"I Have A Deeply Hidden And Inarticulate Desire For Something Beyond The Daily Life." -Virginia Woolf.

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আমাদের এক ফেমিনিস্ট বান্ধবী একদিন সিগারেট খাইতে খাইতে বলতেসিলো, অমুকের বয়ফ্রেন্ড নাকি ওরে ক্যাম্পাসের কোন ছেলেদের সাথে মিশতে দেয় না। এতো টক্সিক বাবারে বাবা!!

আর এই যে আমারে দেখ, আমি বিড়ি খাইয়া আমার ছেলেবন্ধুদের সাথে রাতে কনসার্ট দেখতে গেলেও আমার বয়ফ্রেন্ড কিছু বলে না। এতো উদার।

আমি জিগাইসিলাম, তো, তুই রাইতের বেলা তোর ছেলে বেস্টুদের লগে কনসার্ট দেখতে যাস না কেন?

বিড়ির ধোঁয়া ছাড়তে ছাড়তে তার হতাশ উত্তর, কারণ, আমারে কেউ নিতে চায় না।

সুন্দরী মেয়েদের বয়ফ্রেন্ডরা কেন পজেসিভ বা প্রোটেক্টিভ হয়, আর বিড়ি বা গাঞ্জা খাওয়া মেয়েদের বয়ফ্রেন্ডরা কেন এতো উদার হয়, সেই প্রশ্নটার উত্তর সেদিন থেকে আমি জানি।

রাণী রাসমণি আর রইস্যার নানী দুইজনই মেয়ে। রাণী রাসমনি এলিট, তার প্রতি সবার আগ্রহ আছে, স্বাভাবিকভাবেই তার নিরাপত্তার কনসার্ন বেশি হবে, প্রচুর বডিগার্ড থাকবে, প্রোটোকল থাকবে।

এখন ঐটা দেখে যদি রইস্যার নানী নাক সিটকায়ে বলে, "এহহ, ঢং দেখে আর বাঁচি না। এই রাস্তা দিয়ে আমিও তো দিনে দশবার হাটি, কই, আমার তো এতো বডিগার্ড লাগে না? ওর লাগে মানে ঐ মেয়ের নিশ্চয়ই সমস্যা আছে" তাহলে কেমনে হবে?

মানুষ সবাইকে একভাবে ট্রিট করে না। যে যত স্পেশাল, তারে নিয়ে মানুষের কনসার্ন বেশি থাকে, বেশি থাকে হারানোর ভয়ও।

এইজন্য সবার আগে সক্রেটিসের কথাটা মাথায় রাখা জরুরি। নো দাইসেল্ফ। নিজেকে জানতে হবে। আপনি রইস্যার নানী, ঐটা সমস্যা না। কিন্তু আপনি নিজে রইস্যার নানী হয়ে যখন আপনি সবাইকেই আপনার মতো নানী ভেবে বসেন, এবং সবাইকে কেন আপনার মতো করে ট্রিট করে না, ঐ প্রশ্ন করে বসেন, তাহলে কেমনে হবে?

Know the difference.

Happy women's day y'all girlies out there ♡♡♡

@rozatherella girl you inspire me the most ♡lobe u loads 🥺🫶

While scrolling I suddenly saw that someone was actually claiming that "sanjay leela bhansali is not a good director".

Bhai ap ek kaam kijiye, aap mumbai jaiye jake SLB ji se baat kijiye. Aur unse kaam mangiye. Aabh aap puchenge ki kaunsa kaam. Aap unse "personal adviser" ka kaam mangiye. Aapka kaam ek ghanta bhi nahi rahega janab.

That dumbo even said that "people started glorifying jauhar" bhai apka dimag ghutno pe hai kya? Alauddin Khalji Rani Padmavati ko apaharan karne wala tha.. Since he already won the war, Rani Padmavati understood that there is no other way to survive knowing Khalji had a huge lust for girls. She didnot had the urge to get physical abuse and die in the hands of a brutal person. That is the reason why she performed "jauhar". And you are talking about glorification? lemme explain. People glorified jauhar because it was no doubt a challenging work but she was not scared. Her bravery was glorified.

Now Heeramandi, Tawaiffs are like modern day Posh Prostitutes. And Tawaiffs were prostitutes. They used to dance, sing and after that they gave sexual pleasures to those rich men. Bro they are also human being. They need love as well. Again here Tawaiffs were not glorified their emotions were glorified in the series. And the world would die if there is a crisis of Tawaiifs or Prostitutes in the world. And because of these tawaiffs India got to know about kathak and other dance forms. Gajagamini and these types of walks were actually done by Tawaiffs. They were highly cultural. Some people even took there daughters to teach them dance. They were the most cultural people out there. Kathak and Mujra songs are famous for them.

