Signs that you’re living in abuse:
Behavioral patterns of living in abuse
Was I abused? Checklist
Not knowing you are a victim
Signs your family is abusive
Making excuses for your abusive parents
Experience of living in secrecy
What they taught you was abuse
Emotional experiences of living in abuse
Shame and guilt: how abused children feel
What makes parents abusers (actions)
Have I been manipulated into believing abuse was my fault? Checklist
Am I being held hostage by abusers? Checklist
You are not allowed to mention the past
Why you still love abusive parents
Parental behaviour that isn’t normal
Shit parents aren’t supposed to say to you
Experience of “not belonging anywhere”
Red flags for abusive parents
Healthy vs Abusive Chores
Was my childhood abusive or just had some bad parts?
Rules always change (unpredictable environment is abusive)
Breakdown of abusive parent’s behaviour:
“This is my house” rule
Start living in the real life!
Why all the children aren’t abused equally in an abusive home
Common abuser hypocrisies
Do your parents want you to be happy or look happy?
Why do they try to convince you that you’re worthless
Why do they pretend you’re a burden? Controlling behaviour
Why your abusers are not good people
Abusive parents are keeping you in false hope they’ll change
Are your parents preventing you from succeeding?
Abusive parents pretending “it wasn’t that bad”
Double Bind (why every choice you make ends wrong)
Incorporating trauma in raising children
Abusers will not allow you to call them out on abuse
Signs your parents are narcissistic:
Stuff delusional narcissists say
Shit narcissistis parents say
Recognizing emotional immaturity of narcissistic parents
Examples of narcissistic behaviours
Being punished for growing up by narcissistic parents
What children of narcissists go thru
Signs you’ve been thru sexual abuse:
CSA (Childhood Sexual Abuse) Symptoms
Signs you might have endured CSA
Was I sexually abused by adults as a child? Checklist
Signs of abusive friendship/relationship:
How to tell if a friend is not a friend
Am I in an abusive relationship/friendship? Checklist
Manufacturing insecurities
Red flags for abusers
Have I been thru social abuse? Checklist
You can recognize abusers by how they make you feel
How abusive childhood teaches you to stay in abusive relationships
Recognizing abusive friendship
Signs you’re struggling with trauma
Trauma processing information
Experiences of traumatized children
Signs you’re recovering from long term abuse
Things abuse survivors think/say
Thoughts of victims of child abuse
Your brain on trauma
How long term childhood abuse develops into complex trauma (comic)
Ups and downs of trauma
A fat fucking fish
what would those of you who celebrate like for fishmas
question: do you guys even like hooty
The Demigods
Born from a noble father, they were raised to be monarchs in all meaning and might. They were taught how to manipulate space, time, and all sorts of living flesh. They were taught they were fated to be the lonely rulers of whole worlds, that the thrive or the ruin of billions of souls would lay in their spindly and tenacious hands.
But since the start, a special bond joined them together. Aside their fellow schoolars, all of them bloated in vain ambitions and divinity delusions, they shared the primal desire of love. So they held each other in their teachings and grew wise and dutiful, knowing their designed crows of Subjects would very likely share such powerful passions to drive them far in the duties to favour the Empire of Man.
But with wisdom sorrow came. They were fated to be separated, to be tasked each to take care of a distant world, likely to never be seen again.
Thus that was how it was, and centuries of silent misery and godly sandess happened for them.
Until a day, someone had a visit. Diplomacy, they said. Important subjects, they said. It didn't matter at all. The moment their glances met they knew who was standing at them. Their heavy robes fell away as they fiercely galouped like the wild mounts of old age one towards the other until they hit midway in a fierce clash.
Scandal and unrest of their godly authorities could wait a little more, because the demigods, for first time in aeons, had each other again.
Kind of a funny thing as someone who perused old detrans tumblr and current detrans twitter is that a lot of these detransitioners are formerly "truscum," and not the "trenders" many truscum fought for years saying trenders were faking being trans, would ruin their bodies transitioning and regret it forever, would destroy trans people's often volatile reputation in society at large, and were just taking part in a fashion or fad. Now we get years down the line and many accused of "trending" for various reasons (gender nonconformity being a big one) are happier than ever in final stages of transitioning while former truscum populate internet detrans spaces. I would say it is ironic but I feel that would discounting the fact that it's very sad many of these people have transitioned and.. realized it wasnt what they needed. And during that process projected their feelings onto others, aggressively accusing them of faking being trans, not being trans in the right way, not needing to transition, not meeting oft-arbitrary standards and stereotypes etc etc.. this connection with obsessing over trenders and ending up reidentifying/detransing is clear as day.
Potato mine… JUMPING WEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!! (bOUNCY BoUnCY!!)
reblog if you’re scared of your parent(s).
Amity kills the owl tube.
AU where everything is the same except Flower doesn’t have her stickman body
Traumagenic System| Body is 14 years old of age| transfem| Filipina cartoonist| doing shit
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