I Think Thats What Alot Of Other Radfems Would Say, Yeah

Sometimes I wonder what the world would be like if there was no patriarchy, no gender roles, no men.

I imagine I'd be more secure in myself. I would be less afraid to allow my body to exist as it naturally is. I could jump into a lake shirtless and never feel the real or imagined lingering eyes on my back. There would be no "man-peering-through-the-keyhole" psychological phenomenon women experience - the urge to always be palatable to the male gaze. I could feel completely comfortable cutting all my hair off in the summer so I could comfortably tend to my garden without sweat dripping from my hair. There would be no "does this hairstyle fit my face" bullshit that men interestingly never subject themselves to. I would walk home alone at night in the city and I wouldn't feel the urge to check behind me every minute. I could stretch my arms high in the air without the urge to immediately put them back down lest others see that I am human enough to grow body hair - to be human as a woman in this world is to be a beast - I could lay on the warm sands of a beach without the urge to cover my legs with a towel for the same reason. I wouldn't ever feel anxiety when making connections with other women because I would know with confidence they won't sell me out for a corn chip of validation from the patriarchy, because there wouldn't be one. Other women wouldn't look down on me for existing against the grain. And there wouldn't be the other kind of human to beat, rape or kill me for the same. Other women wouldn't be pushing their daughters, themselves, or me to conform to the identity of "decorative object to be oggled" because there would never have been anyone to start the demand.

I could rip my clothes off and grow my claws, my fangs. I could become the beast I'm meant to be. I could run to a hilltop with my sisters under a full moon and dance around a fire while we howl "This is freedom! This is freedom! This is freedom!" We could laugh heartily, loudly. We could feast decadently on all the delicious things we deny ourselves. We could take up all of the space we desire. We could love - truly love - one another and the Earth. Life would flourish.

I am deeply saddened that will never be the world.

average radfem post about trans people: the ideology is wrong, it’s bioessentialist, most tims r rapists, etc…

average trans person post about radfems: TERF SHOULD KILL THEMSELVES, IM GOING TO RAPE THEM AND MAKE THEM LIKE MY GIRLCOCK, I HAVE FANTASIES ABOUT RAPING AND KILLING THEM, THEY ARE SO STUPID, THEY ARE SO UGLY AND SUCH BITCHES!!!!

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full offense but men earned their so-called loneliness epidemic.

call me a misandrist. i don't care. i used to give the libfem ''patriarchy hurts men too'' spiel and how that somehow excuses them for their social ineptitude. but i'm done. men absolutely brought this onto themselves. every conversation about it is just men soiling their pants over the unfairness over it all and not-so subtly implying that it's yet another issue for women to fix. because hell forbid men get a grip on the concept of self-critique and personal growth without women's emotional labour to guide them.

a factor in men's loneliness is their refusal to actually form meaningful connections with anyone, including each other. wail ''nobody cares about men'' until you're blue in the face, but truthfully, men don't even care about men.

a man will dismiss women's friendships with each other as petty, fake and silly but in the same breath he'll admit that he doesn't even know his bros. not their favourite colours, political views or worst fears. not even their surnames or birthdays. men even seem to take pride in this, like it's some quirky and hilarious male trait that women couldn't possibly understand.

if there's no meaningful discussion, no confiding and comforting and if you don't even know each other, you don't have a friendship, you have an acquaintance. and a circle of acquaintances around you is never going to fill your emotional cup.

so men, if you're lonely, make friends with each other. compliment each other. or don't, remain lonely for all i care. just leave women out of the mess you created and refuse to clean up.

as an intersex radfem you definitely aren't educated on intersexuality & don't understand terf views lol

Can you elaborate why terfs are rapists and misogynists <3

Terfs are not inherently rapists, but by sacrificing trans women to use the men's bathroom for the very little comfort that transphobes will get by knowing they forced women out of a literal bathroom. This, especially to post-op trans women, puts them at an extremely high risk of assault, rape, or murder. Encouraging the rape of trans women isn't much better than rape itself, but I would not (and didn't) call them rapists.

And terfs are misogynistic, as when they try to get the definition of 'Woman' to be based on sex, that's misogynistic, reducing women to only their genitals. This is discrimination of intersex people as well. Terfs, as well as most transphobes, have proven themselves to be misogynistic without doing what was said on the previous statement, by 'transvestigating' women in the olympics for being too 'masculine' (usually because of muscles). The fact that they do this shows they have an idea of what women should and shouldn't look like, thus misogyny.

OP is a self-admitted TERF, smashing that subscribe button per usual

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'non binary' people are usually just gnc, or a mix of female and male stereotypes. you think you arent a female or male because you dont like conforming to the stereotypes of your (actual) gender, so yeah, you base your gender on stereotypes.

gender stereotypes contribute nothing to your gender. you cant become a womyn or a man because those things ultimately mean nothing but your sex once you remove what society expects from the labels

^ the assumption by an anti-trans buttface that all identities "are based solely on gender stereotypes"

You're probably assuming I'm binary trans. Like, I went from one gender to the other. Classic radfem thinking.

That's much like saying that socialism is based on capitalism.

There isn't any way we can start socialism without the influence of capitalism when we exist in capitalism. There isn't any way that one can exist than with the influence of the existent reality.

However, based solely? That's just stupid.

Gender is all around us. I can't exist and presume that I have not been influenced by gender. However, by no means is the gender norm definitive of my or others' identity (unless they choose it so).

Binary trans is one way to exist, and non binary is the opposite. to be "based soley on gender stereotypes" would be to assume that all binary trans people are acting like the gender because the stereotype says so, but that's often not the case. Binary trans people are often using gender norms as guidelines because passing and fitting in is part of the desire of being trans - mostly for other people to respect and treat them with dignity, not because they are basing themselves off stereotypes.

you can be a boy and wear 'girl' clothes. it doesn't make you a girl. being stereotypically feminine doesn't make you a girl, being female does.

"He's wearing girl's-"

If a woman points out a boy is wearing a skirt by calling it girl's clothing, ask them if they realize they are wearing men's clothing and stare at their pants.

Seriously. How is this still a topic. They're just clothes!

any gender assigned is arbitrary and you're just mad that you're not as pretty as them.

im not pro-cop but i think the fact that even cop supporters stereotype female cops as aggressive is stupid. of course the few womyn in such a traditionally and stereotypically male dominated workfield would have to be aggressive, no one takes them seriously! they're oversexualized, belittled, and assaulted just for being womyn. anyone would be aggressive, theyre just trying to prove themselves.

Im a fempath it’s like empath but i only care about women