mood af recently
genuinely devastated thinking about the amount of times I was nice to men in situations where they deserved to be told to fuck off and die 💔
men who dont think misogyny is a big problem and a valid form of oppression are actually just stupid.
womyn were the first slaves. up until VERY recently history wise, womyn were just property! men that think feminists are insane have probably never picked up a history book in their life.. or think that womyn SHOULD be property.
"Radfems aren't safe people and they hurt women!"
If I brought up the little details of my sexual abuse to radical feminists, I wouldn't be blamed.
I wouldn't be told "well 17 is still legal" or "6 years isn't that bad of an age gap".
I wouldn't be told that it's not possession of child pornography because I "willingly" sent him photos of myself.
I wouldn't be told I led him on.
I wouldn't be told I stalked and abused him when I was behaving like a confused, traumatised child who didn't know what else to do.
I would be told it wasn't my fault. I would be supported. My pain would be validated. My experience wouldn't be diminished by "other people have it worse".
And I would be confident that this support wasn't a facade.
I will never get that from any other "feminist" community and believe me - I have tried.
Radfem spaces are the safest places for women who are victims of abuse and sex based violence.
Saw a post a bit ago that was like "Is it just me or is like every intersex blogger really angry all the time, who pissed in your cereal bro?"
Wow I fucking wonder why we're pissed off. Really. No idea. I wonder if it has to do with having to deal with
Being systematically mutilated legally
If you weren't mutilated, almost nobody has a body like yours
You can't research how your sex organs & hormones function without seeing baby surgery gore and reports of how everybody like you was "fixed"
Having the US president declare us nonexistent
Being told we're freaks all our life and we need fixing
Have a long history of being killed at birth
Slurs for you literally fucking everywhere including in a scientific context and if you point it out people call you dramatic
More slurs for you if you ever dare to try to look at adult material
Any and all fiction that is listed as intersex is all stereotypes and obvious fetish material for perisex people - There is almost no representation.
Whenever you hear about people like you they're referred to as having a sex disorder, never being intersex
People who support the entire framework of your excising and mutilation go in your comments to concern troll about how they don't actually support that
Having almost no research done into our oppression — so there is a lack of statistics about systemic intersex assault/rape/murder — people use this to tell you it isn't happening (despite nearly every intersex person you've met has reported being victimized in some way)
Strangers online think they are entitled to your full medical history
A significant number of people online think you are a porn trope and are shocked to find out tou exist in real life
Your gender identity is erased and ignored because it doesn't make sense to perisex people
You are reduced to a discourse topic
Being considered "rare" (because we are actively being suppressed with violence) — people use that "rarity" to say you don't matter
People thinking its acceptable to sexually harass you and ask you about your genitals just because they find out you're intersex
Getting told that you're exaggerating when you say your group has been the victim of a successful extermination campaign — & that is why we are so invisible
Everyone ignores all of this ^ and tells you that someone else has it worse than you so you should shut up if you ever decide to speak up.
Wow. I wonder.
Hey, I just wanted to say I can't imagine how hard it is growing up in middle school nowadays. I'm only a few years older than you but I know it was tough with the things that I went through when I was 13. Boys were all watching pornography and talked about it openly, they all called the girls sluts and whores even though pretty much none of them had slept with anybody yet. Creators like Andrew Tate and far right men didn't have the grasp on boys like they do now so those types of views weren't as widespread so I imagine you have to deal with those types of things much more and have to hear about it too and I think it must be so difficult to hear about at such a young age. When I was your age I was already concerned with being seen as a slut, nevermind other things like tradwife bs too.
I just hope you stay super safe, keep your head high and know that you are super worthy and try to not let any of the boys and girls in your life get you down. Make sure to take breaks from the internet if you need to, everywhere can be so negative. You don't have to be reduced to any stereotypes, you are literally only on the VERY start of the journey to discovering who you are as a person, and don't let negativity online or offline take that away from you <3
thank you so much <333 misogyny in schools is basically a universal experience for young girls its so sad, thank you for sharing your experience :))
womyn will always get the benefit of the doubt from me tbh
we women need to start defending each other the way men defend rapists
its not 'your fault' you were born a man, but you are still benefiting from being male while we are dealing with the consequences of being a womyn in this world
misandrist womyn mostly dislike men because of how prevalent sexism is and has always been. if you arent a sexist man, its not directed at you :-)
Ngl I’m a man
I like interacting with radfems
I feel like you guys are chill when you’re not talking about “killing all men” but like, genuinely why is it my fault I was born a man? Like yeah I get most men are evil but I could be a bad person as a woman too😭😭😭
Most of your beliefs are chill though I fuck with women not getting oppressed and shit
Edit: This was a dumb post please don’t hate me too much for it
yes, your elder queers WOULD kick your ass if you didn't support them. why would we let you in if you don't support us
"let me in"? does my lesbian card get revoked when i say men cant be womyn