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i wanna make a house of the dragon dr but like with none of the plot thats happening i cannot live with allat
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How To Finally Shift If Youâve Been Trying For 2+ Years
â ď¸ Little warning before we begin: donât get scared off! I might sound a little negative at first, but thatâs not the point of this post. My goal is for you to reach the end of this and think âOh, Iâm definitely going to shift to my DR now!â
Having said that:
If youâve been on your shifting journey for two or more years, doing methods, reprogramming your mind, consuming advice, maintaining a mental diet, manifesting, forcing assumptions, trying to create assumptions, etc, etcâ¤and you still havenât shifted your awareness to your DR, maybe itâs time to stop trying to make yourself shift.
Stop trying to shift.
Stop trying to trigger a shift.
Maybe the thing you need at this point in your journey is to stop trying to make yourself shift.
And Iâll explain why by asking you a question:
In these two, three, four, however many years of effort, donât you think you would have shifted by now?
Think about it. Youâve oversaturated your mind with the intention to shift. You do all your methods correctly. You try to convince yourself that you're already in your DR. You feel symptoms. Sometimes you even "mini shift." And yet⌠you're still here. Doing the same things. Searching for advice that leads you right back to doing the same thing:
Trying to shift. Trying to trigger a shift. Trying to shift your awareness.
Trying.
Trying confidently.
Trying hopelessly.
Trying angrily.
âŚTrying.
If you were going to shift by inducing a shift, triggering a shift, or successfully shifting with a method, it would have happened by now.
âBut Clover, I still have a lot of soul-searching and work to do! I just need to put in more effort!â
Awesome! Then click away, because this advice isnât for you. Iâm not talking to you.
Iâm talking to the person who is tired. Who is drained. Who, despite applying all the sage advice on the internet, is just burnt out from the process of shifting.
And if that sounds like you, let me repeat: Maybe you need to stop actively trying to shift.
Your work is done. And thatâs a good thing.
Youâve spent years ingraining the idea of shifting into your subconscious. Youâve impressed the intention to shift so deeply that itâs already there. Congratulations! You did all the mental work. Itâs done.
Your DR is already yours. You already have the ability to shift.
So stop trying to trigger it. Stop trying to make yourself shift.
Let go of the âmaking yourself shiftâ process.
âOh my god, sheâs going to tell me to take a break.â
LMAO you thought.
Yes, breaks are excellent. They help reset and recharge your mindset. I always encourage taking breaks if you need them. But letâs be honest. Sometimes, even the thought of taking a break feels just as mentally exhausting as staying on your shifting journey.
âOh no, sheâs going to tell me to do nothing at all.â
Once again, you thought.
Instead, youâre going to capitalize on the fact that youâve already done all this work. The intention to shift is always, always, always in your mind. Your subconscious knows you want to shift. Just like it knows how to shift your awareness.
So, the next time you lay down to do your shifting process...
Instead of trying to shiftâŚ
Instead of trying to induce a shift, induce the void, or force an outcomeâŚ
Give yourself exactly what you want.
Give yourself the feeling of being in your DR.
Drop the conscious, active intention to shift because your subconscious already has it covered. You donât need to keep hammering it in. Instead, focus on inducing the emotions you would feel if you were in your DR.
Imagine waking up in your DR. Imagine being there. Imagine spending time with your DR friends, your S/O, whatever makes you happiest. Personally, I lean toward wake-up scenarios. You can listen to music, meditate, visualize, even do a shifting method if you enjoy itâbut instead of doing it with the intention to shift, youâre doing it just to give your body and mind the feeling of being there. The happiness, the calm, the excitement, whatever it is for you.
This does not mean youâre lying there thinking, âOkay, this is going to make me shift.â
No. No, no, no, no, no.
Drop the idea of shifting entirely. That process is done.
And Iâll say it one more time:
If you were going to shift by inducing a shift, making yourself shift, or triggering a shift, it would have happened already.
So let it go. Drop it.
Induce the emotions of being in your DR, and then let go. Once you do that, go to sleep. Or go about your day. Thatâs it.
Because feeling is the language of the subconscious.
Think about it: The moments in your life that shaped you the most werenât just things you thought. They were things you felt deeply. Joy, fear, excitement, grief. Emotions imprint on the subconscious. Thatâs why certain smells, songs, or places instantly bring back vivid memories. Because your subconscious records experiences based on emotions, not logic.
So when you stop trying to shift and instead just focus on feeling like youâre in your DR, your subconscious responds by aligning your awareness to match that emotional state.
Because to the subconscious, thereâs no difference between imagination and reality. When you visualize something vividly enough, your brain fires the same neurons as if you were actually experiencing it. Athletes use this trick to enhance performance. Musicians use it to refine their skills. And guess what? It works for shifting too.
When you let go of the effort and just immerse yourself in the emotions of already being there, you bypass the resistance that trying creates.
And thatâs when the shift happens.
It happens because you stopped forcing it.
It happens because your subconscious already knows how to shift, you just needed to get out of its way.
So, again, drop the struggle. Drop the effort. Stop trying to shift.
The more precise or perfect you want the shift to be, the more pressure you put on yourself. Your brain rebels against that because rigid control drains energy.
Remember this:
When you feel something strongly but arenât clinging to the result, your subconscious has room to act. This is why sometimes, when you care less or focus on something in a passing, emotional way, it manifests easily.
This is why people can give up on shifting entirely and shift. This is why people let go of the need to shift and shift. This is why you shift without meaning to.
