the statements "clothes don't have gender" and "clothes can and do invoke gender dysphoria and euphoria for many people" can and should coexist.
Cheers to all the autistics whose special interest is autism itself;
Cheers to all the autistics whose special interest is any other condition they do or do not have;
Cheers to all the autistics whose special interest is seen as stereotypical within the community;
Cheers to all the autistics whose special interest is their job, career or degree;
Cheers to all the autistics whose special interest is a person, a group or a character;
Cheers to all the autistics whose special interest is a show, a movie or a series;
Cheers to all the autistics whose special interest is town, a country or another location;
Cheers to all the autistics whose special interest is an art or a craft, even if underrated;
Cheers to all the autistics whose special interest is an activity or a sport;
Cheers to all the autistics whose special interest hasn't been mentioned above;
Cheers to all the autistics who do not have a special interest;
Cheers to all the autistics who are still figuring out theirs;
Cheers to all the autistics.
"The actor did really well, we can almost feel what it is like to live as an autistic."
Right... And I definitely don't know what that's like...
(I'm in, guys; they haven't caught me yet)
For narrative: if you find it too confusing to use multiple pronouns for the same character when there are a lot of characters present and acting, you can switch pronouns each chapter — in chapter X you only use "he/him" and in chapter Y only "they/them", for example.
For dialogue: make a list of which pronouns you think other characters should address them by — this is also a nice detail about how your other characters view non-binarity (if it isn't normalized in the story) and even how they view the NB themself. While one character will use multiple pronouns for them, others might choose to only use one.
It's not that difficult, really
We need more non-binary characters who use multiple pronouns.
I understand why we often advise binary writers to only use they/them for non-binary characters and how it can be a little confusing to have multiple pronouns being used for a single character in narrative, but there's ways to make it less confusing and we should remind the world that:
1. not all enbies use they/them pronouns
2. not all enbies use ONLY they/them pronouns
Multiple pronouns, both for non-binary and even for binary characters is just accurate representation.
real people being partially closeted or ambiguous about their own sexuality while making Gay Art is not queerbaiting
Meltdowns aren't tantrums.
Burnout isn't procrastination.
Stims aren't pointless.
Shutdowns aren't just lack of attention.
Verbal shutdowns aren't a "silence treatment".
Hyperfixations aren't useless.
Special interests are more than obsessions.
Phobias aren't regular fears.
Panic attacks aren't controllable.
Self-harm isn't a trend.
[Large text: "Want to be part of a group blog on how to write neurodivergent characters?"]
I've found Tumblr blogs on writing physically disabled and POC characters, but nothing specifically for neurodivergence.
Maybe there is something I just haven't found yet, but even if so, I think the most resources the better.
So, hi! I'm Amethyst — amateur writer and neurodivergent, and now looking for people to help me out with this project.
I could try this on my own, but I would rather have other neurodivergents with me (especially with different conditions from mine)
Does anyone want to help me make a change?
I'm a hearing-able and "usually" verbal person, but since I'm autistic I sometimes go into verbal shutdown.
Both because of that and because I simply find sign languages to be important languages that should be more normalized around the globe, I really wanted to have the opportunity to learn my country's sign language properly.
However, whenever I mention that to certain people, they'll tell me it's useless and pointless because I don't know any deaf, hard-of-hearing or nonverbal individuals.
Like????? Excuse me?????
I don't know about other countries, but we don't have the chance to learn sign in Portuguese schools and I personally think we should be taught to communicate easily with everyone in our own country before being taught how to communicate with foreigns.
Sign languages are languages like any other. When my friends chose to learn French and German no one told them it was useless because they don't know any French or German people, so what's the big deal with sign language?
I apologize to any and every deaf, Deaf, hard-of-hearing, non-verbal or semiverbal person reading this for how rude some jerks out there can be.
(Also, sorry if hearing-abled isn't the correct term, I can’t really find an answer anywhere)
OK, so, I've heard many autists mention that they have abnormal levels of heat tolerance or, in other words, don't feel heat and cold with the same ease and intensity allistics do.
But I was wondering if anyone else is just specifically sensitive to either cold or heat.
Like, I feel cold very easily, but can wear a hoodie during summer with no problems and a friend of mine is the exact opposite.
Is this an autism thing or are we just weird?
The autistic mood of knowing you should ask questions back to people but only remembering hours/days after and wondering if they felt hurt or upset because of it.
She/He/They | Just a neurodivergent enby with lots of thoughts and a passion for literature (don't be shy; ask me about it) [pfp ID: a pannel from the My Hero Academia manga, which shows the character Nana Shimura, a female hero with black hair, over a white background. She is drawn in shades of gray and is looking at her right hand, which is raised at chest-level. Her hair and cape flow with the wind. End ID], [banner ID: a shade of lilac purple. End ID]
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