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Non-Cheating Hotwife Challenge

This is for a non-cheating “Hotwife”.  These dares involve flirting and risqué behavior only which are designed to increase trust, confidence, desire, appreciation, lust, intimacy and FUN in the marriage. NO ACTUAL CHEATING TAKES PLACE!! Make up your own “rewards” for achieving certain point levels.  

 1 Point

 #1 – Suck a lollipop seductively in public.

 #2 - Play naughty ‘truth or dare.’

 #3 – Send your hubby a kinky pic of you while shopping.

 #4 - Let your hubby take sexy pics of you flashing in public.

 #5 - Talk to someone on the phone whilst you use a dildo or a vibrator.  Bonus point if it’s one of your husband’s  friends or a male family member.

 2 Points

 #6 - Go out in public in a short skirt with no panties.  Bonus point if you bend over with people around!

 #7 - Wear a skirt and remove your panties in public not far from people.

 #8- Get your hubby a cock cage and lock him up while you dress provocatively all week.

 #9 – Role-play that your hubby is a stranger and you’re a horny, cheating wife.

 #10 - Flash your boobs to a stranger.  Bonus point if it’s “accidentally” to a male acquaintance!

 3 Points

 #11 – Eye fuck a guy. Bonus point if it’s in front of your husband!

 #12 – “Forget” to wear your bra in public when it’s somewhat noticeable.

 #13 – Wear a loose fitting top in public.  Bend over in front of attractive people.  Bonus point if no bra!

 #14 - Have your hubby make his dick bigger with a penis extender and role-play that he’s a big-dicked stranger.

 #15 – Tell your hubby he can cum only at the thought of you with another man.

 4 Points

 #16 - Go out without a bra on while wearing a sexy shirt with your hubby.

 #17 - Hubby picks out a revealing outfit for you for the day. Whenever you catch someone looking, smile.  At the end of the day, tell your hubby about it while he strokes himself.

 #18 - Flirt with another man while you’re seated.  Cross your legs slowly as you talk and see his reaction. Bonus point if you’re wearing a skirt/dress. 5 bonus points if wearing a skirt/dress and no panties!

 #19 – Flirt strongly with a girl.  Tell your husband all about it if he’s not there.  Bonus point if your hubby is present!

 #20 – Go to dinner with a low cut top and your tits out.  Put your tits on display every time the server comes to your table.  Bonus point if the server gets caught obviously looking!

 5 Points

 #21 – In front of people (strangers or acquaintances), say slutty things.

 #22 - Get a lap dance at a strip club with your husband watching.

 #23 – “Accidently” show someone a hot pic of you while showing them something on your phone.

 #24 - Get hit on and picked up by a hot guy.  Your hubby can “rescue” you at the right time.

 #25 - Go to dinner with your husband.  After the meal, slip your panties off and sit at the bar and flirt with other men as he watches.

 6 Points

 #26 - Go out without a bra on while wearing a sexy shirt without your hubby.

 #27 - Go out in public with a remote vibrator in you and talk to attractive guys.  Your hubby watches and controls it.

 #28 - Dress revealing.  Look at an attractive guy until he looks away.  Bonus point if he approaches you!

 #29 - Make up a story about getting it on with another girl while you give your hubby a handjob until he cums.  

 #30 - Have an anonymous dirty conversation with a stranger online.

 7 Points

 #31 – Time how quickly your hubby cums when you talk about:

a.   Fucking another man

b.  Sucking another man

c.   Him and a stranger (guy or girl) sharing you

 #32 - At a party, leave at least one extra button unbuttoned.  

 #33 – Make up a story about fucking or sucking another guy while you give your hubby a handjob until he cums.  

 #34- Wear a button-up top.  Hubby dictates how much cleavage is shown.  Smile and flirt with every person that looks. At the end of the day, tell your hubby about it while you blow him.

 #35 – Next girls’ night out, wear a dress or skirt with no panties.

 8 Points

 #36 – Hubby gives you money to buy new shoes.  Wear a skirt with no panties while trying them on while someone assists you.

 #37 - Wear a short skirt, dress or revealing top with no wedding ring. Have fun and see how much attention you get.  Share it with your husband as you stroke him.

 #38 - Have your hubby fuck you slowly while you tell him a made-up fantasy about fucking someone else.