Bro going around telling that "they have no power" I mean what type of power are you talking about? They had servants because they worked on their own. They didn't had to depend on anyone. And as mallika jaan said that, "chaand kisike banrande mein nahi ata, chaand ko doorse hi dekhna padhta hai". And girls were not wanting their lifes they were wanting this type of posh treatments my dear. Girls want to be treated like queens but they don't want to be tawaiffs. (I have huge respect for tawaiffs) No one wants to be a tawaiff they were forced to do that. And once again GIRLS WANTED THEIR POSH AND RICH LIFESTYLE NOT THEIR LIFESTYLE.

The moral of the story of Heeramandi is, we need to respect everyone in this world even the Tawaiifs and Prostitutes because if they don't exist men will die. And yes I have no shame.

And one more, They were ROYAL thats why ROYALTY was showcased my dear.

And yes SLB did films which were not royal but they were Royal by heart like "Black" , "Guzarish" and many more. And he has budget my friend. Everytime, he makes a come back after 4 to 5years because he choose projects which will touch the heart of every individual and he showcases Indian Cultural in his creation. That why SANJAY LEELA BHANSALI IS SANJAY LEELA BHANSALI.

"YEE SAKAL BAN, SAKAL BAN," , "GHOOMAR GHOOMAR GHOOMAR GHOOMAR GHOOME RE", "PINGA RA PORI PINGA RA PORI PINGAAA"

my favorite author edgar allan poe! His famous poem "alone". Give it a read, tears will come down automatically.

And all I loved, I loved alone.

Edgar Allan Poe

Didi you're like this song !!

A free and happy spirit 😊💙

😭😭😭😭😭😭 thankssss

~KONKALITOLA, KOPAYI NODI & JOMIDAR BARI~

Shantiniketan Trip:- Day-2

Konkalitola Mondir:-

Beautiful temple. My family didn't give puja because this year my grandmother expired, so "ashuch" . (curse in english I guess, don't know) I was sitting inside the temple area and saw that "Shautali Dance" was performed by the tribal women. I danced with them, clicked photos. I danced so well that they were calling me continuously🤭. I really had fun their. I even did my make up inside the temple area (because Pinush was giving me rush and yes girls take time to get ready). While doing my makeup I felt like the song "Chandi Jaisa Rang Hai Tera". I know I am not even a bit of that song but still I felt. (I am ugly as hell🙂 but still I felt like chandi jaisa rang). Anyways really felt calm and happy while dancing.

Kopayi Nodi:-

Rabindranath Thakur composed a poem "Amader Choto Nodi" which was based on Kopayi Nodi. Its really a "choto nodi, chole aake bake". I have nothing so say something about this nodi because its really beautiful. Speechless I am.

আমাদের ছোটো নদী চলে বাঁকে বাঁকে বৈশাখ মাসে তার হাঁটু জল থাকে। পার হয়ে যায় গোরু, পার হয় গাড়ি, দুই ধার উঁচু তার, ঢালু তার পাড়ি। চিক্ চিক্ করে বালি, কোথা নাই কাদা, একধারে কাশবন ফুলে ফুলে সাদা। কিচিমিচি করে সেথা শালিকের ঝাঁক, রাতে ওঠে থেকে থেকে শেয়ালের হাঁক।

~ রবীন্দ্রনাথ ঠাকুর

(I have posted a picture of "Bonolota". It is a villa which is named after Bonolota.)

Jomidaar Bari:-

Several shooting took place in this place. Its really huge. Shiv Pujo takes place in this house. I though that the Zee5 webseries "Shwetkali" shooting was done here but I was wrong. Anyways. I even clicked some photos inside the jomidar bari. I felt like I reached heaven, its was vintage and beautiful.

Thats all about day two. Had a lot of fun and gathered a lot of knowledge.

I bet day 3 blog will capture the heart of every reader.

Lemme tag my favorite Bengali's as well as other mutuals

@intellectual6666 @choppedphilosopherharmony @jukti-torko-golpo @piyakebazaar @anarkali-disco-chali @shyam-kariya @aapki-shayara @aapka-shayar @thecaffeinatedresearcher @enigma-the-mysterious

Dancing has its own set of emotion. When we dance alone, grooving in our own mismatched beats, hitting the edge of our mind with those sways, reaching the highest place in the universe while our body moves in a strange rhythm.

But, dancing with someone. Feeling the vibration of their body, connecting with ones mind while holding their hand and they slowly move their hand on our waist. One pull towards each other to feel the perfume and the need for each other. Moving our feet in the same motion. No, there's no need to be the best dancer there that night, it's all about feeling the dance run through your veins. Loving the tingling sensation it gives you. The urge which tells you to dance more and more till you satisfy all the Gods and goddesses. The love you feel for that one person grabbing your waist, making you feel the cold silver ring on your bare skin. The art of dance. The love for it.

THANKSS!! EII GAAN TAR MOTO LAGCHE NIJEKE!! 🤭

Fulfilling the expectations.. 💗🦋✨ Uttam Kumar🌻

PRETTY DESI HOUSE 🤌🏼🏡