I should add to the list, in the comments.
Love seeing women with bare faces, short fingernails, practical shoes, comfortable clothing, a full plate, a toothy grin, a relaxed posture. Love love love seeing women comfortable and happy and unselfconscious.
Sometimes I wonder what the world would be like if there was no patriarchy, no gender roles, no men.
I imagine I'd be more secure in myself. I would be less afraid to allow my body to exist as it naturally is. I could jump into a lake shirtless and never feel the real or imagined lingering eyes on my back. There would be no "man-peering-through-the-keyhole" psychological phenomenon women experience - the urge to always be palatable to the male gaze. I could feel completely comfortable cutting all my hair off in the summer so I could comfortably tend to my garden without sweat dripping from my hair. There would be no "does this hairstyle fit my face" bullshit that men interestingly never subject themselves to. I would walk home alone at night in the city and I wouldn't feel the urge to check behind me every minute. I could stretch my arms high in the air without the urge to immediately put them back down lest others see that I am human enough to grow body hair - to be human as a woman in this world is to be a beast - I could lay on the warm sands of a beach without the urge to cover my legs with a towel for the same reason. I wouldn't ever feel anxiety when making connections with other women because I would know with confidence they won't sell me out for a corn chip of validation from the patriarchy, because there wouldn't be one. Other women wouldn't look down on me for existing against the grain. And there wouldn't be the other kind of human to beat, rape or kill me for the same. Other women wouldn't be pushing their daughters, themselves, or me to conform to the identity of "decorative object to be oggled" because there would never have been anyone to start the demand.
I could rip my clothes off and grow my claws, my fangs. I could become the beast I'm meant to be. I could run to a hilltop with my sisters under a full moon and dance around a fire while we howl "This is freedom! This is freedom! This is freedom!" We could laugh heartily, loudly. We could feast decadently on all the delicious things we deny ourselves. We could take up all of the space we desire. We could love - truly love - one another and the Earth. Life would flourish.
I am deeply saddened that will never be the world.
So have y'all just missed every single post where an intersex person tells you not to refer to intersex animals as "biologically nonbinary" or do y'all just not care what intersex people have to say. Genuine question
when a woman posted this (its a trend atm), she was bullied so hard she literally had to delete the video, but when a man does it its just sooo quirky!
to eliminate casual sexism, which is very present everywhere in the world. and why would i only be talking about western womyn?
if you look at history on a timeline, womyn only got our rights VERY recently. theres obviously still work to be done, just like with any other oppressed group
I would like to put out here that feminists (me) donât hate men
We can certainly hate particular men. Just like we could hate particular women. Itâs okay to be mad at bad people, whoever they are
The way I see it, feminism is about equal rights, being allowed the same opportunities regardless of gender, and generally just being normal
Maybe we should call it gender-equal-ist
Anyways, I donât usually post anything too serious on here, itâs just itâs come to my attention that some people think all feminists are like ârahhhh we hate all mennâ and donât realize that these people are a very small minority and/or are probably joking
I can advocate for gender equality without being radical
No gods, no masters and most importantly, no husbands