 #39 - Use a vibrator while watching porn (any genre - your choice) while describing how hot the guy is or how big his cock is while your husband is forced to masturbate.  

 #40 – Fuck in the bathroom of a club or bar after flirting with strangers.

 9 Points

 #41 – Tell your hubby a made up story about having sex with someone else while he fingers you.  Bonus point if it’s a true story from your past and you let him know!

 #42 - “Accidentally” rub against a guy’s dick through his pants with your hand or ass.

 #43 - Wear a short skirt.  Do things like crossing your legs, adjusting your shoes, etc. to see if any strangers try and look up the skirt.  If you catch them, smile.  Bonus point if no panties!

 #44 - Dress sexy and sit at a bar by yourself.  Smile, flirt, bend over, etc. as your hubby watches.  Then go home with your hubby and fuck!

 #45 – Hubby dresses you as he sees fit.  Go out and do whatever he asks.

 10 Points

#46 - On a girls’ night out, send your husband pictures of you flirting and having fun with other men.

 #47 - Get 3 guys to buy you a drink at the bar.  Do whatever it takes to make it happen!

 #48 - Go to a club and dance with another man while your husband watches.

 #49- Go out without your hubby, flirt with strangers, and keep texting your husband giving him updates about it.

 #50 - Wear sexy, tight, short or revealing clothes when his friends are over.  Do things like bending over, etc. to show it off! See how often you both catch them sneaking peeks.

Married eight years. Our first and only visit to a club went really bad. We had agreed to just check the place out and watch people. No sex.

We got there around six for a required orientation. We brought two bottles of wine and because we were nervous we drank them pretty fast. Almost nobody talked to us for a good two hours after getting shown around. The club didn't pack out until around ten. Essentially we were nervous wallflowers, but having fun people watching. We walked around and watched people in the open rooms. It was hot, but really weird. Eventually we ended up again in the main club room people watching, but with no wine. As we were discussing leaving a nice couple sat down and after saying we were out of wine and about to leave they offered to share. It was BYOB is why we had no wine at that point.

We sat and drank more and I was really tipsy. Somehow they talked us into going to a private room to soft swap.

It was my first bisexual experience. I'm still processing that part. Soft swapping turned into full swapping. I was worried my husband would be jealous. I was so nervous and it was so weird of an experience that I didn't enjoy it much. It was exciting, but not fulfilling. It didn't last long. The whole thing was maybe fifteen minutes. The couple immediately bailed on us.

My husband and I talked a bit. We both were ok with what happened. We both were nervous and both a bit jealous. He was sad I hadn't had an orgasm. Promised to give me one when he recuperated.

We went back to the main room. Lots of people mingling at that point. Most had already had sex. It seemed an in between time for a lot of people.

Another couple chatted us up and somehow it ended up with the wife offering me the husband because my husband said I hadn't had the big O yet that night. My husband said I could go with the man if that was what I wanted. Drunkenly I took this as a real go ahead. I went with the guy to a room with maybe 10 people in it. An open play area. We had sex and I got attention from others. It was exciting and even though I was still nervous and freaking out inside I orgasmed after just a few minutes. I had to turn people down from joining in while I was having sex. One guy though was possibly the hottest guy I'd ever seen and I let him touch. When the man I was with came I started kissing the other guy. We ended up having sex too. I was just thinking "I've had sex with three men tonight." It was good, but I couldn't orgasm again.

Afterwards I went back out to the main room. My husband was sullen and alone. He said he'd tried to go find me, but without a woman with him he wasn't allowed past the first couple play rooms. He'd been worried and had spent most of the time sitting by himself. I'd been gone over an hour. He hadn't wanted me to go and said we'd agreed to stick together one hundred percent of the time.

It was obvious even in my drunken state he was mad and jealous even though he said worried. The drive home was almost silent. I'm not sure he should have been driving, but didn't want to start an argument.

The swinger experience was his big fantasy for a couple years before this event. I had in one night doubled the amount of lifetime sexual partners I'd ever had. I'd also done most of it by myself without him there. He'd had ten minutes of awkward sex with a woman who was more into me than him.

He used to talk about it constantly and always wanted us to do it. I liked the idea secretly, but always said no because of jealousy.

Now I know we could have had a great time in the lifestyle, but I ruined it by not sticking to our plan.

We barely talk in bed now. No mention of swinger type things. We've not discussed the night in depth either. It has been two months. Lessons learned.

1000%!