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Hello AVPD community,, I have a proposal, a new term other than safe person and maybe another one,, i can't remember

Snug Person (SNP) — a person who is someone you can pretty reliably talk too, however you may need more time to reply to them and/or not be able to start a conversation with them by yourself. it's like a step below someone being a “safe person”. theyre comfortable for you to talk to and interact with but just slightly less close than a safe person

We specifically wanted to make it since we personally only have one safe person and then all of our other friends are just one step below that. we can't do all the things we can with our safe person with them, but they're still safer than most other people and we love them all the same

Also we chose the word “Snug” for two main reasons,, one, its another word for comfortable, which is what we were originally going to call it,, and two, because it sounds safe, and cozy, and like you two are just going to cuddle,, which is something i personally adore