Hey, I just wanted to say I can't imagine how hard it is growing up in middle school nowadays. I'm only a few years older than you but I know it was tough with the things that I went through when I was 13. Boys were all watching pornography and talked about it openly, they all called the girls sluts and whores even though pretty much none of them had slept with anybody yet. Creators like Andrew Tate and far right men didn't have the grasp on boys like they do now so those types of views weren't as widespread so I imagine you have to deal with those types of things much more and have to hear about it too and I think it must be so difficult to hear about at such a young age. When I was your age I was already concerned with being seen as a slut, nevermind other things like tradwife bs too.
I just hope you stay super safe, keep your head high and know that you are super worthy and try to not let any of the boys and girls in your life get you down. Make sure to take breaks from the internet if you need to, everywhere can be so negative. You don't have to be reduced to any stereotypes, you are literally only on the VERY start of the journey to discovering who you are as a person, and don't let negativity online or offline take that away from you <3
thank you so much <333 misogyny in schools is basically a universal experience for young girls its so sad, thank you for sharing your experience :))
average radfem post about trans people: the ideology is wrong, it’s bioessentialist, most tims r rapists, etc…
average trans person post about radfems: TERF SHOULD KILL THEMSELVES, IM GOING TO RAPE THEM AND MAKE THEM LIKE MY GIRLCOCK, I HAVE FANTASIES ABOUT RAPING AND KILLING THEM, THEY ARE SO STUPID, THEY ARE SO UGLY AND SUCH BITCHES!!!!
who said girls with honey blonde hair and highlights cant eat a chicken pot pie from KFC? 😒
My move for feminism is saying “if you’re wearing one” when asking female clients to remove their bra before a massage.
girl don't be sorry for not posting!! not posting on tumblr isn't the end of the world, just do what you gotta do!
ily nymph 😭
full offense but men earned their so-called loneliness epidemic.
call me a misandrist. i don't care. i used to give the libfem ''patriarchy hurts men too'' spiel and how that somehow excuses them for their social ineptitude. but i'm done. men absolutely brought this onto themselves. every conversation about it is just men soiling their pants over the unfairness over it all and not-so subtly implying that it's yet another issue for women to fix. because hell forbid men get a grip on the concept of self-critique and personal growth without women's emotional labour to guide them.
a factor in men's loneliness is their refusal to actually form meaningful connections with anyone, including each other. wail ''nobody cares about men'' until you're blue in the face, but truthfully, men don't even care about men.
a man will dismiss women's friendships with each other as petty, fake and silly but in the same breath he'll admit that he doesn't even know his bros. not their favourite colours, political views or worst fears. not even their surnames or birthdays. men even seem to take pride in this, like it's some quirky and hilarious male trait that women couldn't possibly understand.
if there's no meaningful discussion, no confiding and comforting and if you don't even know each other, you don't have a friendship, you have an acquaintance. and a circle of acquaintances around you is never going to fill your emotional cup.
so men, if you're lonely, make friends with each other. compliment each other. or don't, remain lonely for all i care. just leave women out of the mess you created and refuse to clean up.
100% i think if porn advertisements werent a thing porn addiction in teens would be less of a problem. thats how alot of teen boys are introduced to it.
It’s my business when men are forcing their girlfriends into anal sex. It’s my business when women are getting surgeries on their labia and breasts so they can look like model’s in playboy, its my business because young girls are being forced to act out porn scenes with their first boyfriends in case their boyfriends leave them or stop thinking that they’re hot, it’s my business when men are so gorged on porn they think a woman who doesn’t send nude pictures is weird, its my business when men are taking up-skirt photos and groping women, it’s my business when women are being forced to have sex without condoms so that it will feel better ‘for men’, because there are no condoms in porn scenes, its my business when women are lying and faking their orgasms because porn has taught men that sex is about THEIR pleasure, and that sex is just endlessly pumping their dick into a woman over and over again, it’s my business when I can’t look up anything on the internet without coming across advertisements for porn, its my business when I can’t look up any information on my sexual orientation without being overrun by porn even with the safe search on. Its my business, its my business, its my fucking business.
this is KILLING me right now how do you manage to make this about yourself
If we can all agree to call Robert Prevost by his new chosen name of Leo XIV then we can all call trans people by their chosen names. It’s not hard.
do you want any book recs? feminist or otherwise?
i was too scared to ask lol, yes id love that! :-)
you understand that right wing women is an example of radical feminists criticizing conservatives, right? that book isn't pro-right wing and andrea dworkin was a radical feminist
I have seen tras criticize conservatives but I've never seen a terf do the same.
Please criticize the conservatives you claim to hate🙏🙏🙏🙏
Right wing women? By Andrea dworkin? Hello? Terfs please fight fascists instead of less than 1% of the population
no no you see bitch can't be a misogynistic slur because i call men bitches too (i am insulting him by comparing him to a woman) 👍