You: âNo, I canât do this! I need to keep trying to shift or else my subconscious will think I donât want to shift anymore!â
Me:
*As always, take what resonates, discard what doesnât, because weâre all different people who need to hear different things :)
ăă. . . stop putting pressure on shifting and loa ๨ŕ§Â iâm begging. hands and knees. nicole-kidman-in-babygirl-level pathetic. all work and no play makes jack a dull boy. all pressure and no silliness makes you a shifting chokehold artist. not cute. not camp. so why are you treating shifting like some corporate ladder youâve got to climb in one go? why are you looking at loa like itâs a performance review waiting to tank?Â
shifting is supposed to be fun!!!!!!!!! itâs supposed to feel like giggling at 3 am about how youâre gonna waltz into some alternate reality and seduce a fictional character. itâs supposed to be the kind of ridiculous that makes you laugh out loud because, youâre trying to script what your hair smells like in another world. thatâs the magic. itâs light. itâs playful. itâs camp as hell. youâre allowed to have fun, to mess around, to let it all feel easy. you donât have to wake up every day and white-knuckle your affirmations like itâs a legal deposition. shifting is meant to be yours. dreamy, light, free!!!! like a little skip in the clouds. not something that makes your stomach knot.
when youâre treating shifting like some corporate KPI or the olympics of manifestation, youâre missing the point. stop squeezing so tight. youâre not building a seven-figure empire; youâre daydreaming with a purpose. stop choking it. breathe. unclench. shifting isnât the SATs. there are no bonus points for being the most serious or stressed about it.
you wanna know what works? what really works?????? not taking it so seriously. take the pressure off. thereâs power in absurdity, in letting yourself be a little silly. lean into the fun. play around with the idea of it. laugh at yourself. go outside, sit under a tree, eat something sweet, let your brain daydream for the hell of it. shifting works better when youâre not treating it like an unpaid internship. loosen your grip. loosen your mind. loosen you. shifting is not your boss. loa is not your boss. youâre in charge here. and frankly, if youâre not spilling a drink while scribbling in your journal or dancing to some unhinged playlist about your dr, youâre doing it wrong.
loosen up. let it be fun. you are not shifting wrong because you laughed too much or didnât meditate for 45 minutes in lotus position. joy is an amplifier. camp is an amplifier. being a little ridiculous IS AN amplifier!!!!!!!!
and hereâs the tipsy genius bit iâll drop, margarita in hand BECAUSE I NEED YOU TO UNDERSTAND THIS!!!!!! shifting isnât about proving anything to anyone, including yourself. itâs about creating magic, and magic thrives on curiosity, silliness, and the occasional over-the-top flair. so get out there and be a little unhinged about it. script something stupid. throw glitter on your vision board. vibe with it. donât choke it out. youâre doing great. keep going, but for godâs sake, keep it silly.
youâre already everything you need to be. youâre already on your way. just let it be fun. before you know it, you'll be having fun in your dr too.
How do you get over the fear of never shifting
how to get over the fear of never shifting?
right, so youâre afraid youâll never shift. youâre staring down the barrel of an eternal non-event, the metaphysical equivalent of a dinner party where the host never shows and youâre left nursing a warm gin and wondering why you ever put on shoes. the fear, then, is not just about shifting. itâs about stagnation, about the existential itch that nothing will ever happen to you, that you are, in the grand scheme of things, a closed-loop system with no exit ramp. itâs about the dread of being one of those people who say they want to do things and then never do them, like men who buy poetry books and never turn past the preface.
letâs establish something !!! this isnât a you problem. this is an everyone problem. but listen. listen. that doesnât mean nothing is happening. the want itself is movement. the yearning is proof of life.
but fear can be embarrassing. the fear is what stops you from talking about it in public. the fear is what makes you try to force it, and forcing it never works. this is a truth universally acknowledged, like how the people who tell you to âjust relaxâ are always the ones who never have to try at anything.
so, how do you get over it? you donât. not in the way youâre thinking.
you donât kill it, or banish it. what you do is you turn the volume down. you remind yourself that shifting is not a limited resource, it is not an exclusive club. you reframe it, because fear, at its core, is a trick of perspective. if you treat shifting like a test youâre doomed to fail, then congratulations, you have built yourself a failure machine. if you treat it like a game, like a book you can open and step into at will, then suddenly it becomes something else entirely, something less cruel, less elusive. something possible.
and listen, i could do the whole inspirational speech thing, the "trust the process," "it happens when you least expect it," "insert comforting platitude here. you can do it, you're always doing it, bla bla bla." but thatâs not what you need. what you need is this: shifting is a skill. sort of. itâs not a mystery, not some divine lottery where the lucky few get golden tickets to willy wonka's chocolate factory and the rest of us are left behind in the cold. itâs a skill, which means it can be developed, honed, mastered. and if you can accept that, then suddenly, the fear loses its fangs. it becomes background noise, static on the radio. it becomes something you can live with, something you can drown out with the sheer audacity of your wanting.
so, the next time the fear comes knocking, let it in. let it sit at your table. but do not let it drive. do not let it make the rules. because the fear, when you really break it down, is just this: a refusal to believe in your own capacity for transformation. and if thereâs one thing i know about you, itâs that youâve never been one to stay the same.
I'm so obsessed with him, his name, his face, his neck, his shoulders, his arms, his hands, his chest, his torso, his waist, his legs, his blood, his veins, his voice, his voice, the way he speaks, the LANGUAGES he speaks, his thoughts, his thought process, the way he carries himself, his passion for his hobbies and career, the way he smiles, I'm so awestruck.
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had a dream abt the walking dead which reminded me exactly why i dont shift there
Found this on tiktok !!
saw a tiktok saying how disgusting kings landing is and im sorry im gonna have to script that out- you could not pay me to be there !!